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By *CTyalor OP   Man
over a year ago

leicester/manchester/london

Hey,

Looking for some advice on profile, have been here for a while and whilst having plenty of cam meets , whenever it comes to an actual it never really goes anywhere? Usually my messsges get deleted instantly, despite being friendly, sending face photos and non harassing Am I missing something?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Define friendly and non harassing.

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
over a year ago

London (She/Her)


" Hey,

Looking for some advice on profile, have been here for a while and whilst having plenty of cam meets , whenever it comes to an actual it never really goes anywhere? Usually my messsges get deleted instantly, despite being friendly, sending face photos and non harassing Am I missing something? "

Seriously? You’re stunning. Could you show us an example first message, maybe you’re giving over the wrong vibes?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hi op

Your answer nope, maybe do a little work on your profile and I'm sure you'd be a hit with the ladies or couple's

Effort counts for everything, whilst your message would be read, your profile is also getting explored to see if anything pulls there interest

Also use the meet section arrange a social and keep doing it

Good luck buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey OP

Let's see some humour on your profile? Some of us like to see some fun stuff with the wants and what you have to offer

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea


" Hey,

Looking for some advice on profile, have been here for a while and whilst having plenty of cam meets , whenever it comes to an actual it never really goes anywhere? Usually my messsges get deleted instantly, despite being friendly, sending face photos and non harassing Am I missing something? "

Yes. None of those things actually entitle you to a meet.

Ask yourself what your expectations were when you joined the site, and then realign them.

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By *et and WillingCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Yeh. Id give up if i was you.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

Its difficult..be yourself n be happy and you will be fine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t give up, you need to sort your profile out.

Great bod. Nice teeth but that doesn’t look like a genuine smile in that pic and so I don’t feel any character which is part of what we look for. A few more pics to kind of build a story will help.

Profile write up feels bland. It’s informative but lacks any flavour of your personality, experience etc.

Good luck!

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By *ilverfox for youMan
over a year ago

Hull

Do your best to give up !!!but not easy

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


" Hey,

Looking for some advice on profile, have been here for a while and whilst having plenty of cam meets , whenever it comes to an actual it never really goes anywhere? Usually my messsges get deleted instantly, despite being friendly, sending face photos and non harassing Am I missing something? "

The first line of profile put us off

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By *CTyalor OP   Man
over a year ago

leicester/manchester/london


"Define friendly and non harassing."
respectful messsge based on the profile they have and if deleted no bombarding or chase up messages

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Given that you seem to be mainly looking at domination, a kink site might work better for you.

If you decide to stay and are looking at a more equal experience, women generally want to know more about what you can offer and what you want.

Contrary to popular belief, muscles and a larger than average cock, is not guaranteed to get you laid. Personality is important to many.

Nita

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Define friendly and non harassing. respectful messsge based on the profile they have and if deleted no bombarding or chase up messages "

Respectful should be a given when approaching someone new anyway shouldn't it?

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Given that you seem to be mainly looking at domination, a kink site might work better for you.

If you decide to stay and are looking at a more equal experience, women generally want to know more about what you can offer and what you want.

Contrary to popular belief, muscles and a larger than average cock, is not guaranteed to get you laid. Personality is important to many.

Nita"

Yes the dominant thing will put off many but on the other hand not going to attract many unless you elaborate a little on your experience and what kind of things you are interested in exploring. And MILF hunter? Ladies may disagree but not the best phrase. Sounds like straight from porn.

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By *melie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

Phwoar, if only I were 20 years younger

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By *melie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Phwoar, if only I were 20 years younger "

Seriously though, the cannot accommodate will put some off, unless you elaborate why. There'll be the assumption you're cheating.

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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

Nothing terribly wrong

As above, my first thought was cheating vibes.(even though that may be unfair)

I cannot accommodate as I have kids at home, but wouldn't want to invite a stranger into my home anyway.

Others put "I prefer not to accommodate at home, but can arrange a hotel"

Also the not being willing to message outside of here.

Again a perfectly reasonable boundary, but others would see it as a sign of cheating.

You could leave it off your profile and just say no if someone asks you to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is only a gentle suggestion so go easy on me..you need to lose a bit of weight, perhaps go to the gym to sort out that skinny frame of yours..just my opinion

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By *archelCouple
over a year ago

A field somewhere

Physically you look great, but your profile is meh and would put me off when looking for a single guy.

Dominant milf hunter does not attract me and I love young hotties, but if they've no personality I switch off.

You need to put some personality into your bio.

Mrs M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Physically you look great, but your profile is meh and would put me off when looking for a single guy.

Dominant milf hunter does not attract me and I love young hotties, but if they've no personality I switch off.

You need to put some personality into your bio.

Mrs M"

Came here to write exactly this! Give us some personality. Younger guys for me bring more fun, show us what we would be getting with you.

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
over a year ago

Hyde

Don't give up.... just use some of the suggestions above and improve the profile or just to expand on it

Failing that.... get to a club and meet people in person. If you come to Manchester there's always Cupids which is a great club. (Plus others too)

K

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