FabSwingers.com forum: Help with my Profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey, I’ve been on this site for a while now but I think my profile is part of a reason why I don’t get as much interactions on here as I wish.

If you could please take the time to check it out and share any improvements or changes that would be appreciated a lot

Thanks x

By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

You are aware that single men outnumber women on fab by over 100 to 1.

What were your expectations on joining the site?

Fab is just like the real world in that only a handful of people are likely to find you attractive and want to play with you - and of those, you'll likely only find about half of those equally as appealing.

Or were you under the impression that because people are on a swinging site they'll fuck anyone who asks?

You also need to consider that many who are on here likely have children around your age, or even older and so that will be a big 'no go' area for them.

It strikes me that many who come on here seem to think that there is some magic formula / password / secret masons handshake or something to getting meets.

Just be yourself, join in on the forums, perhaps even venture into the chat rooms and get talking to people.

I've found that some who initially don't find you attractive can change their view of you as they get to know you.

By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"You are aware that single men outnumber women on fab by over 100 to 1.

What were your expectations on joining the site?

Or were you under the impression that because people are on a swinging site they'll fuck anyone who asks?

You also need to consider that many who are on here likely have children around your age, or even older and so that will be a big 'no go' area for them.

It strikes me that many who come on here seem to think that there is some magic formula / password / secret masons handshake or something to getting meets.

Just be yourself, join in on the forums, perhaps even venture into the chat rooms and get talking to people.

I've found that some who initially don't find you attractive can change their view of you as they get to know you.

Obviously lots more men but where does this 100 to 1 come from? You say it a lot but I've never been able to substantiate and think the actual number is nowhere near that high. Just checked close to me and it was 12 to 1 for men looking for ladies vs ladies looking for men. Also around 12 to 1 for men vs couples looking for men. Combined more like 6 to 1 - for every 100 men looking to meet a lady or couple there are around 8 ladies and 8 couples. Those odds are not too bad if you are half decent and sensible. 100 to 1 and I would have had little chance over the years