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"Please feel free to read through my emails. " How do we do this ? | |||
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"Good morning. I seem to be having troube in the sence of no one is very welcoming or helpful no matter how polite i am. Please feel free to read through my emails. Some advice would a long way here, thankyou " Unfortunately no one owes you a reply, help or their time via private messages, assuming that's how you're communicating as this is your one and only forum post. It's not ignorance. | |||
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"Good morning. I seem to be having troube in the sence of no one is very welcoming or helpful no matter how polite i am. Please feel free to read through my emails. Some advice would a long way here, thankyou " I think you are searching for a small niche of ladies you want to use toys that are too big for them and to be stretched with fingers. Most are going to be wary of that especially first up. | |||
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"Searching for ladies with a small niche ?" Well that would make stretching easier ![]() | |||
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"Good morning. I seem to be having troube in the sence of no one is very welcoming or helpful no matter how polite i am. Please feel free to read through my emails. Some advice would a long way here, thankyou " I think the post title is a problem. And the stretching stuff. I imagine you might get there with someone but it is unlikely they are going to want to risk it with a stranger. | |||
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"Good morning. I seem to be having troube in the sence of no one is very welcoming or helpful no matter how polite i am. Please feel free to read through my emails. Some advice would a long way here, thankyou " You need to be clear on what advice you want | |||
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"Please feel free to read through my emails. How do we do this ?" i need his email and password first | |||
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"Given that I'm the only one that's posted anything positively "nice" to you in response and you've not responded... is this not what you're accusing others of? ![]() Hi Michaela, I will reply to you. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Given that I'm the only one that's posted anything positively "nice" to you in response and you've not responded... is this not what you're accusing others of? ![]() ![]() ![]() Note to self. Do not drink water while reading this post. Literally spat all my water out from laughing so hard | |||
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"If I don't find you attractive, I won't reply... Fairly simple really " Love the colour of your hair. | |||
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"Given that I'm the only one that's posted anything positively "nice" to you in response and you've not responded... is this not what you're accusing others of? ![]() ![]() ![]() Awwwww thank you xxxx ![]() | |||
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"OP you haven't replied to any one here, even though they have taken their time to offer advice that you asked for........ " ![]() | |||
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"Welcoming and helpful to me would be as basic as guiding me through this website when I've reached out as I'm clearly thick lol. I'm sorry what does OP stand for?" Original Poster. The one who started the thread. Well done for having the stones to return to this one - respect xx | |||
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"Tbh it was just in using this site" Click reply and quote when you're responding to someone otherwise we can't tell who you're replying to ![]() | |||
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"Thankyou!!" Hi If you use the reply and quote per comment it's easier to understand whom you are replying to ![]() | |||
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"I am such a fucking bell end!! How do i get notifications from this thread" You can't get notifications when people comment on your posts | |||
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"I am such a fucking bell end!! How do i get notifications from this thread You can't get notifications when people comment on your posts" Well that's frustrating but a great bit of info to have. Thankyou!! | |||
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"Thankyou!! Hi If you use the reply and quote per comment it's easier to understand whom you are replying to ![]() Thanks bud. Feel like a right tit ![]() | |||
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"Thankyou!! Hi If you use the reply and quote per comment it's easier to understand whom you are replying to ![]() ![]() I think most people make this mistake in the beginning | |||
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"Welcoming and helpful to me would be as basic as guiding me through this website when I've reached out as I'm clearly thick lol. I'm sorry what does OP stand for? Original Poster. The one who started the thread. Thankyou! I really appreciate it. Alot of lessons learnt on this day! X Well done for having the stones to return to this one - respect xx" | |||
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"Neuro diverse here, ADHD wouldn't normally cause a problem with reading. Still, there is a lot of good advice here. Swinging isn't for everyone, and its a realisation that single men have to work hard, to be noticed and to be trusted at times. All the best, Mark" Thankyou so much for the advice. I struggle with my adhd in a sense that i jump ahead and fill in the gaps | |||
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"I suggest you familiarise yourself with site FAQs OP as the non replying to messages is covered there. A non reply should be taken as a 'no thank you' Nobody has asked you to contact them and nobody owes you a reply. Tell me, do you phone up all the takeaways that drop their leaglets through your door just to tell them you're not interested? No, thought not. You're just coming across as somewhat entitled" Thankyou for your honest advice, and i apologise for the lack of replies. I didn't know this thread was here and my original message has been misconstrued. I like to think I'm not entitled and am sincerely if I've come across as such | |||
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"That's brilliant advice. Thankyou Mark I apologise for my delayed response. My ADHD Doesn't impede me reading but it does tend to make me jump to the end of any situation and fill on the blanks" I have had to learn with my autism that how I see things, isn't always how they were intended. You'd do well to read "The Chimp Paradox" by Professor Steve Peters. It will help you rethink how you handle some situations... where the chimp part of your brain, verses the human / computer part, leaps in first. All the best, as others have said it takes some "stones" to return to this thread. Kind regards M of M and M | |||
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" I have had to learn with my autism that how I see things, isn't always how they were intended. You'd do well to read "The Chimp Paradox" by Professor Steve Peters. It will help you rethink how you handle some situations... where the chimp part of your brain, verses the human / computer part, leaps in first. All the best, as others have said it takes some "stones" to return to this thread. Kind regards M of M and M" Thanks, I’ll be reading that too. Op if it helps I think people look at fab all wrong. Try and imagine it’s a massive pub full of people chatting in groups and you know no one. There’s no seats left and 100s of blokes walking round trying to bag a seat by a lady. If you want one of those seats offered to you you really have to catch someone’s eye by using your brain and your imagination. | |||
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" I have had to learn with my autism that how I see things, isn't always how they were intended. You'd do well to read "The Chimp Paradox" by Professor Steve Peters. It will help you rethink how you handle some situations... where the chimp part of your brain, verses the human / computer part, leaps in first. All the best, as others have said it takes some "stones" to return to this thread. Kind regards M of M and M Thanks, I’ll be reading that too. Op if it helps I think people look at fab all wrong. Try and imagine it’s a massive pub full of people chatting in groups and you know no one. There’s no seats left and 100s of blokes walking round trying to bag a seat by a lady. If you want one of those seats offered to you you really have to catch someone’s eye by using your brain and your imagination." Brilliant way of picturing it. Very analytical | |||
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"Good morning. I seem to be having troube in the sence of no one is very welcoming or helpful no matter how polite i am. Please feel free to read through my emails. Some advice would a long way here, thankyou " Just be yourself and know your polite yourself if people aren’t kind then it shows what type of person they are x | |||
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" I have had to learn with my autism that how I see things, isn't always how they were intended. You'd do well to read "The Chimp Paradox" by Professor Steve Peters. It will help you rethink how you handle some situations... where the chimp part of your brain, verses the human / computer part, leaps in first. All the best, as others have said it takes some "stones" to return to this thread. Kind regards M of M and M Thanks, I’ll be reading that too. Op if it helps I think people look at fab all wrong. Try and imagine it’s a massive pub full of people chatting in groups and you know no one. There’s no seats left and 100s of blokes walking round trying to bag a seat by a lady. If you want one of those seats offered to you you really have to catch someone’s eye by using your brain and your imagination." Or he could look at it as a website for chatting, getting to know, meeting new people that has way more men than women on it but being polite doesn’t guarantee you sex as you have to catch someone’s eye by using your brain and your imagination. | |||
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" Or he could look at it as a website for chatting, getting to know, meeting new people that has way more men than women on it but being polite doesn’t guarantee you sex as you have to catch someone’s eye by using your brain and your imagination. " He could, but it's not. it's a site for swingers hence the name | |||
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" Or he could look at it as a website for chatting, getting to know, meeting new people that has way more men than women on it but being polite doesn’t guarantee you sex as you have to catch someone’s eye by using your brain and your imagination. He could, but it's not. it's a site for swingers hence the name" And how is that different to what he said? ![]() | |||
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" Or he could look at it as a website for chatting, getting to know, meeting new people that has way more men than women on it but being polite doesn’t guarantee you sex as you have to catch someone’s eye by using your brain and your imagination. He could, but it's not. it's a site for swingers hence the name And how is that different to what he said? ![]() If you have to ask ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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" Or he could look at it as a website for chatting, getting to know, meeting new people that has way more men than women on it but being polite doesn’t guarantee you sex as you have to catch someone’s eye by using your brain and your imagination. He could, but it's not. it's a site for swingers hence the name And how is that different to what he said? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I am asking you. What is the difference? | |||
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" Or he could look at it as a website for chatting, getting to know, meeting new people that has way more men than women on it but being polite doesn’t guarantee you sex as you have to catch someone’s eye by using your brain and your imagination. He could, but it's not. it's a site for swingers hence the name And how is that different to what he said? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Me too because I think it’s a bit of a simile. I’m just putting it in terms I think people seem to relate to more easily. | |||
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"Omg!! That’s such a violation, what a disgusting thing to try and do. We visit clubs regularly and thank goodness this has never happened to us or would probably be arrested. Hope you’re ok op and the culprit will never be allowed to ever repeat this again. " Shit, sorry posted to wrong thread ![]() | |||
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