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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on here a while now,I'm photo verified,not a total minger (well hope not anyway lol) and been told I'm well hung,but I keep getting let down or ignored on here and yet 2 get a meet and that elusive green tick,is it because I'm a single male? or am I doing something wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've only been here 8 weeks which is no time at all. Your profile is very brief and doesn't stand out amongst the thousands of other single guys on here. Not being able to accomodate will be a disadvantage plus some will assume rightly or wrongly that you're, married. All your pics are cock pics which many find off putting so think about a variety and some erotic ones. Swinging is a scene not just a website so think about going to cubs and socials to get yourself known. Hope this is useful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've only been here 8 weeks which is no time at all. Your profile is very brief and doesn't stand out amongst the thousands of other single guys on here. Not being able to accomodate will be a disadvantage plus some will assume rightly or wrongly that you're, married. All your pics are cock pics which many find off putting so think about a variety and some erotic ones. Swinging is a scene not just a website so think about going to cubs and socials to get yourself known. Hope this is useful. "

Exactly as above and hundreds of others will say exactly the same. U could be here for a year before u get a meet. To quote something that has also been said many times, 'its a swinging site, not instashag'.

Good luck x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"You've only been here 8 weeks which is no time at all. Your profile is very brief and doesn't stand out amongst the thousands of other single guys on here. Not being able to accomodate will be a disadvantage plus some will assume rightly or wrongly that you're, married. All your pics are cock pics which many find off putting so think about a variety and some erotic ones. Swinging is a scene not just a website so think about going to cubs and socials to get yourself known. Hope this is useful.

Exactly as above and hundreds of others will say exactly the same. U could be here for a year before u get a meet. To quote something that has also been said many times, 'its a swinging site, not instashag'.

Good luck x "

Ditto to the above!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not forgetting way too young for some of us and your warning comment, whilst funny is just pure arrogance

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Your profile is way too short, and you are fixated with your cock!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Your profile is way too short, and you are fixated with your cock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see the good advice was ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give it time, stip going on about your cock its only one little part of you, scuse the pun lol

Just use forums be nice, go into the chatrooms ( not directing... There like cattle markets , and send out some nice messages,

Most of all be patient!

Good luck and enjoy the site x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you have a big cock - but (most) women want more

8 weeks is nothing take your time focus on what you can give a woman other than a serious stretching and you will go far kid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see the good advice was ignored "

As usual!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sadly being hung and non-mingerish does not equate to a heightened fanny fall at your front door

not that you would want that anyway of course

for many, rightly or wrongly,'cannot accom' does ring alarm bells

you may want to think of (honest) ways to explain why that is the case

or you may not of course

either way, as others have said, i feel your presentation rather than your assets may be the biggest part of the situation you feel you are in

my top tips would be :

- review how you present yourself

- do your research on potential meets

- be both personal and personable in your messages

- do not expect anything

- do not rush anything

- be patient

Good Luck. Hope you have fun filled times ahead

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