FabSwingers.com forum: Find my first Couple

By *ustchancer OP Man
48 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Looking to find a couple that would let me join them. Any advice where to find instead of constantly messaging and getting nowhere.

I literally don’t know what my boundaries are so I’d like them to be open. It’s definitely hard to not come across to much as a single man in any first message

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By *rpeggioCouple
48 weeks ago

Baughurst

Go to a club. Go to a social. Talk to couples. Have no expectations to play there and then. Just met people talk and learn and enjoy.

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By *aomilatteCouple
48 weeks ago

Midlands

Family photo's in the background will put many off. A club night that allows "single" guys may be your best chance. You'll need to be chatty though, guy's that go to club's and just stand and watch rarely get some fun.

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By *ustchancer OP Man
48 weeks ago

Portsmouth

I’m definitely chatty lol and I definitely wouldn’t stand and watch haha! I’d go to clubs but I really want that environment where we can build it up. It’s not just a threesome (can arrange them quite easily) I want it’s a couple who we can push further if u get me, thanks for the advice though x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
48 weeks ago

Leeds

It’s definitely hard to not come across to much as a single man in any first message"

The thing is, you are a single man. I don't understand how you hope to come across otherwise

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By *allySlinkyWoman
48 weeks ago

Leeds

" It’s not just a threesome (can arrange them quite easily) "

Maybe you could have an easily arranged threesome to get a verification and then couples might be more inclined to meet you.

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By *ustchancer OP Man
48 weeks ago

Portsmouth

" It’s not just a threesome (can arrange them quite easily)

Maybe you could have an easily arranged threesome to get a verification and then couples might be more inclined to meet you. "

I was verified on an old account but not this one. Tbh I’ve had a few meets and I’ve always known each other so didn’t review or verify. But maybe I should next time. Thanks x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
48 weeks ago

Leeds

How about getting these people you have previously met to verify your new profile ?

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By *ustchancer OP Man
48 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Yeah and have some fun whilst I ask them aswell. Good idea ??

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By *allySlinkyWoman
48 weeks ago

Leeds

I literally don’t know what my boundaries are "

In previous meets have you ever said no to anything ?

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By *ustchancer OP Man
48 weeks ago

Portsmouth

No never but they’ve been fairly relaxed tbh x

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By *un guy300Man
48 weeks ago

Carmarthen

" It’s not just a threesome (can arrange them quite easily)

Maybe you could have an easily arranged threesome to get a verification and then couples might be more inclined to meet you. "
they are not easy to find though lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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48 weeks ago

East Sussex

You want to meet a couple regularly? That might prove a bit difficult. I know some couples do look for that dynamic with a single man though.

I can't really suggest any ways to make it happen except just keep messaging the people you think might be suitable and be prepared to meet socially a couple of times to establish both your intentions.

Good luck

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By *ustchancer OP Man
48 weeks ago

Portsmouth

" It’s not just a threesome (can arrange them quite easily)

Maybe you could have an easily arranged threesome to get a verification and then couples might be more inclined to meet you. they are not easy to find though lol"

With 2 girls they are

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By *allySlinkyWoman
48 weeks ago

Leeds

Do you have any tips for less successful single men ?

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By *heelerMan
48 weeks ago

Northants

"Looking to find a couple that would let me join them. Any advice where to find instead of constantly messaging and getting nowhere.

I literally don’t know what my boundaries are so I’d like them to be open. It’s definitely hard to not come across to much as a single man in any first message"

I think couples would contact you if they like the look of you.

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