FabSwingers.com forum: Getting into club scene?

By *bear23 OP Man
49 weeks ago

hereford

Hi everyone! So me and my fwb have talked about going to a club for the first time,same room swapping meeting others etc she’s new to the idea and so am I. We are based in Herefordshire, looking for some advice about where to go and what is involved.

Thanks in advance

By *izzy.Woman
49 weeks ago

Stoke area

"Hi everyone! So me and my fwb have talked about going to a club for the first time,same room swapping meeting others etc she’s new to the idea and so am I. We are based in Herefordshire, looking for some advice about where to go and what is involved.

Thanks in advance "

I can't advise you about what clubs are in your area, but look at the Club Reviews section, see where the clubs are in your area and check reviews and look at the relevant websites.

Consider if you want a dress down club or prefer to stay more covered. Do you want a busy party night or a bit quieter. Possibly avoid an evening when single guys are there. In some clubs they are well managed and know how to behave; in others a minority can be a nuisance. Don't go with the expectation that you'll swap on that first visit. That means you need 4 way attraction. I'd advise you to go along and just chat to people, watch goes on and maybe find a private room for the two of you, or play in an area where you can be watched. Don't put pressure on yourselves on that first visit. Hope that gives you a few things to think about.

By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

I go to clubs with the mentality that it's a big social where sex can happen.

No means no, it's all totally upto yourselves what you do and how far you take it.

By *ich_and_LizCouple
48 weeks ago

Spain

Go to somewhere like Chams in Darlaston, perhaps on a Saturday night first when it’s couples only. Don’t go with the expectation of playing but as if you are going down the pub for an erotic evening.

The atmosphere is superb and relaxed and just get to know people and then who knows things may happen!