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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have arranged for my first mmf meet next week and I’m definitely looking forward to it, she looks unreal. Any advise would be great as it will be a first for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have arranged for my first mmf meet next week and I’m definitely looking forward to it, she looks unreal. Any advise would be great as it will be a first for me."

You’ve made your first mistake

Your meeting a couple not just a female.

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By *J_OuizziCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

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By *J_OuizziCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I have arranged for my first mmf meet next week and I’m definitely looking forward to it, she looks unreal. Any advise would be great as it will be a first for me.

You’ve made your first mistake

Your meeting a couple not just a female."

100% this

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

as has already been said... not just her you are meeting... don't loose sight of that fact... if a couple lets you into their intimate situation you are a fortunate person, take nothing for granted

open and honest communication is required if its to go without difficulties... always check whats ok and whats not before attempting anything

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By *hrimper36Couple
over a year ago

Central France dept 36

If it’s a MMF meet op take lots of lube.

Enjoy.

T

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I’d just be checking that they were really a couple, and not just a guy fronting as one. Talk to the woman, make sure she actually exists, and see if they’ve met others previously.

If you’ve made the plans thru fab I’d be dubious!

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham

My first thoughts were the same as above.

Have you video called or voice called them at all. Are you certain the woman exists ?

You're an unverified single male profile and while we all have to start somewhere. My Spidey senses are tingling.

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

Try to understand their dynamic. You should have a say, but it is an agreement between you and the hem as a couple.

Is it a MFM or MMF (who will be the centre of attention)? Don't assume it will be her, or a MF with him just looking.

Ask them about their previous experiences and what they felt that worked and did not work for them. They would clarify things for you, rather than a simple What do you like?

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By *nt1845Man
over a year ago

Birmingham City Centre

Respect their boundaries, you’re privileged to have been invited to join them.

Make sure that you’re all happy with what is and isn’t acceptable as everyone is different.

Relax and enjoy

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

OP didn't specify he was meeting a couple. Could be two singles.

Either way op it's pretty normal to have a conversation about likes and limits.

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By *ack WilliamsTV/TS
over a year ago

Tonbridge


"I’d just be checking that they were really a couple, and not just a guy fronting as one. Talk to the woman, make sure she actually exists, and see if they’ve met others previously.

If you’ve made the plans thru fab I’d be dubious!"

Yes. I've chatted to several guys in 'couples' where there's always some reason why the female isn't available.

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By *ink vixenCouple
over a year ago

Medway

Relax and enjoy.

Take some time with the pre undressing foreplay and kissing.

It can go horribly wrong for some men once the pressure to “perform” with another hard dick in the room arrives.

But don’t think about that..

Don’t think about that

Don’t think about that….!

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By *itygamesMan
over a year ago

UK

mmf means your playing with both , a bi sexual meet ..mfm is a straight threesome meet

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"mmf means your playing with both , a bi sexual meet ..mfm is a straight threesome meet"

No it doesn't,, and it really doesn't help when people give this idea further traction.

MMF has always meant two men and one woman. If the men are bi then it's a bi-mmf.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for the advice, can’t wait now and I have been on FaceTime with both of them and they look great with plenty of flirty banter aswell which has relaxed me going into the encounter thank you all again

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol/ Daventry

It’s worth asking what you’re planning to do/if there is anything they want to try. DP/DVP etc. sometimes size/length/proximity to another man can be an issue for some. Be clear from the start what the expectations are and what you are all looking for. When the meet starts, I suggest rechecking, re consenting and asking any questions. Take LOTS of rubbers, so that you can switch. If you can’t perform in rubbers, don’t complain about it or give the “I’m not used to this I always bareback etc.”. It’s a complete turnoff. If this happens, withdraw and play another way until you regain it. There will be a point when everyone is done, understand how the meet will end. Do you want to talk and chat or a “thanks, please have a shower and head off”?

Take a bottle of water. Arrive on time. Message an hour beforehand to make sure it’s still happening.

Best of luck!! I hope you have a ball!

Xx

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By *lowhands7Man
over a year ago

South Leicestershire (willing to travel)

A bi mmf meet continues to allude me

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By *iscreetfuncpl12Couple
over a year ago

Somerset

I would change your profile image. It obviously hasn’t affected your success now, but I would always go with a pic that is actually you rather than one lifted from the internet. A lot of people in these parts do reverse image searches. If your meet goes well, you get a veri, you don’t want to put an element of doubt into future meet’s heads. I fully understand why people put up a pic that gives an approximation of what they look like but it comes with risks. To be fair, you may be the guy modelling the suit, one I considered buying which is why the pic looked so familiar.

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