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"But generally it seems to be the members with next to no info and very vague profiles saying I'm a "copy and paste kinda guy"." Well, you'd expect that, because no info on their profile means you can't tailor your message to them. It's probably not worth wasting a long message on those people. | |||
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"It's so hard to figure out because "it depends" There is no perfect message, no one size fits all. Different folks use this site for different reasons and in different ways. What one person wants to hear or see, another won't like at all. I have some standards for who and what kinds of messages I'll reply to, but they are not universal, and sharing them won't help you at all unless the type of woman you want is the exact same kind of weird as me." I guess that's the important thing to remember. There is no perfect one size fits all message because we are all individuals. Every message should be different and individual aimed at that one person only. | |||
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"But generally it seems to be the members with next to no info and very vague profiles saying I'm a "copy and paste kinda guy". Well, you'd expect that, because no info on their profile means you can't tailor your message to them. It's probably not worth wasting a long message on those people." This If they are vague, then keep your message brief, they may still want to meet but get bored with a wall of text. | |||
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"I think a lot of men here would be more successful if they spent a bit more time being selective in considering what they want and only messaging women that really intrigue them, rather than every woman with a set of photos that make their dick twitch. Waiting for the twitching to stop before hitting send would likely improve the messages sent too " Probably the best piece of advice here | |||
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