FabSwingers.com forum: Setting up a first, full swap, group experience

By *rMrs84 OP Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

So Mrs and I have recently ventured to full swapping. We setup our first time with a couple who were a known quantity and had a great night. The only issues that appeared was the guy in the other couple couldn’t perform on the night leaving things fun but overall unsatisfying.

We’re now looking to set something up just for Mrs’ benefit. Looking to arrange a club meet with a few guys that she can take as she wants. Whether that be soft swap as a GG or go for a full on gang bang.

What’s the advice here?

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By *ennylewis2016Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

It will be whatever you want and say it to be. You lay the rules. If anyone doesn’t like, they’re out.

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By *he ass man 666Man
over a year ago

wakey/cas/ponte

Sounds interesting, I’d be interested if I took your fancy lol birthday idea on your update is very appealing too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So Mrs and I have recently ventured to full swapping. We setup our first time with a couple who were a known quantity and had a great night. The only issues that appeared was the guy in the other couple couldn’t perform on the night leaving things fun but overall unsatisfying.

What’s the advice here? "

When I had a couple profile with fb. We always had this issue. Now both have separate profiles and meet separately.

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Go to a club on single males allowed night , get chatting to the ones she likes and go to a room ..

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Go to a club on single males allowed night , get chatting to the ones she likes and go to a room .."

Pretty much this

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By *ysonfuryMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Maybe consider inviting guys you would like to meet to a club rather than just relying on who may be there on the night. Having said that normally plenty of single guys at a club. The other thing with clubs if you are chatting to someone you are interested in and you would like to invite them they may be put off by the cost. Clubs cc an be expensive fur single guys. Good luck and happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Research clubs that interest you, pick a single guy night, look through the forums to see if they have a guestlist. Message guys on the guestlist and leave comments on the forum post so others going can message you.

Then just go, if you find people you're interested in, ask if they'd like to play.

Don't over complicate it, it's super easy!

You'll have a great night

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By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago

South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire

Go to one of the hood clubs on one of their couples and singles nights.

Don’t over think it, just go and have fun and if something clicks, the enjoy it.

If you go with a fixed idea of what you want, you will be so concentrated on trying to make that happen it will become a mission and not just fun. As you might be too transfixed to spot what opportunities there are for fun.

Some of our and the misses wildest and most adventurous nights at chameleons has been when we have just gone for a chilled out night not expecting much to happen. It has then ended up in multiple encounters through out the night that evolved multiple different levels of people being involved in what was very memorable.

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

"Go to a club on single males allowed night , get chatting to the ones she likes and go to a room .."

This. Only to add to set some clearrules with the males and the rules better if they come directly from the female. Some males do think that rules do not apply to them once everyone is naked.

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