FabSwingers.com forum: Your first meet...if it happens lol

By *elodicMuscle76 OP Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Any one got any good advice on how to approach someone on here .I basically go with the flow but you do get some right arragant peeps...shame

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Any one got any good advice on how to approach someone on here .I basically go with the flow but you do get some right arragant peeps...shame "

Hi op

Just approach people similar as you would in a night club or any other social platform. But reading their bio helps to see if their is something that you may have in common remember attraction goes both ways and some people prefer to chat where it's possibly going to lead somewhere not just blah blah blah endless chat but some can be sociable noting isn't a chance in hell of ever meeting and happy to do this

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

As a newish user here, I'd suggest reading a few of the posts from single men who are struggling and the advice given to them. Fab can be a tough place for you guys, so they have to focus on selling themselves, which invariably involves giving others what they need, highlighting that you could be a good match, via their profile. Typically, tips have a focus on giving photos that let others see if they are physically attracted to men and don't generally have more than 1 or 2 cock pics, as they'd choose based on physique, etc. The bio will sell them too. Read a few of the forum posts from single men struggling and see what advice and tips are given and how you could incorporate them into your strategy.

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

I'd review your photos. A few of them make your cock look like it's got cock cheese on!

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By *ister_ee_1981Man
over a year ago

Sunniest Exeter...

Tip 1 Be attractive.

Tip 2 Don't be unattractive.

On a more serious note. There are probably hundreds of posts on this subject, so as said above, read them.

Put your cock photos away. Send personalised messages to the ones you generally think you could get on with. No carpet bombing, or cut and paste messages.

And be prepared to be ignored, ghosted, and generally treated like a second class citizen.

Good luck, you are going to need it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love these posts.. OP posts about not getting meets gets advice and never posts again.. and nothing changes on the profile

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

"Any one got any good advice on how to approach someone on here .I basically go with the flow but you do get some right arragant peeps...shame "

On first glance you have 20 pictures of your penis from various angles and with different emoji’s which ain’t gonna get you very far. People will view your profile first before even contemplating replying to your message, so Maybe try having a selection of photos i.e. legs, torso, bum, some of you with clothes on too and your face cropped out if you don’t want that out in the public domain.

Also saying that you’ll “basically meet anyone” could be, and probably is a red flag too for a lot of folk… essentially says that you’re happy to hook up with anyone or anything with a pulse and that you may not have standards which isn’t a good look either.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"Arrogant" usually translates to "won't fuck anyone who offers" in my experience

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Tell her you'll fuck her until she glows and you'll even tidy up

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