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By *ampshirecouple11 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Romsey

We are thinking about clubs but not sure of the ins and outs. Do you have to join in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my FWB attended a club just outside of london together, it was a relatively quiet night and we didn’t participate in anything, there was no pressure and we never felt like we should be doing anything! At the end of the day it’s totally your choice.

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

Some yes, not others. AbFabs by Heathrow you pay membership plus entrance fee. Hellfire in Sunbury or Pleasures in Kent have no membership, just entrance. Others like Chameleons in B'ham there's membership but not high. Always bring photo ID of both.

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
over a year ago

Chester


"Some yes, not others. AbFabs by Heathrow you pay membership plus entrance fee. Hellfire in Sunbury or Pleasures in Kent have no membership, just entrance. Others like Chameleons in B'ham there's membership but not high. Always bring photo ID of both."

I think OP is asking about joining in with play, not membership! (Super-useful info though!)

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By *bwstarzWoman
over a year ago

south cheshire


"We are thinking about clubs but not sure of the ins and outs. Do you have to join in? "

No not at all, you can watch, take part or go and lock yourselves away together in a private room and just have some fun in a different place if that’s what takes your fancy, it isn’t all mass orgies as soon as you walk through the door. Maybe go along and see how you feel having thoroughly talked through all the possibilities before hand as to what you both want to gain from the experience.

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By *ampshirecouple11 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Romsey

Well we’re looking to go for date night one time and was just wondering what the deal would be

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Just a night out with people speaking more freely and wearing slightly less.

Some people might be fucking. You can do as little or as much as you like

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
over a year ago

Hyde


"Just a night out with people speaking more freely and wearing slightly less.

Some people might be fucking. You can do as little or as much as you like "

Best answer ^^^

There's no pressure at all.... but if you feel the urge to have sex with each other for your first trial- why not... or even with others. You have options

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No not at all op

Just go with an open mind ,chat to others ,have a drink and see where it takes you.

You could go in the hot tub or to just play with each other.

I've never seen any pressure on anyone to do anything they didn't want to .

Enjoy If you do go

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst


"Some yes, not others. AbFabs by Heathrow you pay membership plus entrance fee. Hellfire in Sunbury or Pleasures in Kent have no membership, just entrance. Others like Chameleons in B'ham there's membership but not high. Always bring photo ID of both.

I think OP is asking about joining in with play, not membership! (Super-useful info though!)"

Oops...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a night out with people speaking more freely and wearing slightly less.

Some people might be fucking. You can do as little or as much as you like "

Great answer

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Just to add there are some couples who only go for the enjoyment of the environment and/or to watch others and/or to be watched. Not every couple goes plays with others. So can can totally go and enjoy at your own leisure whatever you feel like doing or not doing. The social side of the scene is a huge part of it too. Just go to a club and experience for yourself, there's totally no pressure, just the opportunity for a new experience.

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By *oodjenWoman
over a year ago

london

I’m looking at going to my first club just abit nervous about it lol

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By *oddamnCouple
over a year ago

leicestershire

We have been to half a dozen clubs and never felt any pressure to do anything we didn't want to. Set some boundaries first - don't expect anything except an experience and then enjoy anything else that might or might not happen.

The most nervous part is first going through the door. Then it is easier after that. Wear something you feel confident and sexy in, but not necessarily completely daring where you feel extra nervous. Don't drink too much, and if you do feel like fun but not in front of others there are usually private rooms or spaces.

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex


"Well we’re looking to go for date night one time and was just wondering what the deal would be "

I suggest it would be ideal for a date night .An evening of erotic entertainment that you can also participate in between yourselves if you want. I have occasionally gone to clubs with a woman friend and let them see things for themselves. I have also seen other couples go for the first time and it has not gone well for them as one person was not opened minded enough but that won't apply in your case

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