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"Couples only dick pics is an interesting one ..... I personally tend to see too many couples profiles where it's 99% the female and maybe just one dick pic thrown in! As for the rest.... wayyyyyy too many to list " Yes was going to say the same but subtle difference I think. Couple with all dick pics - red flag as probably not a couple Couple where 99% female and one dick pic - red flag (from the perspective of another couple) as although probably a couple if you met it would all be about the lady and the man is either a munter or not likely to be very involved | |||
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"Um. The biggest red flag for me is if they're damaged enough to message me at all " Oh. | |||
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"No offence to anyone but my "red flag" is often people statting threads like this. I don't mean you OP as you are a single male" 100% this | |||
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"people dont discuss thier red flags because then other try and get around them same with most post on here people trying to find out the rights n wrongs id rather let them find out the correct way " Agreed. The more boxes people are able to tick the less of their true selves shows through. | |||
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"Wanting to “push your boundaries” What does no mean to you? " Oh yes, such a narcissistic thing to say. You just know it’s going to be all about them and how they think they can make you do other things people haven’t. | |||
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"Red Flags? None that I'm going to list here as that helps people build a profile that isn't an honest representation of them. " | |||
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"Wanting to “push your boundaries” What does no mean to you? Oh yes, such a narcissistic thing to say. You just know it’s going to be all about them and how they think they can make you do other things people haven’t." To be fair there is a whole dynamic at play here where this is sought after and specifically asked for by the receiver. It's an entirely separate discussion in itself, but there is a world of difference between ignoring strictly laid out hard limits, and pushing people where they desire to be pushed. | |||
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"Um. The biggest red flag for me is if they're damaged enough to message me at all " But aren't all the most fun folk a little damaged? Not reading the profile. Unsolicited Cock Shots, People that can't hold a decent conversation about what they want. Drama. There are probably more | |||
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"Those that claim to be a couple and then the man offers to play alone" “Wife not meeting at the moment” for about 4 years! | |||
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"Profiles full of pics of close ups of genitalia (eww) that’s both penis AND vagina Shouty profiles with list more of what they’re NOT looking for as opposed to what they are looking for Anyone who expresses their preferences in a way that can be deemed derogatory or discriminatory Messages requesting things I don’t feel comfortable with or trying to push boundaries (E.g. asking couples asking if I want to play with the male half too when my profile clearly states I’m straight) " Blame that on the amount of guys on here who claim they are straight but are as gay as they come on the guys site | |||
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"Profiles full of pics of close ups of genitalia (eww) that’s both penis AND vagina Shouty profiles with list more of what they’re NOT looking for as opposed to what they are looking for Anyone who expresses their preferences in a way that can be deemed derogatory or discriminatory Messages requesting things I don’t feel comfortable with or trying to push boundaries (E.g. asking couples asking if I want to play with the male half too when my profile clearly states I’m straight) " Spot on. | |||
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"One to three word answers. Not asking any questions back. I tend to get this a lot. " Eh | |||
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"For the record - i rarely reply to a so-called couple where mr is playing alone. Block them, our choice as it is yours. I recall meeting men frequently on a nautust beach and the club we used to go to - they would often say, "my gf/wife is joining me in a while..." You know the "GF/wife" they were referring to, yes, the imaginary one. As we got more confident re club/beach, I used to say, we are a bit buy now, come back when she is here, lol " With regards clubs sometimes due to commitments I'll be there alone with Mrs coming to meet me later (or the other way round). Or either of us on the rare occasion there alone all evening or with freinds. However I'm not there to be entertained by people seeing me as a stepping stone to the Mrs. I wouldn't want that. When I'm there alone I just want people who are intrested in me as an individual. And why would anyone who just wants couples play with guy before the Mrs comes? I don't know what guys aim to achieve by lying about it? It depends the context of how a guy says it but likewise if we smell BS as a way to win favour with us we'd say the same | |||
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"Profiles full of pics of close ups of genitalia (eww) that’s both penis AND vagina Shouty profiles with list more of what they’re NOT looking for as opposed to what they are looking for Anyone who expresses their preferences in a way that can be deemed derogatory or discriminatory Messages requesting things I don’t feel comfortable with or trying to push boundaries (E.g. asking couples asking if I want to play with the male half too when my profile clearly states I’m straight) " Yup sums it up for me (well except for couples, they ask if I want to play with females and I'm straight too!) | |||
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