FabSwingers.com forum: Tips and hints for single guys

By *tnSu OP Couple
over a year ago

West Wales

Read the profile. It’s likely you’ll be blocked if you don’t. Lost count of the ones who haven’t bothered before messaging us.

Don’t try to manipulate the start of a conversation - “Do you mind if I ask you something?” is one we often get.

And just sending a cock pic and a crude message isn’t likely to get you onto the starting grid. Think about it - why would it?!

Hope that’s helpful. Sorry if it sounds negative. It’s just designed to get you somewhere with a chance!

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Also

Tell people what you can do for them, not what they can do for you.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

Flash your knob. They love that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll add my 2p.

Put some effort into your own profile.

If you really do want all the things you've ticked in interests, are genuinely attracted to folks aged 18-99, and are "here for fun with likeminded people" - good for you but now your profile looks like 95% of the ones we're seeing and there is nothing to start conversation from, or gauge any personality or similar interests.

You don't need to say a lot to be specific and interesting.

A little attention to pictures goes a long way too. Dicks are fine but we don't need a close up as your profile pic, if you're mainly trying to attract women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Read the profile. It’s likely you’ll be blocked if you don’t. Lost count of the ones who haven’t bothered before messaging us.

Don’t try to manipulate the start of a conversation - “Do you mind if I ask you something?” is one we often get.

And just sending a cock pic and a crude message isn’t likely to get you onto the starting grid. Think about it - why would it?!

Hope that’s helpful. Sorry if it sounds negative. It’s just designed to get you somewhere with a chance! "

Sounds like solid advice to me

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Don’t assume your gym bod will get the women falling at your feet, there are thousands of men with gym bods on here, you still need to make an effort.

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By *ifestyle1Man
over a year ago

me171

It doesn't matter what you saying still not getting easy to get on with people on fab

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

The best way is clubs and socials

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By *ood Time RMan
over a year ago

London / Hertfordshire

"The best way is clubs and socials

I was just about to say this. Clubs and socials are the best way to meet people. Interact with them left your personality out etc. and when you go to clubs or socials don’t just sit in the corner. Speak to people have a laugh etc.

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Most of all be respectful, not just lip service but be a respectful person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks, I've noted these all down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting how so many non males on this site have advice for them.

I see maybe a few a week complaining which means way more are happy for the way fab works for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not negative at all, don’t know why people actually think that works lol

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Interesting how so many non males on this site have advice for them.

I see maybe a few a week complaining which means way more are happy for the way fab works for them. "

Surely non males are exactly the people who should be giving advice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would a cock picture and nice warmly message be sufficient?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting how so many non males on this site have advice for them.

I see maybe a few a week complaining which means way more are happy for the way fab works for them.

Surely non males are exactly the people who should be giving advice?"

Advice if asked for

But people can run their accounts the way they want.

If you ask men it’s hard

If you ask couples it’s hard

If you ask woman it’s hard

If you ask TV/TS it’s hard

I find any random posts that single out one specific group, in this case males another chance to “put them down”

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