FabSwingers.com forum: Profile Review

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have seen many comments regards performing peer profile reviews, which in the face of it seems like a great idea to verify its intent.I would like

to invite those willing.

I’m totally cool on your candid feedback, advice and recommendations, they very much are welcome.

I cannot do anything, about my looks. So hold back your criticism on how I look, baby I was born this way!

Kind Regards

S-Stag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly the first part of your profile reads really well

The second half looks like it’s written by someone else. Personally I don’t see the need to “slag” off other men and how they run their accounts and what they send.

Just my thoughts

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Honestly the first part of your profile reads really well

The second half looks like it’s written by someone else. Personally I don’t see the need to “slag” off other men and how they run their accounts and what they send.

Just my thoughts "

Appreciate the feedback. I will tailor it out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot about what you are and who you are but I have no understanding of the sort of person that you would be attracted to.

I really am not being rude, and this is just my perception and may be different for others but your profile write up leaves me feeling a bit shruggy shoulders. Slightly ‘meh.’ I hate that phrase but it sums it up. This might be because I look for humour and to me your profile gives off quite a serious vibe - which of course is spot on if that’s the sort of person you are but I am unclear.

Public pics are good. It’s nice to see a face immediately as it’s so rare that this is the case.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A lot about what you are and who you are but I have no understanding of the sort of person that you would be attracted to.

Public pics are good. It’s nice to see a face immediately as it’s so rare that this is the case. "

That’s really good feedback, thank you. I appreciate it. If I can invite you further to interrogate my profile in terms of what ‘I’m seeking’ it says;

‘I’m seeking intelligent, competent individuals with strong emotional maturity & resilience and who like coffee! I am not looking for one night stands’ "

I don’t really have a type, or shape, but your candid response is welcome in terms of refinement.

The humour maybe doesn’t come out strong enough; I will rework that.

Again appreciate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s really good feedback, thank you. I appreciate it. If I can invite you further to interrogate my profile in terms of what ‘I’m seeking’ it says;

‘I’m seeking intelligent, competent individuals with strong emotional maturity & resilience and who like coffee! I am not looking for one night stands’

But what does all of that mean? I have qualifications and can hold a conversation with anyone but what kind of intelligent do you want? You want to talk about politics or the meaning of life? Are you looking for someone educated to degree level? (If so I would be out lol but still consider myself intelligent!) I’m struggling with the word competent too. Competent? In what? I mean I’m incredibly competent at sucking cock but also competent at making a zingy lemon cheesecake. What kind of competence are you after?! Emotional maturity, I get that. Resilience, slightly wafty. I think I know what you mean but unsure - resilient in the lifestyle? Resilient in life in general? Coffee - easy tick. No one night stands - also clear.

I don’t really have a type, or shape, but your candid response is welcome in terms of refinement.

You’re welcome! I think that is so unusual (and refreshing) btw.

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By *alientecoupleCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Threats of physical violence (even if warranted) probably won’t make people, especially women comfortable and therefore people will probably be less inclined to message you?

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

" Threats of physical violence (even if warranted) probably won’t make people, especially women comfortable and therefore people will probably be less inclined to message you?"

Quite...

The profile was going well until that last paragraph. Scary

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s with the ‘break your fingers’ bit? Is that meant to be a joke, threatening violence?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What’s with the ‘break your fingers’ bit? Is that meant to be a joke, threatening violence? "

Who reads that stuff anyway right?

But it has now been removed. It’s intended audience was Sydney University; but I have tailored it out. Especially if people think it’s targeted at them.

I shall continue to cultivate the profile and I rally value and appreciate all the candid feedback.

It’s really appreciated.

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Don’t think there’s a need to say ‘please read’ at the start of your bio, anyone who reads that will read it because they wanted to read your bio, if someone doesn’t want to read your bio then they’re not going to read that, so it’s completely pointless.

I feel like your bio makes you appear a bit arrogant, listing all the great personality traits you have and how well you treat women comes across as a bit arrogant, and I don’t know why you think 99% of the men on here are fixated with outcomes (I’m not even sure what that means) but I’m pretty sure that isn’t true and saying it shows that you think you’re better than almost every other man on this site.

Everything you say seems pretty generic, saying I’m funny, I’m interesting, I’m passionate, I’ll treat you with respect, I’ll make you feel heard, I’ll make you feel wanted etc are just words that anyone can say and feels a bit false, you describe your personality but don’t really show any personality. It’s all a bit like a salesman’s spiel where you’re saying what you think people want to hear.

I’m not sure if a woman who likes to feel like she’s the centre of the universe is going to be interested in being with a man who’s married to another woman….does your wife like to feel like she’s the centre of the universe and if so is it possible to make 2 different women feel like they’re the centre of the universe at the same time? To me, you would need to give all you time and attention to someone to make them feel like that and it’s not possible to give all your time and attention to more than one person.

It’s a bit weird that you say ‘there’s no shaming going on here’ as if that’s something that needs to be said!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t mind a peer review if there’s any takers. Find it hard selling myself

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

I counted coffee being mentioned four times. What if a tea drinker?

Or more seriously somebody who likes to meet in the evening or who prefers something less social and more ummm…..not social. Perhaps your target is afternoon or morning meets with coffee drinkers who like to chat in which case all good

Also what is the significance of stag in terms of meeting one on one with a lady. Isn’t that more relevant for your couple pursuits?

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