FabSwingers.com forum: Best way to improve

By (user no longer on site) OP
48 weeks ago

Hi all,

Hopefully looking to get more meets next year and rather than feel sorry for myself I’d rather work on myself and better myself.

Are there any loser to winner stories on here like did you go to the gym more or take better pics what did you do?

Ultimately I’m aware that it’s tougher for men on here the ratio is more men to women

Any advice is good advice in my eyes!

Thanks ??

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
48 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'd suggest going to clubs and socials and being seen, get to know people at them and build bridges that way

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By *entleman JayMan
48 weeks ago

Wakefield

From my experience women aren’t interested in seeing your cock. Shock horror. I don’t own one cock shot. I meet plenty of people.

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By *entleman JayMan
48 weeks ago

Wakefield

Oh, and if someone asks to see your cock, it’s more than likely a bloke. Lol.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
48 weeks ago

Central

People like those who are honest and themselves, including flaws. That's perfect

For single men here, having the best profile for themselves is the ideal investment. Others view them, when you send a message.

Then get to socials and clubs, if the latter is within your budget and its services match your tastes

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
48 weeks ago

Cap d'Agde

"From my experience women aren’t interested in seeing your cock."

That may be true if you have other good features, but if the only thing you have going for you is your cock, then needs must...

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By *oxy jWoman
48 weeks ago

somerset

you cant force someone one to be sexually attracted to you .. you just have to wait and see if anyone is and then and only then will the rest come into play like profile / pics / personality

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By (user no longer on site) OP
48 weeks ago

Thanks everyone for the feedback and advice!

I’ve made some changes to my profile to (hopefully) better reflect myself. I’m in the process of a house move so signing up to gym and hopefully hit a double whammy healthy body, healthy mind!

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By *ickD80Man
48 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Assuming that you will get more meets if you go to the gym seems a bit shallow to me but regardless of that, you say in your profile that you have an athletic build which to me implies you already have the build that a gym goer would have so I’m a bit confused by what you’re trying to achieve.

I’m also a bit confused about whether or not you accommodate as it says in your profile info that you cannot accommodate but you state in your bio that you can accommodate.

Maybe you’d have more luck if you were less confusing?

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"Oh, and if someone asks to see your cock, it’s more than likely a bloke. Lol. "

I like to see cock, if im going to entertain sitting on it i need to know what it looks like first!

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
48 weeks ago

near Putney Heath

"Hi all,

Hopefully looking to get more meets next year and rather than feel sorry for myself I’d rather work on myself and better myself.

Are there any loser to winner stories on here like did you go to the gym more or take better pics what did you do?

Ultimately I’m aware that it’s tougher for men on here the ratio is more men to women

Any advice is good advice in my eyes!

Thanks ?? "

I have no objections to cock pics but I do like them to be a bit more... tantalizing than you lying around strangling th poor beast. Lol!

Personally I think men treat their cocks poorly and then wonder why the damn thing won't work.....or why women run away from it. Lol!

On another random tangent in my insomniac neurodivergent brain...stop wiring your cock to porn and online 2d experiences...pamper and train your cock to real-world experiences.

cock pics I like...in the bath, in the shower, hiding the bulge under the towel..or a wet t-shirt...in the woods...on the beach...in a jock strap...peeking out of jeans...in the Calvin Kleins....ok that's enough Playgirl magazine talk...or is it a gay magazine talk...either way..please no pics of you strangling the poor beast.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
48 weeks ago

near Putney Heath

"From my experience women aren’t interested in seeing your cock. Shock horror. I don’t own one cock shot. I meet plenty of people. "

I'd meet on the sight of your legs alone!! Phwoarrr!!

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By *he Dark SaintMan
48 weeks ago

hitchin

Looks looks looks. It factors more here l than anything else

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By *impcuckMan
48 weeks ago

edge of taunton

"Looks looks looks. It factors more here l than anything else"

and rightly so sexual attraction is everything on this scene.

to many guys join expecting women to be dropping knickers just because they are men.

wish men would get more selective rather than fuck anything or anyone cause that is not what this scene is about never has been and never will.

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By *impcuckMan
48 weeks ago

edge of taunton

just becase a few women on fab dont like cock pics does not mean its the golden rule i know plenty of couples and ladies who wont meet without seeing one my wife included and it has bugger all to do with size

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By *mber SkiesWoman
48 weeks ago

Cwmderi

"From my experience women aren’t interested in seeing your cock.

That may be true if you have other good features, but if the only thing you have going for you is your cock, then needs must...

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is that what you think

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
48 weeks ago

Cumbria

Put effort into your profile, we look at the profile of anyone who messages us before we read the message. Try to be tasteful with cock pics, if you are going to have them, not just a picture next to a sky remote, and definitely as part of a pic that shows more of you, not just your cock.

There’s nothing wrong with cock pics, it’s just most men are so bad at taking them and knowing what looks sexy.

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