FabSwingers.com forum: Help me understand my wife desire

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I have been having one of those mornings where I can't stop thinking about all my desires, kinks and turn ons.

I then realised that I can't actually categorise some of them.

Now immediately people will say, you do not have to label things to enjoy them or take part. Which I agree with in the most part.

What I think is, there needs to be a quick description so I can communicate my desire or kinks to others so they at least get an idea of my left and right of that desire is and when the desire stops. My example.

I have a huge fantasy of my wife being with another man or multiple. I want to see her confidence grow through being desired and pleased in New ways. I know she likes a bigger cock I'm average at 6" but enjoy seeing and appreciate a nice large cock.

I do not want any kind of humiliation or her treating me badly. I'd want to share in the experience by either watching or seeing pictures/videos or hearing the stories.

I'd happily have sex with her after she's had sex with him and"clean"her up etc.

Therefore, I wish to know if that's a cuck, hot wife or some other kink/category of desire.

So I'm curious if anyone can share how they might describe that swiftly?

Thanks xxx

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

That would usually fall under Hotwife and/or Stag and Vixen, depending on the things that you do during and after, and whether you watch or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“ Help me understand my wife desire” . . .

Except you didn’t mention her desires at all, only your own, and what you envision she needs. Oh and she doesn’t know you are on here. The cherry on top right there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"“ Help me understand my wife desire” . . .

Except you didn’t mention her desires at all, only your own, and what you envision she needs. Oh and she doesn’t know you are on here. The cherry on top right there.

You are correct and thanks for pointing it out.

My title is completely wrong. I was trying to keep it short and obviously got it wrong.

Not intentional as I know it's my desire but wanted to show it was about my wife.

I unfortunately can't delete it change it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That would usually fall under Hotwife and/or Stag and Vixen, depending on the things that you do during and after, and whether you watch or not."

Thank you

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think it's a mistake to think a woman's confidence will grow because she's sexually attractive to men.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Maybe just tell her you'd like to explore watching her have sex with other men to the benefit of you both

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think it's a mistake to think a woman's confidence will grow because she's sexually attractive to men. "

Thank you for all your advice. I'm not show casing myself very well. I completely understand that it is very subjective thing and she won't necessarily get any confidence or even be interested in it.

But it is a fantasy of mine I have constructed over time and wish to explore and understand.

But appreciate your feedback. X

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I think it's a mistake to think a woman's confidence will grow because she's sexually attractive to men.

Thank you for all your advice. I'm not show casing myself very well. I completely understand that it is very subjective thing and she won't necessarily get any confidence or even be interested in it.

But it is a fantasy of mine I have constructed over time and wish to explore and understand.

But appreciate your feedback. X"

Is there a reason you can't tell her exactly what you've told us?

A simple one word description rarely covers everything and I'm willing to bet she'll have questions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have discussed fantasies and desires before.

She is not interested in being with other people.

I'm also happy in having this fantasy and desire as my own thing with out the need to have it fulfilled. I simply wanted to try and "categorise"it xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I have discussed fantasies and desires before.

She is not interested in being with other people.

I'm also happy in having this fantasy and desire as my own thing with out the need to have it fulfilled. I simply wanted to try and "categorise"it xx"

Oh right, sorry I've completely misunderstood.

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By *niformed professionalMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I’m the same. Id say Hotwife couple

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have discussed fantasies and desires before.

She is not interested in being with other people.

I'm also happy in having this fantasy and desire as my own thing with out the need to have it fulfilled. I simply wanted to try and "categorise"it xx

Oh right, sorry I've completely misunderstood.

Oh no need to be sorry. Your advise is appreciated and love having the chat

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By *elen000Couple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

If she doesn't want to do it, she never will

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By *isqueRogueMan
over a year ago

London

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