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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am a single male and struggling even to get responses. When I send a message I do say who iam what I'm looking for what I like and wot I do.

A lot of women's profiles really don't have a lot to go on to start a conversation. Any advice

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Go to clubs and socials I believe is the general advice and I’d add lower your expectations and don’t miss out on life and opportunities to meet women in pubs and other vanilla life situations

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By *arley QuimWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Agree with above poster

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

I think you need to understand OP that Fabswingers is very much a ‘buyers market’. I am not clear of the ratios, but suspect there will likely be 100s of men for every lady in here … I’m talking singles not couples. Therefore they have a wide choice to choose from.

Therefore, you need to stand out and offer something they may want. Being very frank OP, your profile has 2 basic pictures and a few words … not exactly well put together as a profile! … not exactly line grabbing!

You might want to look at other profiles that are perhaps nearer the mark and review yours. You might want to think about visiting a club. That may help you get verified, and even if that is only in a social context, at least others will know you are genuine.

R

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

There is nothing interesting on your profile. I’d do what is suggested. Organised socials and clubs

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Another one bites the dust

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Wow, that was quick!

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

Why ask if you’re not gonna like the answer!

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

That's gotta be a record?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Perhaps he got a meet in those few hours and decided that was the one. If we all get an invite to the wedding, we'll know

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

lol that was a quick one.

As an aside went to a party last weekend. Must have been 40-50 people roughly 50/50 m/f. For the second month running 6 or so men who begged to get an invite didn't show and didn't even send a message saying can't' make it. I think a few couples did the same to be fair and just as rude but they will have other options and pop up less often complaining about no meets.

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By *illycarrolCouple
over a year ago

n/cle on tyne

Imagine his line in a bar 'wanna fuck' err no right fuck it im off home lol

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By *he ass man 666Man
over a year ago

paradise city


"Imagine his line in a bar 'wanna fuck' err no right fuck it im off home lol"

Think he’s nicked that one off me lol

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