FabSwingers.com forum: Girlfriend wants first Threesome

By *he_Masseuse123 OP Man
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Girl I’ve been dating recently mentioned she’d like to try a threesome for the first time. She’s pretty timid. So I’m worried how to find the right person to put her at ease and experienced enough that she’ll enjoy the experience.

Any advice would be great appreciated

The masseuse123

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By *yrshire daveMan
over a year ago

kilmarnock

I've had my partner out a few times now looking for a voyeur.but it's hard going finding a good one

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By *ran30Man
over a year ago

Bristol

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By *ran30Man
over a year ago

Bristol

In my opinion, try to invite someone to watch you both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Girl I’ve been dating recently mentioned she’d like to try a threesome for the first time. She’s pretty timid. So I’m worried how to find the right person to put her at ease and experienced enough that she’ll enjoy the experience.

Any advice would be great appreciated

The masseuse123

What's her profile name?

Any decent man will want to speak to her to check she consents and is aware of this situation before they go any further.

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By *eepndarkMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Congratulations on having a willing and open minded other half. It's a problem I'd love to have right now ????.

I have nothing of value to add bar, enjoy the process.

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By *empted23Couple
over a year ago

countryside

Does she want a girl or a guy ?

It took us 8months to find a suitable guy

And we still haven’t found a girl so all I can say is

Good luck

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

My advice OP is to go to a club togather and chat to guys there . Arrange a code between you so that she can tell you her thoughts about men you talk to and when she is decided on someone you can invite him to join you both in a room or play place. Be prepared that there is no one suitable to her on your first visit. I have taken non swinger girlfriends to clubs before and they have made their choice on our journey home! .There is always a next time.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Take her to a club and go from there

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I’d start with a couple profile first.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Don't find someone for her, let her be part of the finding process.

Make a couples profile, I wouldn't respond to a single guy saying he has a girlfriend, we get a lot of messages saying this, it's not blind date I'd want a conversation including the GF before meeting.

Mrs

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South West (Devon, Somerset).

"I’d start with a couple profile first."

This!

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"Don't find someone for her, let her be part of the finding process.

Mrs "

Yes but he is looking for a single man and some men would meet on a blind date and not chat. Actually plenty of men meet couples from a couples profile without chatting to the female half. And plenty of ladies don't want any involvement in the choosing and chatting. We're all different.

OP it would be better with a couples profile but I know somebody like you who has arranged first time MMF for several girlfriends over the years. Probably best advice is just focus on men with some experience of MMF, veris to prove they actually show and who you feel comfortable chatting with.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

If she's too shy for a profile or can't have one because of her job (very common on here), you could go to a club. If you go on a night that has "single" guys there'll be plenty of willing participants.

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By *aughtystaffs60Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Lucky man,

My mrs has always been very shy and has relied, for want of a better word for me to find people.

We had the chat about meeting other people quite early on, I'd done it before and I think she was quite intrigued and certainly wanted some more cock before she settled down as we'd both come of divorces and both agreed monogamy hadn't worked for us.

So I organised our first meet and boy oh boy was it a disaster. We agreed to meet in the pub thank goodness and the couple that turned up was ermmmmmmm to put it politely not really for us. We'd made the classic mistake of not asking for as face piccy. The guy had a huge purple port wine stain on his head and she was as old as Barbara Cartland. How I ever got Mrs N to meet anyone after that is something of a miracle LOL.

Next guy I got in was a single male. It was OK but he was just so arrogant and assuming. I remember his words at the end after he unloaded into the rubber. He handed it to me " Here, you'll know what to do with this Cucky, LOL". I had no idea what he was on about. I do now LOL.

So be prepared for some ups and downs and laughs along the way. Thankfully things got much better after that as we persevered and found lots of nirvanas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always fun to be the extra lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any advice would be great appreciated

The masseuse123

Are you looking for a woman or man?

Caz loves playing with ladies and is a master tease she would put her at ease straight away

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