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By *ev23555 OP Man
over a year ago

Darlington

Hi I'm new to this and would love some help if anyone can that would be great thanks

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What do you want help with?

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By *inacolada3Couple
over a year ago

kettering

Always store cans of bakebeans upside down x

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By *enk15Man
over a year ago

Evesham

Here's some advice from someone who shouldn't be giving it out

1) Have a profile pic

2) Treat others as human beings

3) Be able to accept rejection

4) Patience

5) Don't be a twat

Best of luck out there

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Your profile is your shop window to stand out amongst the other 10000's of single guys, make it good.

Look at local social events to get verified easily.

Don't expect sex, nudes or much else.

Effort in = effort out

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile is your shop window to stand out amongst the other 10000's of single guys, make it good.

Look at local social events to get verified easily.

Don't expect sex, nudes or much else.

Effort in = effort out

Mrs "

Even if its effort in = effort out

Have zero expectations. Just be you

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

remember your a guy in a very overcrowed scene ie men out number cwomen and couples by huge amounts ...

advice about you or your profile is pointless only you know you and if you cant work that out then you stand zero chance on this scene..

get used to rejection because there will be pleanty of it ... sexual attraction of some sorts is needed women and couples will no fuck anything its a lifestyle scene therre will be no sex on a plate...

most men who join this scene get zero from it this is a fact and you need to face it ..

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I've found attending club is best bet, nothing guaranteed but I've had a few plays, just have to accept won't always happen, just chat and socialise sometimes

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By *ionaScarletTV/TS
over a year ago

Dundee

"Always store cans of bakebeans upside down x "

*immediately runs off to turn over all the cans in the cupboard*

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By *inacolada3Couple
over a year ago

kettering

"Always store cans of bakebeans upside down x

*immediately runs off to turn over all the cans in the cupboard*"

When you crack them bad boys open you dont get any stuck at the bottom x.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Hi I'm new to this and would love some help if anyone can that would be great thanks "

What sort of help do you need ?

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

Don't be put out by the negative comments you get when you ask for advice.

You have the same opportunity that every other guy has on here and it's up to you to make the most of it.

Good photos. Honest bio. Go to social events. That's all you need.

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By *ev23555 OP Man
51 weeks ago

Darlington

Hey thanks for the reply just how to go about meeting

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
51 weeks ago

Cap d'Agde

"Hey thanks for the reply just how to go about meeting "

Go to a club or social. The chance of anything else working is low in the extreme.

Remember that 99% of guys who think they are swingers are fooling themselves, and get nowhere on here.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
51 weeks ago

cahoots

"Always store cans of bakebeans upside down x

*immediately runs off to turn over all the cans in the cupboard*

When you crack them bad boys open you dont get any stuck at the bottom x.

Its a whole new world

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
51 weeks ago

south coast IOW

Read profiles BEFORE messaging or friend requesting etc as we all look for different things and the wrong approach means you are much less likely to get any response.

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
51 weeks ago

tf1

"Hey thanks for the reply just how to go about meeting "

No one is going to meet you with that profile. Search all the other threads about improving your profile

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By *alleyDaveMan
51 weeks ago

Sheffield

"Don't be put out by the negative comments you get when you ask for advice.

You have the same opportunity that every other guy has on here and it's up to you to make the most of it.

Good photos. Honest bio. Go to social events. That's all you need."

With respect, in my experience on here ,I find that the minority of single blokes on here with loads of meet verifications will do fine ,but the majority of us with zero meet verifications ,even with a detailed bio and loads of photos will get nowhere . Hope you have a Happy New year.

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By *rpeggioCouple
51 weeks ago

Baughurst

"Here's some advice from someone who shouldn't be giving it out

1) Have a profile pic

2) Treat others as human beings

3) Be able to accept rejection

4) Patience

5) Don't be a twat

Best of luck out there

Your advice is spot on. Don't put yourself down.

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By *iss KinkWoman
51 weeks ago

North West

"Hey thanks for the reply just how to go about meeting "

Maybe an organised social or a club is your best bet

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