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Does my profile make me look like a cunt ?

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By *pouts OP   Man
over a year ago

Tain

Had some harsh words lately and wondering if I've worded my set up wrong tbf it's seems its males that find it most offencive and I didn't realise that how it came across I do have ADD and maybe that's why I don't realise?

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By *heExcommMan
over a year ago

Llantrisant

Well, you open up with "does my wife know I'm here? Nope"

That's your answer.

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By *he_13th_ghostWoman
over a year ago

Swindon


"Well, you open up with "does my wife know I'm here? Nope"

That's your answer. "

100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had some harsh words lately and wondering if I've worded my set up wrong tbf it's seems its males that find it most offencive and I didn't realise that how it came across I do have ADD and maybe that's why I don't realise? "

Try reading it again and I think your answer is staring you in the face not very classy and certainly wouldn't attract me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sociopathic is the word that comes to mind

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
over a year ago

London (She/Her)

Yes

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Had some harsh words lately and wondering if I've worded my set up wrong tbf it's seems its males that find it most offencive and I didn't realise that how it came across I do have ADD and maybe that's why I don't realise? "

It's a true reflection of yourself, so ignore the criticism, there's no point in trying to be someone you're not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it is unanimous

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By *ischiefManaged69Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"Had some harsh words lately and wondering if I've worded my set up wrong tbf it's seems its males that find it most offencive and I didn't realise that how it came across I do have ADD and maybe that's why I don't realise? "

Yes.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Had some harsh words lately and wondering if I've worded my set up wrong tbf it's seems its males that find it most offencive and I didn't realise that how it came across I do have ADD and maybe that's why I don't realise? "

Nice click-bait. You already know how you come across.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"Had some harsh words lately and wondering if I've worded my set up wrong tbf it's seems its males that find it most offencive and I didn't realise that how it came across I do have ADD and maybe that's why I don't realise? "

All I can say to that is I feel sorry for your wife!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes it does, your wife should join I'm sure she'd love the missing attention.

On the profile note you have written YUP several times answering yourself.

The "make you feel like god interfered with you" is just pure cringe, if the cheating didn't put me off enough or the Yup's that certainly would.

Mrs

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

As many have said, your opening sentence is what does it. Cheating is not swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way you come across on you’re pe woud definitely avoid

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Furry burger

You know how you come across,you even say so.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I mean, you've called yourself a cunt in the text so you already know.

Profile itself though reads so disjointed, desperate and as if you're deliberately trying to make people find you unappealing, perhaps that's on purpose, like you're not actually committed to really meeting people and actually just here for quick wank bank material.

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

No

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

That was certainly an interesting read I think your first line kinda tells us that yes you do sound like a cunt being honest here you shouldn't be on here you should be with your wife you need to talk not cheat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slightly unhinged

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By *yselfAndHerCouple
over a year ago

Coventry


"Had some harsh words lately and wondering if I've worded my set up wrong tbf it's seems its males that find it most offencive and I didn't realise that how it came across I do have ADD and maybe that's why I don't realise? "

If you are cheating, well yes.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Slightly unhinged "

Summed it up nicely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop blaming everything on ADHD for a start. And so sorry for your wife!

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By *randMrsLPCouple
over a year ago

london


"Had some harsh words lately and wondering if I've worded my set up wrong tbf it's seems its males that find it most offencive and I didn't realise that how it came across I do have ADD and maybe that's why I don't realise?

Nice click-bait. You already know how you come across. "

Agree and just using that word is a massive turn-off for life

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Yes, yes it does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got inattentive ADHD. Makes me intuitive and sensitive or a cunt. You’ve deleted your profile text but even the joke you’ve replaced it with gives off a passive aggressive vibe given this thread.

Yes people with ADHD including myself struggle with monogamy but you’ll never overcome the public perception that doing so is wrong to the majority. ADHDers are constantly seeking excitement/dopamine and when relationships stop being exciting, it’s easy to get tempted by the excitement of someone new.

Now my marriage is over, that’s why I’m here. It’s a double edged sword though because I’m not a fuck machine and need connection with someone before I can be intimate with them. I’ve been on here browsing for a long time and never met anyone from the site (although was introduced to the site by someone on here) and only chatted with a few.

For me sex with other neurodivergent people is the best. We tend to be kinky and empathetic so we will be able to relate to each other. We’re often people pleasers by the nature of the condition and the way we’re treated. So tend to be very focussed on others pleasure.

Please don’t give people with ADHD a bad name and if your profile was a real reflection of you before you changed it… then it’s not the profile that needs amendment, you need to look at yourself. I think you probably think that coming across as cocky and arrogant will be attractive. In my experience rarely does anyone worth meeting feel that way.

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By *oingforit99Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Yes

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