FabSwingers.com forum: First Club Experience

By *ddi1 OP Man
over a year ago

Bangor/Liverpool/Cardiff

I wonder what people can tell me about their first club experiences and expectations. I have been keen on the idea of going to a club now for a long time, but the club virgin in me is somewhat nervous. I am considering going to either Townhouse or Cupids, but this is solely based on geography. Part of me wishes to socialize, but another part of me wants to play, but would rather the option of watching others if the jitters gets the most of me.

As for someone who has never attended a swingers club, what should I expect to find, see or do? Are people keen to get involved or are they more reserved? Is it a case of people having sex everywhere or is it more segregated than this? Also as a single male, what sort of welcome should I expect? What was your first visit like?

Thank you in advance!

By *heelerMan
over a year ago

Northants

Go and make conversations and act as if in your local pub or club let things develop if anyone wants to play let them ask you just dont be pushy.

By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I would suggest going to an organised social near the location of the club beforehand. This way you will meet people that are likely to be in the club when you go.

It makes a huge difference if you already know people you can talk to.

By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"Go and make conversations and act as if in your local pub or club let things develop if anyone wants to play let them ask you just dont be pushy."

We see so many single men wandering the floor, some look some have their heads down. We would say if it looks like someone is interested just ask, that isn't being pushy but reading the situation. Some couples find it difficult to make the first move so if he waits to be asked he may just miss out on people who not only look interested but really are. Confidence is a great turn on for many people. Everyone in this lifestyle, especially in clubs, have to be comfortable with rejection and it's never personal. Always make conversation with people, small talk could just lead to something a little more