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By *he Black Experience OP   Man
over a year ago

banbury

For anyone whose organised socials for swingers in a particular area example Bristol social or Swindon social. Do you tell the pub landlords the event is for people in the lifestyle or you just like hire the space?

In my opinion what we do isn't there business I am just hosting a get together. What is the protocol when you organise these events?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Personally haven't organised one but as it's a social no one would be any the wiser. I've noticed on the organised social threads that people are reminded it's strictly social and no play is allowed.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I’m in the process of organising one & it will be a no-play event, just a social gathering so won’t be telling them. I do go to other socials and some venues know & are supportive

J

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By *he Black Experience OP   Man
over a year ago

banbury


"I’m in the process of organising one & it will be a no-play event, just a social gathering so won’t be telling them. I do go to other socials and some venues know & are supportive

J "

Oh good luck. I am planning one and one or two landlords have asked , I just say an alternative lifestyle group.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

How do you define an alternative lifestyle group if they ask ?

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We went to one and the ‘cover story’ was it was a birthday party. There was even a birthday cake. Swingers would make good spies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my local pub everyone's shagging each other anyway so wouldn't make a difference lol

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

Arranged before and haven't said anything or hired a space - just a pick a big pub and lots of friends turn up. Know somebody else who arranged recently and hired a big private room and didn't say anything - just hired for private party for friends. You just need to make sure people know it's a social in a public place and need to behave accordingly.

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)


"We went to one and the ‘cover story’ was it was a birthday party. There was even a birthday cake. Swingers would make good spies "

Did you have your cake and ear it

I'll see myself out

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"Arranged before and haven't said anything or hired a space - just a pick a big pub and lots of friends turn up. Know somebody else who arranged recently and hired a big private room and didn't say anything - just hired for private party for friends. You just need to make sure people know it's a social in a public place and need to behave accordingly. "

So you didn’t let the venue know so they could arrange staffing?

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Arranged before and haven't said anything or hired a space - just a pick a big pub and lots of friends turn up. Know somebody else who arranged recently and hired a big private room and didn't say anything - just hired for private party for friends. You just need to make sure people know it's a social in a public place and need to behave accordingly.

So you didn’t let the venue know so they could arrange staffing?"

For socials of say 30 then no. Guess really depends on the venue. If a big place 30-50 on a weekend not going to make much difference regarding staff. I know others who regular arrange pub socials who don't let anybody know beforehand.

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By *urious2SeeCouple
over a year ago

rugby

We are looking for a social in rugby on Saturday. Drop me a message if anyone fancies it. X

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

For us it really depends on expected numbers and the pub itself e.g. small numbers in a large pub then we won't.

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