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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ive recenty been asked a few times to meet but ive made up excuses and didnt go cause of my size im a size 24 so im a bit nervous can someone tell me does al men like skinny weman r am i foolish to not be enjoying myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

go for it hun the men iv met have loved bbw n im size 26 n i get my fair share of messages off men n women n couples who dont fancy skinny or slim women x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So soooo foolish not to be enjoying yourself! Ive been on here for about 4 years, and as a bigger lass myself ive had the most amazing time! Give it a go, you will be surprised how many men like the curvier lady! I promise one you get the taste for it, there will be no holding back xx Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

tanx im happier now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"tanx im happier now lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here im a size 18-20 and am bogged down with offers. I could never meet them all. Have fun you..... You are beautiful xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

nice one im gonna get out and enjoy the attention

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

suppose its the way u put ur self out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are alot of men who love the bigger women on here so you shouldn't be short of offers. Have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence is sexy

I'm a 22 - 24 and have more offers than I'm prepared to take up.

Go for it - and enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is always beautiful n all women are , this is the male Chris on atm go n enjoy x

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By *arl828Man
over a year ago

warrington, Cheshire

Get out there and have some fun, if you've been invited to meet they obviously like what they've seen and read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it I'm an 18/20 men love larger ladies too don't hold back you will have a lot of fun

Pheonixbbw

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

your profile gives no indication to your size, I am not saying it should but if it is an issue for you, you may be better letting people know in advance that you may worry about it...

good luck, you seem to be doing ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like earl said, you're getting offers and you're upfront about yourself therefore there's men that find you appealing!

To further enhance this men find a broader spectrum of women sexually attractive than women do men (the opposite tends to be true of relationships) this is the main reason men outnumber women on here about 50 to 1.

So given all of the above fill your boots girl!

Enjoy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Minnie, like you, I was nervous about being 'over-weight', thinking that people would find me unattractive. How wrong I was! I wasted several years dieting into what the media told me was a more-acceptable shape, before I 'dared' join a swingers club. And when I got there, I found that the club was full of lots of friendly people, of all shapes and sizes. Size 18+ is not at all unusual.

Although "stick-thin" may be the most popular for models/actresses in the media, the most popular women in swinging tend to be curvier. I think men like the fact that we're not self-centred, we have genuine appetites, and they can enjoy vigorous sex without fear of breaking us!

Needless to say, I have indulged my appetites ( ) and I'm not a size 10 any more. But, heck! I'm having fun!

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Go for it I'd say - I'm 26/28 and have lots of fun but just be honest about it. I make it very clear their getting a BIG girl and never had any complaints xx

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

I am not sure if the comment self centred always applies to thinner women, it applies to some people regardless of size.

with regards to the OP, you have some great veris, so you are having fun, and keep going girl...

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

absolutely no reason why you cant swing and have as much fun as anyone else on here. go for it girl you might not be everyones cup of tea but the guys who approach and chat with you on here will mostly appreciate your voluptuous charms xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive recenty been asked a few times to meet but ive made up excuses and didnt go cause of my size im a size 24 so im a bit nervous can someone tell me does al men like skinny weman r am i foolish to not be enjoying myself "

actually i reckon most men on this site prefer bigger women

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"ive recenty been asked a few times to meet but ive made up excuses and didnt go cause of my size im a size 24 so im a bit nervous can someone tell me does al men like skinny weman r am i foolish to not be enjoying myself "

No one should feel they are not good enough, so do not let your size make you think you are not good enough either. As long as you are healthy then your body size is not an issue.

As far as confidence and other people's experiences go, check out the meets thread for the next BBW social - if you can make the trip I'l sure you'll find the experience an eye opener.

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"ive recenty been asked a few times to meet but ive made up excuses and didnt go cause of my size im a size 24 so im a bit nervous can someone tell me does al men like skinny weman r am i foolish to not be enjoying myself "

No not all men don't like skinny women. Think that has more to do with what society labels as "attractive"

Personally i'm not a fan of size, colour or any other label put on people by society nor do i like being told what i should think. So in my humble opinion aslong as you're a size 42 in personality i'd be more than happy to meet socially first and if the attraction was still there in person then play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do not let your size put you off, go for it girl. Some people don't like the larger person and some do, some are indifferent at the end of the day you are here for fun and if some people have an issue with it then it is their loss.

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By *rbadguy64Couple
over a year ago

bangor


"tanx im happier now lol "

I think Voluptious women are very sexy

And you would def come under that bracket, remember big is beautiful

Regards mrbadguy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love big women size is just a number so go enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i joined 3 years ago and thought i would be lucky to find anyone!

boy was i wrong

i was so overwhelmed with response that i realised i could start being picky over who i wanted and found i had a huge thing for young guys..

also found alot of young guys have a fetish for big ladies but want to keep it discrete.. works for me

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By *--Cinders---Couple
over a year ago

a place near Blackpool

I joined two years ago and thought cos i was big i wudnt get any response but i was wrong, have met some great guys..only problem i have at the mo is my age, i was told by a guy that i turned down for a meet today that i shud get whats on offer at my age..So its not just a size thing for me but an age one too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another "look at me thread"??

There is a huge amount of men on here that will fuck anything with a pulse!

so fill your boots and enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another "look at me thread"??

There is a huge amount of men on here that will fuck anything with a pulse!

so fill your boots and enjoy!"

what a charmer

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone


"Another "look at me thread"??

There is a huge amount of men on here that will fuck anything with a pulse!

so fill your boots and enjoy!"

wince! dont say that out loud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another "look at me thread"??

There is a huge amount of men on here that will fuck anything with a pulse!

so fill your boots and enjoy!"

i agree with u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another "look at me thread"??

There is a huge amount of men on here that will fuck anything with a pulse!

so fill your boots and enjoy!

what a charmer "

I agree... not a very nice comment!

Maybe "a pulse" is this poster's only pre-requisite... but I have met very very men who LOVE the company of cuddlier women!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another "look at me thread"??

There is a huge amount of men on here that will fuck anything with a pulse!

so fill your boots and enjoy!

what a charmer

I agree... not a very nice comment!

Maybe "a pulse" is this poster's only pre-requisite... but I have met very very men who LOVE the company of cuddlier women!"

Actually, i'm very fussy and have a type, not just a pulse!

but merely suggesting that the OP will have plenty of opportunity to play via this site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your never too big, small, young (18) or old. Just get out there and enjoy yourself and have fun !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No hun your not too big to swing ! The whole point is have fun enjoy yourself and if you get any small minded people saying you are well ignore them ! ( i know its hard ) but there are plenty of people that love the bbw's i should know cos im one of em !

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Another "look at me thread"??

There is a huge amount of men on here that will fuck anything with a pulse!

so fill your boots and enjoy!

what a charmer "

1. In fairness, after looking at ops profile and seeing she has met people I too thought oh, another look at me thread.

2. Agree that there are some men that will fuck anything. Just look at the amount of threads started by men looking for NSA complaining the women on site are fussy as emptying their sacs is the endgame, attraction is int a prerequisite, claiming to be straight but will take it up the arse to get to a hot wife, shag a tv and call him "her" to delude themselves etc...need I go on?!!

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By *wencatWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I am no stick insect ...I have been a size 10 I have been on a constant diet ... but u know what I rather be as I am now and happy it all comes down to how confident u feel about u and if people dont like u they dont have to speak to u there loss I say get out there and have fun plenty men like us curvy ladies believe me I get lots of attention both on here and off could have lots meets in a day and even get chatted up at the checkouts so have lots fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another "look at me thread"??

There is a huge amount of men on here that will fuck anything with a pulse!

so fill your boots and enjoy!

what a charmer

1. In fairness, after looking at ops profile and seeing she has met people I too thought oh, another look at me thread.

2. Agree that there are some men that will fuck anything. Just look at the amount of threads started by men looking for NSA complaining the women on site are fussy as emptying their sacs is the endgame, attraction is int a prerequisite, claiming to be straight but will take it up the arse to get to a hot wife, shag a tv and call him "her" to delude themselves etc...need I go on?!!

"

hahaha and sometimes 'fussy' translates as 'not getting any'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As Nike proclaim "Just do it "

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

A site like this gives people the freedom to be honest about what turns them on. For some people it's larger people. For others it's watersports and fetishes.

All of these are things we may be nervous of sharing with our friends in case they think we're freaks.

So be honest about who you are and what/who turns you on and when you find someone who catches your eye and seems to feel the same in return then go for it.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

As are many things, size is a matter of preference. I only meet tall guys, my choice...

Be sexy for who you are not the label on the inside of your clothes woman. Be a woman and celebrate your womanness.....

Sexy is what makes us who we are...not a bloody number!

get out there are enjoy!! xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give me curves, tums n bums anyday over a stick insect .. Most guys love a real womans body not the posh spice types in all the mags .. Be proud of your body and enjoy ! X

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

i was seven stone now im ten stone and hubby loves it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it girl! Enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive recenty been asked a few times to meet but ive made up excuses and didnt go cause of my size im a size 24 so im a bit nervous can someone tell me does al men like skinny weman r am i foolish to not be enjoying myself "

i do that all the time

Theres loads of guys ive spoken to on here and would loved to have met but not took it any further because ive not felt comfy with the way i look and scared i'll disappoint them if i met, so i tend to just let the conversation die off and they soon get bored and move onto someone else

I always say to people what you have to remember is not everyone _iews you the way you _iew yourself, we are our own worse critics and where as we pick up on our bad points more other will pick up on our good ones, so instead on deciding for others if they like us we should let them decide for themselves

Easier said than done tho i know

i know the theory its just putting it into practice im still working on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just saying but i think a size 24 isnt classed as curvy?

as someone said as long as you are up front with your size you will get plenty of guys asking to meet xx

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Give me curves, tums n bums anyday over a stick insect .. Most guys love a real womans body not the posh spice types in all the mags .. Be proud of your body and enjoy ! X"

Language is a beautiful thing, it separates us from the beasts in the field. As such we should be able to express our preferences without insulting those we're not attracted to.

Why the need to refer to slim women as stick insects? Why is being thin make you less real than a larger woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give me curves, tums n bums anyday over a stick insect .. Most guys love a real womans body not the posh spice types in all the mags .. Be proud of your body and enjoy ! X

Language is a beautiful thing, it separates us from the beasts in the field. As such we should be able to express our preferences without insulting those we're not attracted to.

Why the need to refer to slim women as stick insects? Why is being thin make you less real than a larger woman? "

it pisses me off too

if anyone came on here referring to big women as beached whales there would be an uproar, and quite rightly so, so why do big people and big people lovers think its ok to call slim women stick insects, bags of bones and ironing boards etc? you see it all the time on here, anyone says anything rude about BBWs and everyone gets uptight but it seems ok to say what you like about slim women

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hey i dont have a problem with thin people i once wished i could be one but i dont now am who im not gonna change ive been big all my life and im 29 now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i was just afraid of me waisting my time on here i didnt think men liked big weman even though ive chatted a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if this was a man asking would it be the same ? after that post on mens size .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i was just afraid of me waisting my time on here i didnt think men liked big weman even though ive chatted a few "
can i ask do you like bigger men ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give me curves, tums n bums anyday over a stick insect .. Most guys love a real womans body not the posh spice types in all the mags .. Be proud of your body and enjoy ! X

Language is a beautiful thing, it separates us from the beasts in the field. As such we should be able to express our preferences without insulting those we're not attracted to.

Why the need to refer to slim women as stick insects? Why is being thin make you less real than a larger woman? "

I've seen people do the same when refering to not liking bbw

Some people r so sensitive

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

As I said in the big guy thread what you look like matters very little when this site is populated by at least 75% men. Its not nice to hear from a self esteem point of _iew but you could look like anything and have a set of requirements that include being able to combust on command and you would still get meets as long as you have a pulse.

So in short yes, you will get meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi minnie wud love to have fun with u bigger the better turns me on xxx rog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give me curves, tums n bums anyday over a stick insect .. Most guys love a real womans body not the posh spice types in all the mags .. Be proud of your body and enjoy ! X

Language is a beautiful thing, it separates us from the beasts in the field. As such we should be able to express our preferences without insulting those we're not attracted to.

Why the need to refer to slim women as stick insects? Why is being thin make you less real than a larger woman?

it pisses me off too

if anyone came on here referring to big women as beached whales there would be an uproar, and quite rightly so, so why do big people and big people lovers think its ok to call slim women stick insects, bags of bones and ironing boards etc? you see it all the time on here, anyone says anything rude about BBWs and everyone gets uptight but it seems ok to say what you like about slim women

"

I totally agree with this, it's rude and uncalled for.

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By *ursevampsWoman
over a year ago

bucks

hell no hunni im a 22/2 nd i met a fair few on hear two i see as regualr fb now i was very concened about my shape size etc but i get a lot of message daily hun use it as a big compliment

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By *ursevampsWoman
over a year ago

bucks


"Give me curves, tums n bums anyday over a stick insect .. Most guys love a real womans body not the posh spice types in all the mags .. Be proud of your body and enjoy ! X

Language is a beautiful thing, it separates us from the beasts in the field. As such we should be able to express our preferences without insulting those we're not attracted to.

Why the need to refer to slim women as stick insects? Why is being thin make you less real than a larger woman?

it pisses me off too

if anyone came on here referring to big women as beached whales there would be an uproar, and quite rightly so, so why do big people and big people lovers think its ok to call slim women stick insects, bags of bones and ironing boards etc? you see it all the time on here, anyone says anything rude about BBWs and everyone gets uptight but it seems ok to say what you like about slim women

I totally agree with this, it's rude and uncalled for."

as a sociaty we all beom politically correct et but are we who deems the labels such as bbw stick insects bullies thatwho i was always classed a =s the fat giant at school so mush i had issues groing up then i became comfertable as i am i am the sie ia m and well tough i love ,e as i am call me all the names under the sun nowdays coz i will just replie i like big butts and i canna not lie there was a song put out there i have a large arse btw hence the refernece but i am who i am and i dress to impress me no one else i dont get loads male cpliments but hundreds of women stop me and say wish i was as confident as you truth is i am no where near confident as i want to be but days i think fuck it and get out there and hunnni can bump her bppty lol and i dont car i have laugh and well at end day im the one that maters you are as powerful as you want to be and ther eis always the word no

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"if this was a man asking would it be the same ? after that post on mens size . "

What post on mens size?? Where's that thread please. Would be nice to read a mans perspective on size where it's not about his cock

I still stick to what i saod on here, as long as you have a big friendly personality i'd be happy to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive recenty been asked a few times to meet but ive made up excuses and didnt go cause of my size im a size 24 so im a bit nervous can someone tell me does al men like skinny weman r am i foolish to not be enjoying myself "

I am confused as you have verifications???? Your post sounded like you had not met anyone?

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im a size 22 24, wouldnt let anyone put you off a meet because of your size, be happy with who you are and then any confidence you give off will be more of a turn on than a turn off.

size has nothing to do with being sexy its how you feel in yourself. i have found many a desperate guy will still have fun with a female no matter what their size preference if its laid out for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if this was a man asking would it be the same ? after that post on mens size .

What post on mens size?? Where's that thread please. Would be nice to read a mans perspective on size where it's not about his cock

I still stick to what i saod on here, as long as you have a big friendly personality i'd be happy to meet "
Not sure where its gone ... was here about men saying are woman put off meeting big men ? and thats nothing to do with cock ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im a size 22 24, wouldnt let anyone put you off a meet because of your size, be happy with who you are and then any confidence you give off will be more of a turn on than a turn off.

size has nothing to do with being sexy its how you feel in yourself. i have found many a desperate guy will still have fun with a female no matter what their size preference if its laid out for them."

I wouldn't like to have sex with anyone who was 'desperate;

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weight/size shouldn't really matter I don't think.. There is someone for everyone!

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"if this was a man asking would it be the same ? after that post on mens size .

What post on mens size?? Where's that thread please. Would be nice to read a mans perspective on size where it's not about his cock

I still stick to what i saod on here, as long as you have a big friendly personality i'd be happy to meet Not sure where its gone ... was here about men saying are woman put off meeting big men ? and thats nothing to do with cock , "

I need to have a snoop to find it then

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By *ombshellWoman
over a year ago

islington

i used to be a 28 but had tons of fun from guys who prefer bbw's, however i always stated the fact i was a large lady, didnt want to see the look of horror on there faces if they wasnt aware i was large ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive recenty been asked a few times to meet but ive made up excuses and didnt go cause of my size im a size 24 so im a bit nervous can someone tell me does al men like skinny weman r am i foolish to not be enjoying myself "

Of course you are not, go for it and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I said in the big guy thread what you look like matters very little when this site is populated by at least 75% men. Its not nice to hear from a self esteem point of _iew but you could look like anything and have a set of requirements that include being able to combust on command and you would still get meets as long as you have a pulse.

So in short yes, you will get meets.

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this hit the nail on the head, a woman of any size or looks will get a meet on here guranteed, theres so many desperate men on here who would sleep with any1 regardless of how they looked, im not biased against bbw's as every1 on this site has a right to be here, only time it gets to mee is when a really big girl says shes curvy, just say it how it is and ull have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I said in the big guy thread what you look like matters very little when this site is populated by at least 75% men. Its not nice to hear from a self esteem point of _iew but you could look like anything and have a set of requirements that include being able to combust on command and you would still get meets as long as you have a pulse.

So in short yes, you will get meets.

this hit the nail on the head, a woman of any size or looks will get a meet on here guranteed, theres so many desperate men on here who would sleep with any1 regardless of how they looked, im not biased against bbw's as every1 on this site has a right to be here, only time it gets to mee is when a really big girl says shes curvy, just say it how it is and ull have fun "

same thing for me when guys claim to be 9 or 10 inches when they clearly would struggle to be 9 or 10cm..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive recenty been asked a few times to meet but ive made up excuses and didnt go cause of my size im a size 24 so im a bit nervous can someone tell me does al men like skinny weman r am i foolish to not be enjoying myself "

No go out there and have a good time, I quite like a lady with curves so just go and enjoy yourself mmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it there is sum nice guys out there. Not all guys want skinny women. I'm a big lady and get my fair share of guys wanting to chat or meet. U should get urself out there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im ready to enjoy myself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont worry, as a man I prefer the larger lady. Tend to have more fun and have beautiful curves to. Enjoy yourself babe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You go for it Hun I love biger women and in my experience thay are better in bed to x

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"Another "look at me thread"??

There is a huge amount of men on here that will fuck anything with a pulse!

so fill your boots and enjoy!

what a charmer

1. In fairness, after looking at ops profile and seeing she has met people I too thought oh, another look at me thread.

2. Agree that there are some men that will fuck anything. Just look at the amount of threads started by men looking for NSA complaining the women on site are fussy as emptying their sacs is the endgame, attraction is int a prerequisite, claiming to be straight but will take it up the arse to get to a hot wife, shag a tv and call him "her" to delude themselves etc...need I go on?!!

hahaha and sometimes 'fussy' translates as 'not getting any' "

I'm very fussy and also very happy to be classed as 'not getting any' if thats what you think. Because for me I could never just shag somebody with a pulse.. there has to be an attraction.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im the same lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go for it there is sum nice guys out there. Not all guys want skinny women. I'm a big lady and get my fair share of guys wanting to chat or meet. U should get urself out there"

I agree and Im also not surprised you get your fair share of admires with that sexy body a nod sweet arse I your pics mmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it loads of larger ladies love swinging and loads of people like women of all shapes n sizes gi have some fun and im sure it will build your confidence x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm also a bigger lady and not been swinging long and I must admit a lot of men are into big girls so don't worry. Only problem I have is that I can never find lingerie etc to fit. I'm a size 22 buy have really large boobs so quite awkward. We attend clubs and I find that at clubs couples don't tend to go for larger people which is putting me off quite a bit.

But at the end of the day I'm having fun and its there loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was I a club if have no problem going for the larger lady I like the larger lady myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

glad to hear x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

im not averse to the larger lady. i like small one too lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

very good x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Minnie

Your size shouldn't matter

if you have a meet its because they want to meet you for who you are. No one has a right to say about someones size as

We all like difrent things

So I say live on and have fun

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At first I thought .. No size don't mater but I think it does in some cases..if your belly has its own post code and you have to lift it to fuck then that is a very real issue...

Just being honest !

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By *tarkersandcrutchCouple
over a year ago

TELFORD

enjoy yourself, I was a size 24 and had no self belief, lost 5 stone and now a 16/18 and feel absolutely no different, embrace what you have, confidence is sexy, lap it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another "look at me thread"??

There is a huge amount of men on here that will fuck anything with a pulse!

so fill your boots and enjoy!"

Theres probably a few that wont even bother with the pulse

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By *now-bbw-bunnyCouple
over a year ago

southend-on-sea


"ive recenty been asked a few times to meet but ive made up excuses and didnt go cause of my size im a size 24 so im a bit nervous can someone tell me does al men like skinny weman r am i foolish to not be enjoying myself "
im a size 28/30 who enjoys party nights . There never been a lacking of men and women wanting to join me so u will be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

attitude has a lot to do with the attraction , i find big ladies are often confident and i love the power the size gives a woman ,

or the switch and are trully sub and enjoy the attention a guy can give them

one of my best meets (off of this sight) was with a woman who was over size 30 but boy did we please each other ,

from the op's profile i feel more pics and body type would help guys make opinions ,then they can decide and you can have confidence that they are happy with a bbw

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am the same size as you and don't have a problem. Be happy in you and the men will run towards you were forbidan fruit lol

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By *hynottsCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

Lot of us guys like the fuller figger go for it have fun i have played with a girl size 32 open about it and horny as hell xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love all the "I like larger ladies, gosh am I not sensitive and lovely, please shag me" comments from guys on this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im 18-20 used to be a lot bigger was a size 32. your getting offers for meets so its obviouse men are intrested in you. get out there and enjoy yourself never ever be embarres about your size, i always say if ya dont like it then ya dont need to look at it lol im me n i aint changing for no bugger. xxxxxxxxx

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By *hynottsCouple
over a year ago

nottingham


"I'm also a bigger lady and not been swinging long and I must admit a lot of men are into big girls so don't worry. Only problem I have is that I can never find lingerie etc to fit. I'm a size 22 buy have really large boobs so quite awkward. We attend clubs and I find that at clubs couples

don't tend to go for larger people which is putting me off quite a bit.

But at the end of the day I'm having fun and its there loss. "

I have plaued with larger ladys in clubs no problems with it but the larger guys do have a problem lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

true lol

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By *incs-cpl1Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Confidence is sexy "

Absolutely !!!!

Size or shape has nothing to do with it.

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Self confidence and sex appeal, the ability to entice and excite a guy is more important.

Ladies like men that have ego issues and think they,re gods gift is much more of a turn off. For us anyway.

You have fun, be safe xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i dont like men with egos

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I'd say that whatever size anyone is, they're not too big to swing. Even if sexual coupling became a physical impossibility, many get by on foreplay or more tactile approaches. There is truly something for everyone to be doing as there are so many ways to make someone happy

Wolf

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

thankfully people find all shapes ,sizes,heights ect ect attractive .so theres meets for all and fun to be had if you want .

as you have already had afew meets and offers of more ,youve answered your own question .

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

watch any gok show . plenty of larger ladies all glammed up and looking really sexy good luck babe x

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Search through the forums there are threads upon threads that people have started just to show appreciation for us voluptuous ladies, guarentee to give you the ego boost you may need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How thick's the rope????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive recenty been asked a few times to meet but ive made up excuses and didnt go cause of my size im a size 24 so im a bit nervous can someone tell me does al men like skinny weman r am i foolish to not be enjoying myself "

All diferent shapes and sizes, some like small, some like thin, big, tall, short!

We all have different tastes and there is beauty along with sexuality in many different people, just go out and enjoy yourself!

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By *wanzMan
over a year ago

Swansea

Fat women don't swing - they rock ...

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By *harlie girlWoman
over a year ago

valleys

hi everyone read some of ur replys to bbw thanks to u all im getting my confidence back xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The honest truth is that a woman will always be able to get a willing male regardless of how much they have let themself go.

Mainly in part because there is a kink for everything but also because a lot of single guys here are not single at all and are just looking to try something new.

Regardless of what people will say, clinically obese men will not find athletic women filling there inbox with lame 1 liners.

Except your gender advantage and embrace your fab future, best of luck to you.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love cuddly women. Our lass is BBW and I can't get enough of her. You enjoy yourself. If others have a problem, it's theirs not yours x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive recenty been asked a few times to meet but ive made up excuses and didnt go cause of my size im a size 24 so im a bit nervous can someone tell me does al men like skinny weman r am i foolish to not be enjoying myself "

Obe of the ladies I met of another site about 3 years ago was the same size as you. She had SOOOO many offers of sex, she just couldn't keep up with it. She made a big thing (no pun int honestly) about her size and guys LOVED it. She was one sexy lady too!!!

Never EVER put yourself down in the Swinging community due to your size. There is constant demand for ladies your size and a LOT bigger - have seen a size 32 lady also getting all she wants - so don't ever be worried about it. What is more important is if YOU are happy and content with your size - not what others 'may' think... Good luck luv - go out and enjoy yourself

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

did you hear open book on radio four. about the lady in berlin at the end of the war. they tried to hide the larger lady from the russian soldiers because they all wanted her the most . ok so we re not russian soldiers but larger ladies are still popular x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cheers lol x

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