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Rough (scratchy) hands

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By *wfirsttimers OP   Couple
over a year ago

kendal

Just curious to know what the females think of guys with rough hands. I don't mean rough as in handling, but rough to the touch. In winter the skin on my fingers becomes very dry and as a result feels very tough. It's a nightmare with lingerie, I feel like Spider-Man ! Just the slightest contact and I'm hooked into the fabric. So, does it put you off if a guys hands almost feel like they're scratching your skin ? Or laddering your stockings ?! It's a catch-22 really. I could moisturise religiously but having softer skin means it cuts more easily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you have eczema I do go docs get the right cream will sort it do they split sometimes its a nightmare but with the right cream it'll fix xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have rough dry hands but from working in a manual job. i use protective cream at work, or a moisturiser at home,, but they do get a bit snaggy sometimes

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By *wfirsttimers OP   Couple
over a year ago

kendal

They do split sometimes, on the end of my thumbs and the sides of my forefingers. Usually when I've been pulling in lots of cable (electrician). Hope it isn't eczema as you suggest. I've read that if it doesn't itch then it usually isn't eczema. Maybe I'm just hoping that to be true ! I've always just thought its happening because of handling cables on site that are usually caked in dirt from the floor. Plaster, mortar, sand etc.

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

Try neturgena cream its meant to be very good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i use atrixo cream

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Just curious to know what the females think of guys with rough hands. I don't mean rough as in handling, but rough to the touch. In winter the skin on my fingers becomes very dry and as a result feels very tough. It's a nightmare with lingerie, I feel like Spider-Man ! Just the slightest contact and I'm hooked into the fabric. So, does it put you off if a guys hands almost feel like they're scratching your skin ? Or laddering your stockings ?! It's a catch-22 really. I could moisturise religiously but having softer skin means it cuts more easily."

I like a man with work roughened hands but the chaps and cuts can be painful and annoying, my dad used to use Snowfire on his. I know what you mean about snagging stockings and lingerie would using a good quality hand cream just before meeting a lady help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use gloves at work should be provided anyway x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear leather gloves, they protect your hands better than wooly gloves or none

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

doncaster

I work on building sites and yes some times my hands get a little rough but with gloves provided and barrier cream.s they don't get too bad. Years ago they would have cuts and gash s all our them . So basically take more case with your hands and wear adequate gloves for the job and year the right cream before and after work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmm I love big rough hands on my body. If the are man handling me even better

Try Elizabeth Arden 8 hr cream. It's not cheap but if you skin (anywhere) has gotten out of control it will do the job. Also lanolin works well.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

i wear my elbow length silk gloves that helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good tip is cover hands with Vaseline and put a pair of marigold gloves on leave about an hour takes all the rough skin off I'm a builder and often do it works well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my hands are dry and cut to bits after working making thousands of flower bouquets for Valentines.In my world wearing gloves only works so far!! Cant use cellotape with gloves on and no matter how hard you try they get wet and your skin dries out even more. Rub gloves just rip with the rose thorns!!!!

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By *wfirsttimers OP   Couple
over a year ago

kendal

Can't really wear gloves. Most electrical work can be fiddly at the best of times. Nigh on impossible with gloves on. Will take a look at some of the creams mentioned, thanks for the suggestions

Xx

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By *icboobs26Woman
over a year ago

South East Wales

My oh is an electrician. I can't imagine

gloves would work. But I have seen him nab a bit of my face or body scrub when in the shower and wash his hands with it. He also sometimes uses nivea soft just before bed. It cones in tubes or tub everywhere including supermarket and a small bit ford a long way. Smells lush too. Good luck x

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By *ed 16Man
over a year ago

Manchester/Ulverston

Defiantly get the moisturizer. I have to say from my experience and many of my comrades (combat medic). that cold wet and manual labour ruins your hands. Along with to much washing of hands and wearing rubber gloves for long periods of time can cause dermatitis and other skin conditions. If your skin breaks on the fold of the skin they take longer to heal and are at risk of infection. Moisturizer 3 times a day and you should notice a difference. some of our sparkys wear fingerless gloves for protection but still enable them to do the fiddly stuff. Perhaps that would help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see a couple for threesomes from time to time and whereas he has rough hands due to his work, I have quite soft hands (never done a 'proper' day's work in my life - lol). She is always complementing me on them and I think is one of the reasons I get asked back!

Long may his rough hands continue!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind rough hands, as they are usually smooth after they are wetted up ha ha, but u will probably need a steroid cream to stop them splitting and being so rough ask for one called betnovate it's good but only need a small bit xx

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"Can't really wear gloves. Most electrical work can be fiddly at the best of times. Nigh on impossible with gloves on. Will take a look at some of the creams mentioned, thanks for the suggestions

Xx"

Just cut the tips off, jobs a goodun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i work with cocoa butter all day so my hands are lovely and soft , xx

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

If your rough hands catch in lingerie and tear stockings, just imagine what they can do to the delicate mucous membranes of a woman's pussy. I have had the misfortune to be cut internally by such and it stopped me playing for nearly a week.

Do take care, and as a general hint to guys, do trim your nails carefully for the same reason.

Happy playing.

Jane x

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By *rthur WrightusMan
over a year ago

Round the Bend

lets just say I am a countryman, was introduced to udder cream to cure rough and chapped hands in my youth, amazing stuff, good on udders too, available from any good agricultural merchants

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


" Plaster, mortar, sand etc. "

Plaster & sand should not be a problem, it's cement dust that attacks the skin and lungs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just hire someone to do the manual labour for you

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"just hire someone to do the manual labour for you"

They are having a siesta

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By *ethany10Couple
over a year ago

falkirk

I get them on the corner of my thumbs so have to cut the nail away and file the edges. I use that cream meant for Norwegian fishermen, Neutragena I think.

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rough hands aren't in my hotlist a guy who has soft moisturised hands wins any day.

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