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By *j20 OP   Man
over a year ago

cheltenham

Any advice on improving my profile? and also what would be a good message to send to a lady as a conversation starter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need pics (not of ur dick)

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

No pictures, especially no profile picture, puts you at a massive disadvantage when compared to the other messages that will arrive at the same time as yours .

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

No photos on your profil. No one can give you an opening message as they should be all different and relevant to the person's profile you are sending them to.

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

As most people will check out your profile before even considering opening your message, you need to ensure that it is the best it can possibly be.

Many won't entertain anyone without pictures, so, at this stage, your opening message is rather irrelevant

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Text is a bit waffley for me personally and doesn't align with what I seek, but

that's not a bad thing and at least it shows some personality.

Lack of a profile pic means I wouldn't bother reading the profile or message if something from you landed in my inbox though.

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By *j20 OP   Man
over a year ago

cheltenham

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By *j20 OP   Man
over a year ago

cheltenham


"Text is a bit waffley for me personally and doesn't align with what I seek, but

that's not a bad thing and at least it shows some personality.

Lack of a profile pic means I wouldn't bother reading the profile or message if something from you landed in my inbox though."
any advice on what I could add to my bio that might make it more interesting to read and stand out abit more

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By *j20 OP   Man
over a year ago

cheltenham


"No photos on your profil. No one can give you an opening message as they should be all different and relevant to the person's profile you are sending them to."
fair enough cheers for the advice

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Text is a bit waffley for me personally and doesn't align with what I seek, but

that's not a bad thing and at least it shows some personality.

Lack of a profile pic means I wouldn't bother reading the profile or message if something from you landed in my inbox though. any advice on what I could add to my bio that might make it more interesting to read and stand out abit more"

As a general rule, what you want, what you offer, and a but of personality is all that's needed. If you have things that make you stand out to people showcase them.

Honestly, I'm not intending to be that guy, but paragraphs and line breaks could help. My mind kept trying to wander off from the wall of text. Normal people might be alright with it though.

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By *j20 OP   Man
over a year ago

cheltenham

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By *j20 OP   Man
over a year ago

cheltenham


"Text is a bit waffley for me personally and doesn't align with what I seek, but

that's not a bad thing and at least it shows some personality.

Lack of a profile pic means I wouldn't bother reading the profile or message if something from you landed in my inbox though. any advice on what I could add to my bio that might make it more interesting to read and stand out abit more

As a general rule, what you want, what you offer, and a but of personality is all that's needed. If you have things that make you stand out to people showcase them.

Honestly, I'm not intending to be that guy, but paragraphs and line breaks could help. My mind kept trying to wander off from the wall of text. Normal people might be alright with it though."
is there any normal people in the world? We are all weird in our own little ways haha cheers for the advice madam

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham

I immediately saw that block of text and didn't read it.

Like breaks and paragraphs please.

More pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paragraphs are needed. Makes it hard work to read otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need sentences

Also

A few Naked body pictures and one or two of your erect cock ( no more than that )

On your profile write:

•what you are after from swinging

•What kind of partner you're after

•What you can offer

Keep it light and not sexually graphic, keep it positive and approachable

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READ profiles carefully

Women rarely message first

It may take many months to get a meet

Fabs isn't tinder

Take care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use some punctuation

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