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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We can never seem to agree on couples! If Hubby likes them, usually I'm not attracted to either the wife or hubby and sometimes both, and the couples I like, he didn't like the wife lol.

Maybe we're too picky but surely attraction is important?

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By *witch mix vanillaCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Can relate to this, as we have the same problem.

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By *wsometwosomeCouple
over a year ago

its a village

We are just the same lol. You are not alone in this )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be a four way attraction for anything to happen!!

And there is no harm in being fussy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank God lol. WE keep joking we'll never get our foursome/swap as we can't agree!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

people think being part of a couple means easy meets but that defo isnt the case as there is 4 people to please instead of 2 very difficult to find sometimes but hang in there the right people are out there ... Good luck xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are the same, can not normally agree on anyone lol, but we have met a few couples now, so just keep going you will get there

Chloe xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I heartily recommend...

Blindfolds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try attending a party where you can mix a bit more and wont necessarily have to do a straight swap with a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are the same but that's the perks of having social meets.

1. pictures don't do a lot of people justice.

2. Their personalities may also make them more attractive.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

we have the same problem but when we have managed to all click it's been fantastic!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

The perpetual swinging problem, if you ever find a solution let us know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same here - we laugh about it and keep looking - our friends we want to meet list is plenty long enough though just not got the time for them all -

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


"Can relate to this, as we have the same problem.

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same here

x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We struggle to do socials as we have such young children and don't live near family it's hard to strange baby sitters!

We have been to a club a few times but we're looking to play together with couples, we have no problem finding individuals to play with, but we want to have some fun together before going separate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's meant to be arrange not strange... But they are a bit strange lol

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By * pool 1Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool


"people think being part of a couple means easy meets but that defo isnt the case as there is 4 people to please instead of 2."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We can never seem to agree on couples! If Hubby likes them, usually I'm not attracted to either the wife or hubby and sometimes both, and the couples I like, he didn't like the wife lol.

Maybe we're too picky but surely attraction is important?"
why clubs are good you get to pick for yourselfs .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup we can relate to this too!! Like someone said above, social meets are a good idea. We've met a couple of couples where they've both liked us (our age gap doesn't help) and we've both liked the wife but I've not been sure about the guy but he's not repulsive then when we've met we've really clicked! Ms

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By *exy-honey n mr honeyCouple
over a year ago

glasgow way

Defo got to b an attraction

I personally wouldnt enjoy my self if I didnt have an attraction to male or female

It goes both ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Defo got to b an attraction

I personally wouldnt enjoy my self if I didnt have an attraction to male or female

It goes both ways"
i cant just lay back think of england as you have to like .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have exactly the same problem lol. We do enjoy the social meets first tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

totally agree after 9 months still not found a couple but plenty of fit single guys for 3 sums mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone likes the mrs lol just thank heaven for wine i am told i am much better looking after 2 bottles lol so if you want to meet us have a bottle or 2 before the meet

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