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Can you help? Taking the first steps

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By *uythetraveller OP   Man
48 weeks ago

Manchester

Hi

I'm looking to see how you take the first steps into finding suitable play friends either on here or in clubs?

I'm trying to understand the good bits people do as I'm keen to meet but find it a bit awkward on where to start or ask people..

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By *issmorganWoman
48 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op,

I'd say read profiles carefully and message people who you like the look of and who seem to be a good fit for you & see where it leads.

Avoid just a hi or asking to meet too early & just introduce yourself, maybe refer to something in their profile.

I can only speak for me, but this are the type of messages I prefer to receive.

Good luck.

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By *uythetraveller OP   Man
48 weeks ago

Manchester

Thank you. That's what I try and do.

It's interesting to see what people think and what each holds important.

It can feel like a minefield at times.

How do you know approach the topic of playing with someone or asking if they are bi or want to engage in bi play?

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By *issmorganWoman
48 weeks ago

Calderdale innit


"Thank you. That's what I try and do.

It's interesting to see what people think and what each holds important.

It can feel like a minefield at times.

How do you know approach the topic of playing with someone or asking if they are bi or want to engage in bi play? "

That's a Tricky one, I'm straight so I've never done that.

The problem is that what people put on their profiles and what they are, aren't always the same.

There are lots of men and women here who write straight when they aren't.

I guess it's a matter of finding the honest ones and chatting about how they play etc.

I think just go with the flow and if you hit it off ask if they'd fancy meeting and what they'd be comfortable with etc.

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By *uythetraveller OP   Man
48 weeks ago

Manchester

It is a minefield as I say haha

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By *uythetraveller OP   Man
48 weeks ago

Manchester

Thanks for your comments.. I do appreciate them and it's nice to have people join in the conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Take a genuine interest in who you're messaging, it goes a massively long way and you'd be surprised how many guys on here can't grasp that concept. We get inundated with the usual "Hey, wanna meet now?"/ "can I fuck Mrs?" Messages and it gets very tedious. As for bi play, we're very upfront about our interest in bi-fun and would only play with people that are open about it too. Huge turn off when people secretly admit they want to try it, or worse, when they pretend to be interested in bi just to get their leg over with Mrs.

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