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By *uckmykiss OP   Man
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Hey all, appreciate some constructive feedback on my profile, have reached out to lots of people but am drawing a blank more often than not. Any help would be great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll throw in a couple of things that could be hindering you OP.

Your pictures, way too many of your penis.

You can’t accommodate and are looking for daytime meets. This would suggest you have a significant other.

The wedding ring clearly visible in one of your videos seems to confirm this.

I’m not criticising as you’re not my target market but they are things that will put people off.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

I would add that close up penetration and wanking pics/videos are going to put many off especially the anal penetration of yourself. But if that is you then go with it and find the people that match.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Way to many action shots for my liking, id rather see the guy, body and torso thighs etc both clothed and unclothed. Profiles like yours who message me i dont even reply to.

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By *uckmykiss OP   Man
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Profile changed, better?

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

If you are married and playing away you should state this as it’s disingenuous to enter an ethical non monogamy space and behave unethically.

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By *uckmykiss OP   Man
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

done, thanks

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"If you are married and playing away you should state this as it’s disingenuous to enter an ethical non monogamy space and behave unethically.

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Lol who said this place is ethical? Also that is a subjective judgment. Your ethics are not everybody’s ethics. There are lots and lots of people here male and female doing things secretly. They are as welcome as anybody else.

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By *uckmykiss OP   Man
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

that was my thought too, i’ve never hidden the fact but usually wait till asked

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Your profile pic is very nice but quite dark and difficult to see.

When profiles say they have already tried almost everything I am always a bit sceptical as there is such an incredibly vast range, surely no one could have tried almost everything.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!


"that was my thought too, i’ve never hidden the fact but usually wait till asked"

It could just stop people that wish to be ethical messaging you then being disappointed

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By *uckmykiss OP   Man
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Amended, thanks!

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By *uckmykiss OP   Man
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

changed to reflect feedback, thanks

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Your honesty is ideal

Perhaps trim the longer piece about couples and 3 ways not happening so far. Being concise may help.

Focussing more on what you offer especially and, to a lesser extent, wanting.

I see just 1 pic. Add more that show your physique. Ideally, a viewer would have a strong grasp of exactly how you look and if they could find you attractive to be with

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