FabSwingers.com forum: How you dealing with singles

By *ifestyle1 OP Man
over a year ago

me171

I've been here for a while and seems like no further action with my profile.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Might be nice to have a handful of pics of you that aren't friends only. Alot of people just delete messages from silhouette profiles.

You find get a little more success?

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By *ifestyle1 OP Man
over a year ago

me171

I'll looking for your advice. What kind of pictures you think I should use? Thanks

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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester

You need to get a profile pic up firstly

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hi op

As you've mentioned that you've been here for a while and no further action. was you expecting miracles after joining ... it's not much different from the outside world,.

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By *ifestyle1 OP Man
over a year ago

me171

Thanks for your help ??.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

just because you decided to join a lifestyle site does not mean you will get anything ... nobody owes anybody anything

far to many join thinking that sex will be plentyfull and everybody shags everybody

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

What further action were you expecting?

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By *ifestyle1 OP Man
over a year ago

me171

It's just my profile I've put on. Just like everyone got own names if I make sense. Yeah I do like interactive with people who don't fake and see me.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"It's just my profile I've put on. Just like everyone got own names if I make sense. Yeah I do like interactive with people who don't fake and see me. "

Adding few pictures helps you never know where it can lead even without you sending the first message

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Your profile is non existent. People with check out your profile before they even read a message. Most will delete with no profile pic and no public pics. Might as well talk to a wall.

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England

"Your profile is non existent. People with check out your profile before they even read a message. Most will delete with no profile pic and no public pics. Might as well talk to a wall."

Why should people make an effort to engage with you when you don't appear to have made any effort at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that having a profile pic and some extra public pics always helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very few people will interact with a blk silhouette.

If you only do one thing change it for a decent picture otherwise forget it.

Harsh but true.

I honestly don’t even know why anyone needs to be told this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very few people will interact with a blk silhouette.

If you only do one thing change it for a decent picture otherwise forget it.

Harsh but true.

I honestly don’t even know why anyone needs to be told this."
sometimes people need to hear some harsh truths and completely agree with what you said

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

Your profile text isn't the worst on here, but status updates like 'As always it's so hard much fun here' won't help; negativity and moaning never go down well.

And the bit about not having profile pics because of your job commitments? That's just a cop out for not having a public pic.

I'm sure you can find a photo that isn't a face shot and doesn't have your name, address, phone number and mother's maiden name in it.

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

"Very few people will interact with a blk silhouette.

If you only do one thing change it for a decent picture otherwise forget it.

Harsh but true.

I honestly don’t even know why anyone needs to be told this."

This every time

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I've been here for a while and seems like no further action with my profile. "

As others have said, you definitely need photos.

I also reccomend rewriting your profile. I'm not sure if English isn't your first language or you're simply not good with the written word, but it's not well written.

I reccomend using word, which will help with spelling and punctuation. You can then copy the text into Fab. Paragraphs also make it easier to read.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As most have already advised, your profile could benifit with having 2 or 3 pics uploaded, you do not have to show your face to give people an idea of you, also as Nita stated your bio text could do with being re-written with the aid of better structure and flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been here for a while and seems like no further action with my profile. "

Keep it as it is. It reflects you.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

we've met one or two

but they didn't have blank profiles

and we had chats, and socials first.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"You need to get a profile pic up firstly

Simple

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By *issScarletteMayWoman
over a year ago

stockport

But you not guaranteed to get anything just because your on here

I’ve turned off single male emails as all it was come fuck me here come do this there

There’s not a lot of respect towards single females and that then makes us just ignore male’s especially ones with no pics or feedback

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You alone can manage your own expectations and how you promote yourself to others, alongside how much effort you invest in doing this.

Read some the many forum posts from single men who struggle. There are typically common themes as well as actions that can be taken by each of them, including you.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

"I'll looking for your advice. What kind of pictures you think I should use? Thanks "

Op, by your own admission, youv been here a while, surely by now you would know what kind of pics you should post, sound like a notice me comment!

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I think that having a profile pic and some extra public pics always helps "

Not in my experience

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Personally any profile with no pics messages/winks I block.

Mrs

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By *ifestyle1 OP Man
over a year ago

me171

Thanks for your help people.

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By *ifestyle1 OP Man
over a year ago

me171

I see what you mean about my spelling errors, but yeah I'm not English. Hopefully the pictures will help too.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"Personally any profile with no pics messages/winks I block.

Mrs "

I certainly block those who think they are being smart and bypass my “no public photos on profile” filter.

You’re not, bye.

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By *ifestyle1 OP Man
over a year ago

me171

I've attached pictures

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By *ifestyle1 OP Man
over a year ago

me171

How do I attach public pictures?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do I attach public pictures?"

You have 2 public pics.

Account... Manage photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile is non existent. People with check out your profile before they even read a message. Most will delete with no profile pic and no public pics. Might as well talk to a wall."

Exactly this, we'd immediately delete

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By *aptinfaptastikMan
over a year ago

Derby

Chat on camera ( clothed ) so people know who you are, Everything starts with Hello. Rotate pictures regular update's. I don’t do this so it’s quiet for me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the people on this thread who have advised you to have a profile picture and guess what? You still haven’t bothered.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I think people start these threads just for kicks ...just to stir things up ...

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