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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've just had a look at another "why won't people fuck me?" Post and wondered what people think they're up to? Someone complimented the original posters profile and all though he said thanks, he then alienated all the rest by saying at least you had decency to reply not like all the rest on here!

Oops!!

I'm not sure how many people realise that when they post about not getting meets on here they're not helping themselves by blaming everyone else. How many times have you seen a post saying "sites full of time wasters and no one wants to meet" or "no one replies to my messages" and then you glance at the profile which reads as if a 10 year old with dyslexia and a bizarre fascination with pictures of their own cock has put it together.

I wonder how many of those post realise that this is a buyers market and if you want to meet you have to stand out from the rest.

So my advice is, if no one responds or wants to meet, it's more likely to be you than them.

Are you

1: selling yourself well?

2: looking in the correct areas ?

3: being realistic ?

4: being positive?

5: aware that this forum is about people choosing to meet others they actually fancy

6: aware that negativity is a MASSIVE turn off for most of us.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

In general these fora reflect society I think and you will get your fair share of people who feel entitled and can't understand why things don't just drop in to their lap. Your list of things they should take note of is good but I doubt very much the guilty parties will take note .

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia


"I've just had a look at another "why won't people fuck me?" Post and wondered what people think they're up to? Someone complimented the original posters profile and all though he said thanks, he then alienated all the rest by saying at least you had decency to reply not like all the rest on here!

Oops!!

I'm not sure how many people realise that when they post about not getting meets on here they're not helping themselves by blaming everyone else. How many times have you seen a post saying "sites full of time wasters and no one wants to meet" or "no one replies to my messages" and then you glance at the profile which reads as if a 10 year old with dyslexia and a bizarre fascination with pictures of their own cock has put it together.

I wonder how many of those post realise that this is a buyers market and if you want to meet you have to stand out from the rest.

So my advice is, if no one responds or wants to meet, it's more likely to be you than them.

Are you

1: selling yourself well?

2: looking in the correct areas ?

3: being realistic ?

4: being positive?

5: aware that this forum is about people choosing to meet others they actually fancy

6: aware that negativity is a MASSIVE turn off for most of us.

"

Nicely put.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"In general these fora reflect society I think and you will get your fair share of people who feel entitled and can't understand why things don't just drop in to their lap. Your list of things they should take note of is good but I doubt very much the guilty parties will take note ."

You can drop onto my lap

Lol....OP: the target audience your useful post is directed towards will either not read it or read it and not take any notice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In general these fora reflect society I think and you will get your fair share of people who feel entitled and can't understand why things don't just drop in to their lap. Your list of things they should take note of is good but I doubt very much the guilty parties will take note .

You can drop onto my lap

Lol....OP: the target audience your useful post is directed towards will either not read it or read it and not take any notice. "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"In general these fora reflect society I think and you will get your fair share of people who feel entitled and can't understand why things don't just drop in to their lap. Your list of things they should take note of is good but I doubt very much the guilty parties will take note .

You can drop onto my lap

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

I thought there were rules about selling yourself on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said OP!

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"I thought there were rules about selling yourself on here "

only if you're buy-it-now with paypal only

Wolf

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"In general these fora reflect society I think and you will get your fair share of people who feel entitled and can't understand why things don't just drop in to their lap."

God forbid there'd be those who think the world owes them a living on here

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are always the same moans on here and usually they are treated eruditely and with wit and charm (even wolfie - freedom for tooting).

Cannot agree more with the original poster

Positivity and humour lead to good karma

Karma means that all the world is balanced and most importantly really good things happen to good people

We love it on fab and love reading your posts guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just had a look at another "why won't people fuck me?" Post and wondered what people think they're up to? Someone complimented the original posters profile and all though he said thanks, he then alienated all the rest by saying at least you had decency to reply not like all the rest on here!

Oops!!

I'm not sure how many people realise that when they post about not getting meets on here they're not helping themselves by blaming everyone else. How many times have you seen a post saying "sites full of time wasters and no one wants to meet" or "no one replies to my messages" and then you glance at the profile which reads as if a 10 year old with dyslexia and a bizarre fascination with pictures of their own cock has put it together.

I wonder how many of those post realise that this is a buyers market and if you want to meet you have to stand out from the rest.

So my advice is, if no one responds or wants to meet, it's more likely to be you than them.

Are you

1: selling yourself well?

2: looking in the correct areas ?

3: being realistic ?

4: being positive?

5: aware that this forum is about people choosing to meet others they actually fancy

6: aware that negativity is a MASSIVE turn off for most of us.

"

I was in the chat rooms the other day and ppl there were complaining that fabs was full of timewasters. Then I noticed. They were all in the south east room but none of them lived in that area. Well it made me laugh

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