FabSwingers.com forum: Women not on contraception

By *orestTrees OP Couple
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

My wife isn't on contraception as I have had a vasectomy. My question is, do women take the morning after pill to be on the safe side when engaging in full swap? We will only practice safe sex with other couples but always concerned if the condom did break.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anal is the answer mmmmm.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I'd speak to your doctor first, it may not be safe to keep taking the morning after pill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The morning after pill should never be used as a regular form of contraception....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning after pill is not to be taken just to be on the safe side.

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By *tephanie63Woman
over a year ago

BRIDGWATER

"My wife isn't on contraception as I have had a vasectomy. My question is, do women take the morning after pill to be on the safe side when engaging in full swap? We will only practice safe sex with other couples but always concerned if the condom did break."

I would imagine that if a condom breaks a female might get the morning after pill, regardless of whether they are swingers or not. That is one of its intended purposes.

If you are worried though, maybe consider wife getting contraception..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best to speak to your local family planning clinic or whatever they call it these days.

Coil/implant is one that you don't have to think about after getting it. But has side effects.

Thinking:

"Would I want to raise a child with this man?"

Raised my standards immensely

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

I was in similar situation, didn't have a break but it did make me worry. I went on the implant and use double protection now for meets.

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol/ Daventry

If the condom breaks there are other aspects too like PeP etc. the morning after pill only works prior to ovulation (as it delays ovulation). It is not a fail-safe, and echoing what others have said re. Using it as regular contraception.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I needed to take the morning after pill twice when condoms broke, ironically we'd got them from the clinic. It makes you feel really sick and I wouldn't recommend it.

Personally I'd look at other forms of contraception to supplement condoms.

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester

I've been thinking the same thing. I've recently had a vacectomy so know I'm safe to play regarding accidental pregnancy. What does worry me is the wife she's not to keen on going on the pill again, the obvious is the morning after, not that we've had condom breaks but there's always a first.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I've been thinking the same thing. I've recently had a vacectomy so know I'm safe to play regarding accidental pregnancy. What does worry me is the wife she's not to keen on going on the pill again, the obvious is the morning after, not that we've had condom breaks but there's always a first. "

I became pregnant while we were using condoms (before we started swinging) and we hadn't experienced a noticeable break. Never rely solely on them.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

If she is planning on taking the morning after pill every time she has sex I think a different method of contraception would be better, maybe a coil as it can help with the menopause too

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By *orestTrees OP Couple
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Thanks everyone for you suggestions.

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By *ocketman20Man
over a year ago

Douglas

When my wife played (never been on the pill) we always insisted on condoms, and even then to withdraw and cum on her rather than in her (or she swallowed).

We had one regular friend who had a vasectomy and he was allowed full bare access once, but again he withdrew and ejaculated on her tits.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

My hubby is snipped but to be on the safe side as I don't want to get pregnant I got myself done as well. I am 40 next year and don't want to keep going on contraception.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a hysterectomy years ago so I don't have to worry about that anymore. Definitely takes that concern away for me.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Condoms are the most efficient form of contraception, PLUS provide protection from most STIs. In 35 years, I have never experienced a broken condom.

If we did experience a broken condom, only then would the morning after pill need to be considered. Regular testing is a good idea too for anyone who's having casual sex.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell the guy to not cum in the condom during penetration and regularly check that the condom is not broken.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If I wasn't on contraception for other reasons, I'd probably be on it just for swinging.

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By *inacolada3Couple
over a year ago

kettering

You have other holes but remember "Nothing smaller than an elephant should be put in your ear" x

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

It can be very difficult, but you could arrange meets with people that have had vasectomy as well, a proven SH:24 test and just go unprotected. Lots of cum play can be fun.

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Morning after pill just isn’t reliable enough for me. I use mirena, which is doubling as HRT to get me through perimenopause.

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Mentally, I couldn’t cope not being on contraception. It would ruin the vibe for me cos it would always be at the back of my mind.

Accepting though that im totally unhinged about pregnancy and can’t think of anything worse lol.

Im on contraception and always use protection (including for oral). Have taken the morning after pill twice in my life when a condom ripped. Felt fine both times and no symptoms but not something I’d do regularly.

Also, it’s an expensive weekend paying £30 a pill every time haha!

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