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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Id like to post a meet request for a few weeks time but would be the first time I have done so. Am a bit nervous about doing so. Im wondering if it is easier to ask someone off my friends list - either way I feel I wouldnt get any response. Advice please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, we'd say it's definitely better asking someone you already talk to x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for that. will definately do that I think but need to pick right one anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah cos women never get any response to a meet listing! You'd be able to see the tumbles blowing through your mailbox!

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

If you ask someone you know first and if that doesntvwork then do it.

But you may get lots of offers...lots wont be your thing. Lots will try move the boundaries. If you cant accomodate thrn lots will ask you to.

Can often be a pain and very occasionally get it all to work x

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


" - either way I feel I wouldnt get any response. Advice please"

If you have friends on your profile you would like to meet set up a meet with one of them.

However if you are a single female with a pulse your meet request will get responses ;p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice would be to follow up with people on your friends list that you've already chatted to then if that draws a blank then try a meet today but be prepared to sift thru a load of random requests.

A single female can have no pics, no veris and a one word profile and still get inundated!!! Ms

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I dont want to have to trawl through loads but doubt that will be the problem but thanks for your good advice. I wont move boundaries for anyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive just had a meet cancelled by a guy off friends list. I have met him before - he had valid reason for cancelling. apart from 2 recent meets off friends list - noone asks me and I dont ask others cos I know they will say no. Not being negative just truth

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I got inundated when I joined last year. fresh meat is what I call it. Im married so not fresh just without sex for years lol. anyway yes I agree with you about the no pic one word profile thing. I had no pics last year at all

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

you have a blank profile with no pictures, people are desperate but clearly not that desperate anymore.

maybe try filling it out and adding some.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

When I say blank I do 100% mean in respect of pics by the way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

my profile is not blank. pics are hidden recently actually. I dont mind if people look at pics some of them I quite like look of but no contact

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok fair enough. when i post pics some are friends only, face pics are private, ones i can do for public view i do. will put them back soon but no harm in them asking for a pic which I will supply with a message if i get one of them. most women here seem to want that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Btw and not having a go - I may seem desperate but am not. I know a lot of guys on here arent desperate either. my meets have been instigated by the guy which sounds bigheaded but im far from that. its just good some want to meet me and not just chat on skype or here. would just like to find one who I could be meeting reg(well as much as my marriage will allow)

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