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Still struggling to meet couples :(

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By *ourEverydayKinkAddict OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford/ Portsmouth

Hey all, I posted a while back on here as I've been struggling to meet couples for a while. I followed plenty of tips back then, but sadly I haven't had any luck since.

I know I'm a little younger than most on here which may not play in my favour, but I think I'm reasonably good looking and all my opening messages are unique, not just a 'hey'.

I know there's plenty of competition out there and you have to be what they're looking for, but I can't help but think I'm doing something a little wrong

Any golden tips for a little more success? Thank you in advance!

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By *iner69erMan
over a year ago

inverness

You have to accept that you may never get a meet. I've been here about 15 years and have only had one meet and that was in 2015. All you can do is keep trying,while facing up to never having fun on here again or ever.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Describing yourself as VWE, handsome with stamina to match will put some off. All you can do is keep trying, as you've said there's a lot of competition. Club nights that allow single guys is an option, lot's of couples are open to playing with guys. You'll probably need to have a bit of chat in a club though and not just walk about like many do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't fret too much about it, there's a lot of single men on here so its not too much of a reflection on you. Keep in mind some couples struggle to meet couples too.

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By *ourEverydayKinkAddict OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford/ Portsmouth

The irony is I put 'VWE, handsome with stamina to match' because I was previously told that I needed to try and sell myself a little nore thank you for the tips though, maybe a club might be a nice way to meet a few people, always easier in person than via messaging

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By *ourEverydayKinkAddict OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford/ Portsmouth

Wize words for sure, just becoming a little painful after quite a few months of trying... But I know it's a common theme, just gotta shrug it off and keep on going

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"The irony is I put 'VWE, handsome with stamina to match' because I was previously told that I needed to try and sell myself a little nore thank you for the tips though, maybe a club might be a nice way to meet a few people, always easier in person than via messaging "

There you go, you'll get different advice from different people! That description would personally put us off replying to a couple even if they were smoking hot, no doubt it wouldn't put many off though. It could be worded different but give a similar impression.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The irony is I put 'VWE, handsome with stamina to match' because I was previously told that I needed to try and sell myself a little nore thank you for the tips though, maybe a club might be a nice way to meet a few people, always easier in person than via messaging "

Some people don't want VWE 26 year olds with stamina. It just means that you're not compatible.

Do you read their profile to see if they will meet bi guys? Some don't.

Good luck.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

If you're very confident and find it easy to start conversations with people who may not be wearing very much then clubs are certainly an option. Otherwise you might find social events get you a similar result with quite a bit less pressure.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hi op

Try using the meet section and arrange a social

Use the chat rooms get to know people creating a circle of friends

Good luck buddy

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

99 % of people here are timewasters and are just pulling your chain , if you want to meet go to a club , it s that simple

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

You've had 3 meets in 6 months. That's more than most single men on here seem to get.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Your a little young for us anyway but if you were our age limit we probably wouldn’t meet you due to the bit on your profile which says you class yourself as on the straight end of bi do you mean bi curious or just hedging your bets to get to the women? That’s what a lot of people might think and believe me that really does happen ..

I would probably start of going to socials and clubs and just getting to know people but you have a few veris so your doing better already than most single men ..

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By *xtrafetishCouple
over a year ago

London

Good morning

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