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By *aughtyYoungGent OP   Man
over a year ago

Hampshire

Hey quick question I don’t think I will Ver get a meet due to my age if someone could tell me if I have a chance that would be great cause to be honest I have only had 1 chance but I don’t know to stay because my age definitely effects alot of people.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hi op

You have just as much chance of meeting people same as many others

If you both fit the same criteria

Remember the age limit start's from 18 upwards

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By *aughtyYoungGent OP   Man
over a year ago

Hampshire

Yeah I know but even when the age is 18 and above they give me the “your young” or I have a relative your age

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Yeah I know but even when the age is 18 and above they give me the “your young” or I have a relative your age "

I was trying to point out that will be many around your own age as well and just above

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Age is but a number! You have a good profile. You have as much chance as any man on here. Good luck!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Use the meet section put out meets and use the chat rooms

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By *aughtyYoungGent OP   Man
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Use the meet section put out meets and use the chat rooms "

Alright will try

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By *aughtyYoungGent OP   Man
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Age is but a number! You have a good profile. You have as much chance as any man on here. Good luck!"

Thanks but I think I could add more things don’t know about what though

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Use the meet section put out meets and use the chat rooms

Alright will try"

Plus get involved within the forums. Use as much as possible of the site

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Age is but a number! You have a good profile. You have as much chance as any man on here. Good luck!

Thanks but I think I could add more things don’t know about what though"

IMO I don't think you need to add anything, you are clear what you have to offer and what you are looking for

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Use the meet section put out meets and use the chat rooms

Alright will try

Plus get involved within the forums. Use as much as possible of the site "

I agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree that your profile is great as it is.

Some older women like a younger man - don’t lose heart. Stick at it !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your ‘double bicep’ pose needs work

Seriously - you’ve obviously put a lot of work into your profile and it looks fine to me. Good luck

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Hey quick question I don’t think I will Ver get a meet due to my age if someone could tell me if I have a chance that would be great cause to be honest I have only had 1 chance but I don’t know to stay because my age definitely effects alot of people."

I would focus on being fun and positive. Green arrow shows you’ve started 6 threads in the last few days all asking for profile type advice in various guises and with a bit of a negative vibe and not commented on any other threads. Perhaps start a more positive thread or join in on a fun topic. The negativity if you carry on will be a big turn off for anybody who sees it. Try to be fun and positive. Best of luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have only been here a month, you can't expect everything to happen right away. Participate on more forum threads, join in some games, chat to people, get youself known. Maybe try going to a club? You'll meet lots of people there, and even if it's just to chat, you'll get more acclimatised to the lifestyle and start to enjoy this experience for what it is.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast

Your age is not an issue. Probably actuall plays in your favour.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Your age is not an issue. Probably actuall plays in your favour."

Yeah right x

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Your age is not an issue. Probably actuall plays in your favour.

Yeah right x "

Hiding...

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Your age is not an issue. Probably actuall plays in your favour.

Yeah right x

Hiding... "

Mm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would get involved with the forums and get to any of the arranged socials. Clubs are good but expensive for single guys.

What I've found is people may have certain preferences online but aface to face and a get to know you these can become more relaxed.

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By *aughtyYoungGent OP   Man
over a year ago

Hampshire


"I would get involved with the forums and get to any of the arranged socials. Clubs are good but expensive for single guys.

What I've found is people may have certain preferences online but aface to face and a get to know you these can become more relaxed. "

Thanks

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By *aughtyYoungGent OP   Man
over a year ago

Hampshire


"You have only been here a month, you can't expect everything to happen right away. Participate on more forum threads, join in some games, chat to people, get youself known. Maybe try going to a club? You'll meet lots of people there, and even if it's just to chat, you'll get more acclimatised to the lifestyle and start to enjoy this experience for what it is."

Yeah I understand thanks

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By *aughtyYoungGent OP   Man
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Hey quick question I don’t think I will Ver get a meet due to my age if someone could tell me if I have a chance that would be great cause to be honest I have only had 1 chance but I don’t know to stay because my age definitely effects alot of people.

I would focus on being fun and positive. Green arrow shows you’ve started 6 threads in the last few days all asking for profile type advice in various guises and with a bit of a negative vibe and not commented on any other threads. Perhaps start a more positive thread or join in on a fun topic. The negativity if you carry on will be a big turn off for anybody who sees it. Try to be fun and positive. Best of luck. "

Will do

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By *xtrafetishCouple
over a year ago

London

Good morning

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
over a year ago

South Down


"Hey quick question I don’t think I will Ver get a meet due to my age if someone could tell me if I have a chance that would be great cause to be honest I have only had 1 chance but I don’t know to stay because my age definitely effects alot of people.

I would focus on being fun and positive. Green arrow shows you’ve started 6 threads in the last few days all asking for profile type advice in various guises and with a bit of a negative vibe and not commented on any other threads. Perhaps start a more positive thread or join in on a fun topic. The negativity if you carry on will be a big turn off for anybody who sees it. Try to be fun and positive. Best of luck. "

Agree with the poster above. Nothing is going to happen overnight. It all feels a bit frantic and desperate at the minute. Relax. Get involved. Perhaps look for socials in your area. But most of all, recognise that Fab can be a very very slow burn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are in a tough spot but not as tough as it was before covid. Back then many clubs had an over 25's policy and they only dropped it for cubs and couger events. Now most have dropped it to 21 and some down to 18 so clubs are a valid option for getting into the scene.

As for personal meets its a coin toss. We have kids near your age so Penny wouldn't go near you even if you were a young Brad Pitt. On the other hand plenty prefer the lure of youth so you will be well within their search window. Good luck OP.

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

Crikey it does concern me the world we have created when a fit 20 year old guy can't seem to find himself a girlfriend.

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

About as much chance of meeting as the rest of us guys dude gotta make yourself stand out

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

Out here in the countryside we have young farmers clubs for young people to join and meet up socially for all sorts of events and entertainment you don't have to be connected to farming, older members tend to supervise and keep an eye on things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women get hundreds of messages so trying to stand out is hard.

I’ve been on here for 5 weeks and no meet yet.

Remain patient although a rejection is hard don’t take it to heart because they don’t really know you.

I’m straight so this is from a straight man’s experience on here.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

The green arrow next to your name suggests you are rather desperate for things to happen immediately as you have started new threads on this theme multiple times.

The majority of swingers on here are quite a bit older than you and your age will not suit everyone.

Try to attend any organised socials in your area and join discussions in the forum posts....not just focusing on yourself. People can then see if you are fun, mature and see a bit more of your personality.

Look put for anyone advertising for meets in your area, perhaps a cafe meet, or put one as your status and see if that helps.

But there are 100 gents on here for every woman, so you really need to be patient and adjust your expectations if you thought you would find meets easily.

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

No reason why you should meet and be verified. It can however take a lot of time and chats so don’t expect women to just say yes. A few of my verified meets took over a year before we met. Am do glad we did as lots of fun. Don’t give up

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By *aughtyYoungGent OP   Man
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Women get hundreds of messages so trying to stand out is hard.

I’ve been on here for 5 weeks and no meet yet.

Remain patient although a rejection is hard don’t take it to heart because they don’t really know you.

I’m straight so this is from a straight man’s experience on here. "

Thanks just patience

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By *nytime2023Couple
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

As others have said, get to a social or club. You’ll get verified and that will help. Stick with it, it will pay off in the end. V&K x

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By *aughtyYoungGent OP   Man
over a year ago

Hampshire


"As others have said, get to a social or club. You’ll get verified and that will help. Stick with it, it will pay off in the end. V&K x"

Thanks taking notes

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I think you come across very well. Certainly a lot of people on here won't go down to the age you are, but I think you've got to be in with a reasonable chance with those that do and you don't rule yourself out like many single men do by having a poor profile.

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By *iner69erMan
over a year ago

inverness

You have the same chance as most guys on here. None.

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London


"You have the same chance as most guys on here. None."

Plenty of us do. I don’t just expect results. I respect people and talk to them about what like or not. You can have a lot of fun then and all enjoy.

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