FabSwingers.com forum: do prefer verification types or take a risk with someone new? :)

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Most people i see seem to prefer verified people rather than go for people with no verifies who need to get started? Any comments? X

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I have been the first verification for several men on here. I prefer to see someone has met before but if they are relatively new, send me a pic, and live near me I'll take a risk.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Which is good to hear cos like driving u have to start somewhere lol im not new to sex oviously lol but so much i want to explore that nice people like you would make me smile all day long x

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

It would depend. Some people that are verified have profiles and pics that wouldn't appeal to me personally at all. But someone who's profile, pics and messages look good that aren't verified I'd give them a chance. Like you say you've gotta start somewhere x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The frustrating ones are where they want verifications of a 'meet' or will not meet you..difficult if you have not yet had a meet.

Weirdly, makes me think as to why they approached me in the first place if they wont meet due to no meet verifications lol

Funny.

Good luck anyway mate!

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

Like most I prefer veri's. If I meet a newbie I would have to speak for a good few weeks first. We all started without veri's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone new last night

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ah yea we all have types n if it aint doing it for you it aint doing it x ( no amount off wine will help lol ) x ps love the profile pic

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thats cool kinda wot i thought, is there anything a newbie should or shouldnt put on profile to help?

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

Shouldn't put a cock pic along side a tv remote or lynx tin lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I met someone new last night

Yep....check the dudes veri - his first meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If he aint got one he cant out one. So like a roundabout someones got to give way to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to meet unverified guys, so long as they send pics & exchange numbers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

N i would love to send pics n numbers to people who would give me a chance, like most people i enjoy the whole package off chattin, getting to know them meet on a social one then go frm there. The longer u meet someone the more confident u both get and more open ull be ( dont get me wrong quick meets can be horny n sexy )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if the user has been on the site over a yr with either no photo verifed tick or meet veris, i'd not meet...sounds dodgy, but if someone new on the site who i can get on with and have a laugh and a flirt with, then i'm prepared to take the risk after a couple weeks of chatting to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than happy to meet newbies, break them in

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ah yeah you got ask questions if he/she ( so im not stereo typing lol ) has been on here for a yr without a meet they either doing somthing wrong or they look lime a bulldog chewin a wasp lol ps nice hand print on bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah yeah you got ask questions if he/she ( so im not stereo typing lol ) has been on here for a yr without a meet they either doing somthing wrong or they look lime a bulldog chewin a wasp lol ps nice hand print on bum

erm ty lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Must off enjoyed thst slap bbes lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been the first verification for several men on here. I prefer to see someone has met before but if they are relatively new, send me a pic, and live near me I'll take a risk.

That's very much our take on things. No problems with newbie couples but we do tend to avoid those that are unverified and have been on the site for some time.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

dont mind verified or unverified as long as there is some common ground to work with

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think its like most things COMMON sense and gut feelings

makes u realise wether u do actually read a book by its cover eh ? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must off enjoyed thst slap bbes lol x

that was just start of the night pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lmao just start! Id love to imagin the rest well i can try lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good profile/bad profile? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i quite like ya profile, its wacky lol hehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you urs is cool too

more off a tea drinker then? I like to try n see the funny side off life lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're always wary now meeting non-verified people as the twice we've been messed about both times they were not verified. Won't say they wasted our time but both cancelled very late in the day, one even though he had a contact number just chose to message via the site and it was more luck than anything that we even saw the message, and given that we were going to him could have been a bit tricky!! Think they get cold feet at the last minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are happy to give new guys a chance. Yes sometimes the panic or disappear but we have had some great meets with new guys. I enjoy showing them how much swinging can be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As said before if been on a long time and still no veris then no but if new will chat but if we keep getting excuses we give up and block

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well if i had the chance for a meet id be nervous but would deff turn up x i wouldnt make arrangments them bolt at last min x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be wonderful if everyone was genuine and you could take them at face value. I have taken a chance once or twice and given people their first meet.

Unfortunately, there are always the few who spoil it for the good ones. Those who come on here with a new profile (sometimes repeatedly) and just mess you about, or even just plain intend to get off on winding you up....

So for that reason alone I no longer met anyone without personal verifications.

Plus, I often do car meets - so for my own safety I won't meet anyone that way unless they have been well verified, preferable by several people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not bothered so long as they have a face picture and match what I am looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer newbies , and have met plenty if first timers !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand some single males having accounts over a year with no verifications as lots don't give them a chance.

One of the first meets I had was a guy who had been on site 14 months, no pics on his profile but had pics in his private folder that he attached to messages. Turned out to be one best meets I have had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i prefer to meet men with verifications

unless they seem very nice, look very nice, or i am desperate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hear hear newbie revelutions lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going back to OP

Without sounding the obvious...and whilst verification's are not fool proof...there are the deffinatly two camps here...

The fems/couples looking; tend to in the main like/prefer others who have met and been verified.... its some sort of comfort factor...

Men looking, who just don't read or take the hint...... don't give toss and go after anything and let there dicks take over

Not being to cynical i hope...but i am sure most would have come across these scenarios before

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By *ouldyou2Man
over a year ago

west Midlands

"Going back to OP

Without sounding the obvious...and whilst verification's are not fool proof...there are the deffinatly two camps here...

The fems/couples looking; tend to in the main like/prefer others who have met and been verified.... its some sort of comfort factor...

Men looking, who just don't read or take the hint...... don't give toss and go after anything and let there dicks take over

Not being to cynical i hope...but i am sure most would have come across these scenarios before

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wow you're generalising there ! I'm not sure how you collated that opinion ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be open to new people until i had a guy get a bit strange on me, he made new profiles almost every day to hassle me on. Im now a bit wary of new non verified people unfortunately and filter them out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going back to OP

Without sounding the obvious...and whilst verification's are not fool proof...there are the deffinatly two camps here...

The fems/couples looking; tend to in the main like/prefer others who have met and been verified.... its some sort of comfort factor...

Men looking, who just don't read or take the hint...... don't give toss and go after anything and let there dicks take over

Not being to cynical i hope...but i am sure most would have come across these scenarios before

wow you're generalising there ! I'm not sure how you collated that opinion ? "

Before anyone else shoots me down.... it was just an opinion...not law or the right or wrong ..just my opinion

However if it helps i used Pythagoras and Theo Constines method to work it out lol hehehehe

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