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Account advice for a Young Lad looking to cater to the swinging crowd

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey beautiful people,

Just was wondering if any of you could potentially give me some account advice for a Younger Lad looking to cater to the swinging crowd.

The harsher the criticism the better in my eyes haha xx

Much Appreciated

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

So you want to be a toy for use rather than seek out your own fun?

Sorry, just trying to understand what you been by "cater to"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi,

I can see how that can be interpreted that way, but what i meant by that is the swinging scene is usually dominated by older folk, so to how could I make my account more older person friendly if that makes sense.

I just don't like referring to people as "older" as it can be offensive to some. Hence my phrasing of "catering to the swinging scene" or something along those lines

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By *ojo2joWoman
over a year ago

Penclawdd


"Hey beautiful people,

Just was wondering if any of you could potentially give me some account advice for a Younger Lad looking to cater to the swinging crowd.

The harsher the criticism the better in my eyes haha xx

I’m not so keen on the computer desk pic with baby oil next to it. Off putting for me.

You say you’ve been with women off Fab but only have 1 cam verification.

Much Appreciated "

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset


"Hi,

I can see how that can be interpreted that way, but what i meant by that is the swinging scene is usually dominated by older folk, so to how could I make my account more older person friendly if that makes sense.

I just don't like referring to people as "older" as it can be offensive to some. Hence my phrasing of "catering to the swinging scene" or something along those lines "

you cant you can only be you and if someone likes what they see and communication is good then maybe you'll get a meet.

its a scene that for men well most men seem very hard to crack and thats because its very over crowded with men most wont ever get a meet ... attraction and communication is everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your account has nothing on it, about what you can offer, what you like, etc. Your status and your posts in this thread show you can write, so use that to your advantage! A lot of people don't write.

Also your body looks banging from where I'm standing, so show it off in more than one photo.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I hate to say it, but you'll be too young for most of us "older" people. Alot won't go under 25/30 because their children are that age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But also there are women without children who are only interested in younger men. Maybe not many, but they do exist.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Hi,

I can see how that can be interpreted that way, but what i meant by that is the swinging scene is usually dominated by older folk, so to how could I make my account more older person friendly if that makes sense.

I just don't like referring to people as "older" as it can be offensive to some. Hence my phrasing of "catering to the swinging scene" or something along those lines "

I see! I thought I'd ask before trying to offer any real advice honestly, just to be sure.

Well, your fab profile is only ever going to get you so far. You can have the best write up, sexiest pics etc but that's not going to guarantee you anything.

What I would suggest may be a good place for you to start is looking at group socials, we've noticed they are quite popular with an "older" crowd. For clubs, you'll want to be looking for Cougar centered evenings, Hotwife centered evenings etc look for the events that cater specifically to older women looking for (often younger) men.

You're always going to get more out of the community if you're actively going outside to where the people are instead of just sitting on a website as you're able to converse and hopefully show off your personality and engage with a good range of people.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Hi,

I can see how that can be interpreted that way, but what i meant by that is the swinging scene is usually dominated by older folk, so to how could I make my account more older person friendly if that makes sense.

I just don't like referring to people as "older" as it can be offensive to some. Hence my phrasing of "catering to the swinging scene" or something along those lines "

Try the (more mature) approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your profile is great now! . You come across as positive, friendly and attractive. Your pictures are hot. That doesn't guarantee meeting anyone but for me that's exactly what I would look for. Your profile is detailed without being rambling.

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By *otally BenettonCouple
over a year ago

shropshire

I think your profile is much better than most on here. However, the reality is that you will probably have to get out to clubs to get established. I guess you could look into webcams!

Rob

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've never really understood the concept of cams, its just one female or a couple with a 100 men drooling over the fact they can see a couple live or female. Unless there's more to it, in which case i'd love to know.

Thanks for the message though much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one time I went into the cam rooms here I just got some man insulting my body :/ haha

You're an attractive and positive man in a very populated city so you have a massive head start. Find people you like the look and sound of and use your eloquence to proposition them. You might not get replies often (or ever) but that's not a personal thing, it's actually not that easy to meet one on one if that's what you're seeking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your words of encouragement haha xx

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Can't comment as your profile is now hidden

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By *ennylewis2016Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Don’t hound people. Take no for an answer.

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By *enleywoodsCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge / Oxford


"looking to cater to the swinging crowd."

Makes you sound like a business looking for customers in a specific demographic!

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By *ere4work.Man
over a year ago

Melton Mowbray


"Hey beautiful people,

looking to cater to the swinging crowd.

"

Finger foods are best. Just make sure you have hand gel and ask people to wash their hands. Definitely not bowls of crisps or peanuts and 100% nothing with chillis

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Welcome to the forum

I think you will go far for people who are looking for a younger man, your profile and pics are great and your attitude sounds good. If you are sending polite mails too then all you can do is be patient.

If you fancy a club or socials it would get you noticed I am sure, if not stick around on the forum and the chat rooms if you are into them as you may get noticed that way while you wait for a match in mails.

Good luck

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

You have blocked old couples like us (early 50s) from seeing your profile, so we can't give advice on it.

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
over a year ago

near you...

We do go for younger men but only in multiples eg when we meet MM.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"You have blocked old couples like us (early 50s) from seeing your profile, so we can't give advice on it. "

He's hidden his profile, nobody can see it. You can't block entire groups from viewing you just from messaging.

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