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By *andF_fun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Philly PA area

As being new, met 2 couples in person so far, lightly played w/ one of them... And would love to play again.

What are some unwritten rules, or codes that we should know before meeting again.

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)


"As being new, met 2 couples in person so far, lightly played w/ one of them... And would love to play again.

What are some unwritten rules, or codes that we should know before meeting again. "

Try posting in the USA forums instead of the UK that might help a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

SOME TIMES THERES TOO MANY RULES IN LIFE IT COMPLECATES THE FUN

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As being new, met 2 couples in person so far, lightly played w/ one of them... And would love to play again.

What are some unwritten rules, or codes that we should know before meeting again.

Try posting in the USA forums instead of the UK that might help a lot "

She is entitled to post here too and maybe she has asked the question there already and is sounding out British people's thoughts

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"As being new, met 2 couples in person so far, lightly played w/ one of them... And would love to play again.

What are some unwritten rules, or codes that we should know before meeting again. "

Communication is key for everyone to enjoy the experience: ergo discuss what you want/expect/boundaries with your partner first, then you can convey that to the couples you meet.

Enjoy!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"As being new, met 2 couples in person so far, lightly played w/ one of them... And would love to play again.

What are some unwritten rules, or codes that we should know before meeting again.

Try posting in the USA forums instead of the UK that might help a lot "

Didn't think these boards were country specific

Communication is key to make sure both halves of you are happy but also both halves of the meet. Other than that, relax and have fun x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"As being new, met 2 couples in person so far, lightly played w/ one of them... And would love to play again.

What are some unwritten rules, or codes that we should know before meeting again.

Communication is key for everyone to enjoy the experience: ergo discuss what you want/expect/boundaries with your partner first, then you can convey that to the couples you meet.

Enjoy! "

Agree. There are no unwritten rules or.indeed written ones that apply to everyone except respect each other. Take that as your starting point then discuss with your partner and the couple you are meeting with. Discretion comes in handy too and isn't necessarily a given with some but for me that comes under respect.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

You make your own rules - after all it's about desire and fantasy which are very individual.

I find a little time over a coffee to establish what.everyone wants and, more importantly, doesn't want is very well spent.

Learn to be very straightforward about this, you do yourself no favours if you are too embarrassed to say "I love being rimmed but only very rarely enjoy anal" etc.

Good luck. And keep posting, the more the merrier!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only rule we can think of is communicate!

Every couple/person will have a idea of what they are looking for and not looking for in a meet, the key is to find out and respect those boundaries.

That way your have a lot more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As being new, met 2 couples in person so far, lightly played w/ one of them... And would love to play again.

What are some unwritten rules, or codes that we should know before meeting again.

Try posting in the USA forums instead of the UK that might help a lot "

Why, do american swingers have different rules to other?

What a stupid post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We haven't got a fixed set of rules, we are flexible lol

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)


"As being new, met 2 couples in person so far, lightly played w/ one of them... And would love to play again.

What are some unwritten rules, or codes that we should know before meeting again.

Try posting in the USA forums instead of the UK that might help a lot

She is entitled to post here too and maybe she has asked the question there already and is sounding out British people's thoughts"

Yes I agree they are quite entitled however the attitudes and culture from state to state and indeed the USA is very different to that which may be experienced in the very liberal UK

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)


"As being new, met 2 couples in person so far, lightly played w/ one of them... And would love to play again.

What are some unwritten rules, or codes that we should know before meeting again.

Try posting in the USA forums instead of the UK that might help a lot

Why, do american swingers have different rules to other?

Not stupid at all attitudes vary greatly across the continental USA & I am aware that there may be localised social attitudes that differ from the often English reserve. Although we all speak English we often are divided by a common language, with different outlooks. I was also pointing out this as many newbie USA fans have been by default messaging in the UK without realising.

I also agree that too many rules can confuse matters ,when all said and done it is down to the consenting parties to decide what they are happy with , ther are no exams to pass

What a stupid post."

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