FabSwingers.com forum: Tips for my profile so I can meet new people

By *aughtyYoungGent OP Man
over a year ago

Hampshire

Hi there people but I think there could be more things I could do to spice it up more and make it more interesting but I can’t figure what to do so wondering if any females or couples have any tips that could help me out

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

Lose the legal disclaimer. Site FAQs wven cover this. It's pointless, unenforceable and wastes valuable server space

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By *ightNWet69Woman
over a year ago

dark side of the moon

Hey, I'd get rid of those "legal notices" at the bottom of your profile, are you really going to seek legal action against someone using your shirt pic?

That's probably the only fault I can find. You have a well written & detailed profile which is a great start.

I would say that it isn't your profile that is a problem, the fact you are quite young & lots of people may have children your age is the biggest factor. That said there are lots who enjoy young guys so hang in there. Try looking for local social events or maybe local clubs to get yourself out there a bit.

Good luck OP

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Your profile says a lot about what you want but nothing about what you offer to a potential partner so maybe think about this. Age will be against you for some people (we have older grandchildren) so make sure you are compatible with people that you message for a better chance of interaction. We would also suggest going to organised socials. Good luck OP.

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By *illithsApprenticeTV/TS
over a year ago

Tetbury

I would try something like this.

Young gym fit guy who likes to exercise indoors and outdoors. I cycle and run so lots of stamina

Always clean and well groomed. I take on myself and take time getting ready to look and smell my best for a meet, so would like someone similar. This is more important to me than silly things like age gaps. In fact with age comes experience so wouldn't mind a lady to give me an advanced lesson or two.

I am non judgemental and like to have fun outside the bedroom too, so if you are a similar bubbly woman we can get along great. Natural gifts in looks are not what do it for me. The attitude and effort means so much more.

I am sensual as well as horny so like to take my time and kiss and have foreplay first, but this is only after a bit of social as I do like to get to know a woman first.

Happy to travel a bit for the right person, or share a hotel room/ maybe club meet, but don't accommodate.

Feel free to ask a anything.

Face pic available to whoever can entice me with their message.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

You say you have a six pack so maybe show a pic of it ?

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"I would try something like this.

Young gym fit guy who likes to exercise indoors and outdoors. I cycle and run so lots of stamina

I am sensual as well as horny so like to take my time and kiss and have foreplay first, but this is only after a bit of social as I do like to get to know a woman first.

Happy to travel a bit for the right person, or share a hotel room/ maybe club meet, but don't accommodate.

Feel free to ask a anything.

Face pic available to whoever can entice me with their message."

I understand giving general advice or even specific advice on something but don't get the point in completely rewriting a profile. If somebody else writes it then it is no longer him.

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
over a year ago

Chester

I understand giving general advice or even specific advice on something but don't get the point in completely rewriting a profile. If somebody else writes it then it is no longer him. "

Completely agree. The text is ok, if the legal stuff is removed. I’m not sure I’d lead with a forearm photo though, even if there’s a size connection to be made with another appendage - it’s a bit odd!

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By *amieLDN22Man
over a year ago

London

If the profile write up idea above gets him pussy so job done. Good luck OP

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"If the profile write up idea above gets him pussy so job done. Good luck OP

Do you mean gets to chat and eventually meet a lady? Or is it just the pussy?

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By *weetsmellingtreatsWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

I automatically rule out people with that legal crap on a profile.

Means you’ve just blindly copied someone else and not done it for yourself

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
over a year ago

Chester

"I automatically rule out people with that legal crap on a profile.

Means you’ve just blindly copied someone else and not done it for yourself "

It’s a very useful filter, to be fair. Especially when it refers to Facebook….

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

It’s a very useful filter, to be fair. Especially when it refers to Facebook…."

Or "we" and "us" on a single profile

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By *aughtyYoungGent OP Man
over a year ago

Hampshire

Thanks to everyone I’m talking notes also might have meet

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Your profile text repeats itself on several points.

For example you mention your 2nd paragraph is all about how you like to dress and smell nice, then you repeat the same theme in the 2nd paragraph of 'what you will expect of me'.

Some better photo's would bring much more to your profile, the ones you hve at the moment aren't very appealing IMHO.

Good luck

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