FabSwingers.com forum: Gay Men with Women

By *akeyspunk OP Man
over a year ago

wakefield

It's often the case on this site and others like it to find predominately straight people exploring bi-curious feelings towards other members of their own gender and it led me to wonder how often it occurs for a gay man or woman to be 'curious' about the opposite sex?

As a gay man in this position myself, I have tried discussing with it gay friends who were rather displeased at the idea of my 'letting the side down' as it was put. I was even called a traitor by one person.

How do straight/bi couples who are into MMF threesomes or women feel about the idea of involving a curious gay man and are there any others in my position out there?

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

wow, thats a scenario I hadnt thought about before.

Will be interesting to see what people think

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

"It's often the case on this site and others like it to find predominately straight people exploring bi-curious feelings towards other members of their own gender and it led me to wonder how often it occurs for a gay man or woman to be 'curious' about the opposite sex?

How do straight/bi couples who are into MMF threesomes or women feel about the idea of involving a curious gay man and are there any others in my position out there?"
thats a good question i hope u get some response from the forumites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's rather unfair judgement from your piers!

I have a friend who is gay and on this site. He finds it very easy to attract women (of course, typical women wanting what they cant have!

lol).

I think on occasion he's leant that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've discussed this with friends before. Some of my gay male friends are bi-curious and some are 100% gay.

Gay friends tend to come up with the 'letting the side down' speech same as you got. Straight friends think bisexual people haven't decided whether to be gay or straight yet.

I've had MMF where the blokes were bi. If one of the blokes was gay but bi-curious, I think it would work fine. You just need to find an understanding couple. Good luck. x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't know. I never have.

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy BearMan
over a year ago

Wigan

I think its just the same as a "straight" person being bi curious. Its still being bi curious. I say go for it, as for letting down the side, how can you be, and since when was there "Teams". Sounds kinda straightaphobic to me.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first threesome on the site involved a gay guy, but if im honest I got all the attention lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've enjoyed sex with two girls in the past, who eventually decided that their preferences were for women rather than men. The interesting thing they told me was that whilst they did enjoy the feeling of sex with a guy, they simply felt more attracted toward women when it came to full relationships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the idea! Having a mmf with a bi guy and a gay bi curious guy.. Loads of man on man action.. Yh I'd be happy with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i played as a single female i used to meet a gay male friend, who i used to use my strap on with.

He had never fucked a woman and was curious. So we played, we also did a MMF with another male friend of mine who was orally bi.

I see no problem with being curious and experimenting, after all how will we know our likes and dislikes until we try something.

Good luck and hope you are successful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first MMF threesome at Chams involved a gay guy who was (is) in a long term relationship. This guy wasn't so bothered about full sex with Cheryl (although he would have done if asked) but was happy to indulge in every other way. He especially loved to watch us together. We didn't find out until chatting later as he was very self concious that some people might think ill of him being at a bi night but of course we didn't judge him on that. On subsequent meetings, we've nurtured a friendship that we still have now.

Couples like us do exist who can help others through these experiences, so just keep looking.

Again, good luck

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Personally I'd have no problem with it as its no different to me being curious about playing with another women or a straight guy being bi-curious. Good luck Hun and I hope you find a way to satisfy your curiosity!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just depends on the people. Let's face it - it's a select and small group of people who are open to that and no different to a bi guy scenario. Most people aren't that open minded where they claim to be.

Has to be said, most women would take three different men who have probably potted "brown" with other and multiple women/bareback etc. Where is the difference??? None.

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

have often wondered if a very butch dyke has ever fancied a really camp gay guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"have often wondered if a very butch dyke has ever fancied a really camp gay guy

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do straight/bi couples who are into MMF threesomes or women feel about the idea of involving a curious gay man and are there any others in my position out there?"

I have a bi male friend and we offen meet single bi guys off here for 3sums, I would have no problem at all if it was a gay guy wanting to try his bi side, and I would even sit it out if he decided mid play women wasn't for him if the two guys wanted to carry on alone

I think you should try everything once, I also think doing this in a 3sum would be better for you than just meeting a woman alone, without sounding daft if you have never been with a woman before the other guy could give you a few pointers

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