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By *unlunguy OP   Man
over a year ago

17510 FRANCE

Serious question. Need lube that doesn’t go dry as wife going through menopause. Suggestions please

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Two options. Water based, accept that her body will absorb the water from the lube and it’ll need topping up - or oil based, like yes OB. (Yes also do a vaginal moisturiser for daily use.)

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By *ikminWoman
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

I use pjur women and just discovered Dr wolffs v San it moisturises inside .

I struggle alot with sex and being dry

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By *ittlesub4uWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

My fave is roam.

Here’s the advice bit: avoid scented, flavoured or coloured lubes, use water-based lube with condoms, dental dams and silicone toys as oil and silicone lubes can break down your toys and safer-sex barriers. Some people have allergies to stuff in lube so you might be best off going for water-based, vegan and natural ones with no colourings or parabens.

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By *abrielle43Woman
over a year ago

Kildare

Liquid silk is good and doesn't go dry/sticky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coconut oil is perfect....

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester


"Liquid silk is good and doesn't go dry/sticky"

Struggled to find better..

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester


"Coconut oil is perfect.... "

Be wary of this one.. dermatologist advised against for easing dry skin. (Can't remember exactly why now. So..

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham

Another fan of liquid sylk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liquid silk by miles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liquid Silk like the others say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Serious question. Need lube that doesn’t go dry as wife going through menopause. Suggestions please"

Hanx or Sutil, I’ve found that works the best during meno

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Liquid Silk.

Don’t use coconut oil internally, it affects the natural Ph of the vagina.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Another vote for liquid silk.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The blood of your recently vanquished enemies

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester


"The blood of your recently vanquished enemies "

Find it dries quickly and can't complain as it could be used in a court of law..

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

Liquid Silk here too xxx

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By *nSearchOf12Couple
over a year ago

London

+1 for Liquid Silk - by far the best water-based lube we've found.

Note: although it's usually described as "water based", it does contain some Dimethicone (the silicone in silicone lubes). It presumably contains very little, since we've never had it react badly with silicone toys, but something to keep in mind if you have allergies etc

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

Liquid slip is the bomb

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By *ros40Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Tuna oil

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
over a year ago

M20


"Coconut oil is perfect.... "

I second this as it has antibacterial, and anti fungal properties too.

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By *ess n BenCouple
over a year ago

Didcot

Yes, works for us

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By *orthsouthguyMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Once met a couple for some pretty kinky fun…. They had a lot of lube called Elbow deep!!! It was good stuff!!

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By *lecom1Couple
over a year ago

Stornoway

We spoke to the doc about it and he prescribed Replens. It comes in a tube which is inserted into the vagina then the lube is squeezed out. She uses it once a day in the morning.

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By *ice_couple2012Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

Liquid Silk here too, in generous quantities. Oil based destroyed our magic wand!

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