FabSwingers.com forum: first time mmf

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm about to have my first mmf with straight couple,what should i expect? any guys out there turn up then realise it was'nt for them? or had a good time ?

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

"I'm about to have my first mmf with straight couple,what should i expect? any guys out there turn up then realise it was'nt for them? or had a good time ?"

most of my meets are with cpls and we all ways have a great time

just go with the flow and chat before you play

find out what the lady likes not what the hubby tells you

as its her pleasure thats important

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I find that talking to both the man and his partner is a better option.

The partner will know what the wife likes too so I wouldn't ignore what the male half tells you AND you don't really want to exclude one half of the couple you are about to be having MFM with.

Not sure anyone can safely say what you should expect as I suppose everyone does things different..... so it is best to find out all the bounderies that are going to be in place before you meet and what you all expect from your meet.

then all you have to do is turn up, try and relax and have as much fun as you can..... we are just as nervous on every meet we have been on so it won't just be you.

Good luck

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

I as the male half have always been honest to the guy, telling him Katee's likes and dislikes. Then stand back for a while when the action begins. Let them both get aquainted before joining them

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

just said that due to the fact of having a few males tell me what he wanted to see done to the mrs and not what she wanted to do at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonder how it went???

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By *xstephbxxCouple
over a year ago

hyde

any news ??... bloody hell he has been gone a full 24 hrs !!..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"any news ??... bloody hell he has been gone a full 24 hrs !!..lol

He's been online all day .. I know 'cos I keep looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree all of the boundries before you meet, then when you do meet there are no awkward questions for anyone to ask.

Then enjoy the pleasures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we just got on with it,let the guy lick chris while she pleasured me than took it in turns giving chris multiple orgasms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm about to have my first mmf with straight couple,what should i expect? any guys out there turn up then realise it was'nt for them? or had a good time ?"

If you need to ask that question then you really haven't thought about what swinging is. I sense that you'd be happier playing with just the woman present as another guy might put you off. There are two factors to consider when meeting couples:

1) does it turn you on to play with another man's woman in front of him?

2) would you let another man do the same if you had a partner?

If you answer 'no' to both those questions then I'm afraid you are not a swinger.

A point to remember when meeting couples is that the man wants you to at least talk to him and not regard him as a passport to his wife. If you cold shoulder the man he'll probably tell you it's not going to happen.

Good luck.

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By *elleCouple
over a year ago

south-west corner of outer london

Good luck."

Well put - our thoughts too!

D&H

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mail em and ask them

Couples are into different things, we know people who want no social contact whatsoever, ie walk in she is bent over, put on condom, take her, leave, say thanks to the guy at the door on your way out and dont slam the door.

Others like to have a drink and a chat and flirt a little before you rip her knickers off.

Use your common sense - make sure you are clean,

smell nice,

have nice breath (breathing really helps when shagging)

take your own condoms,

take a bottle of wine (choccies and flowers are nice but can be considered as a romantic gesture and threesomes is not about romance for Mr 3.

dress to suit the occasion, ie think about where you are meeting, tracksuits in a nice hotel are a turn off, dinner jacket in the local pub stands out a little too much, boxers only outside the Adsa under the meeting point sign gets you arrested.

If your meeting at thier house ask if they would like you to take your shoes off when you get in the hall.

Wear socks without holes (see above)

In the bedroom shoes and sock off first

dont put your condom on before you meet them wait till you get the ok (Porkys circa 1974ish)

Find out if the lady has any preference to wear you ejaculate (its love hate with in the condom, mouth, boobs, bottom, garden shed)

Be on time, not early not late.

Dont get cold feet, think long and hard about it first and dont let them down at the last minute, if you dont want to do it or have any doubts at all, take a rain check they will respect you for letting them know in good time.

Dont dictate what backgound music you like during sex (The Match of the Day theme is not everyone's favourite tune nor is Ride of the Valkeries (my choice))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I as the male half have always been honest to the guy, telling him Katee's likes and dislikes. Then stand back for a while when the action begins. Let them both get aquainted before joining them"

Love it when I get the inside information, quite a few husbands have told me before we start and this has been a great help, you can tell if a guy is dictating what is to happen regardless of what his partner wants to when he is just giving you the knowledge to ensure everyone has a great time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

should it not have been a mfm? is he is straight and the other guy was straight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we know before hand weither we are going to play and ask the guy as it usualy singles we meet. we offer a cuppa or go for a drink but we are the ones that are relaxed and I do often wonder about our company. I find being the domainat partener I ask if they are relax and are they sure that they want to go through with it.

I general pounce on them as the whole idea of the meet makes me horny. So I do warn guys becare about what they want as I might just give it to them.

My last meet felt that I left out hubby but I told him that I would have him after, little to say but when we came down from shower he was fully dressed watching porn and not a bit worried that we were away to long

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