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By *ndyfritz2015 OP Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

Why is it so hard to meet people?

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

The odds on here are stacked against you, nothing you can do about that.

As you haven’t asked for profile critique I can’t tell you the other reasons

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

Messy bedroom is a massive turn off, it shows a lack of general self pride, but more importantly a lack of effort for making a good impression on here.

Literally nothing on your profile, unless you send a lot of detail in your messages, no one knows anything about you.

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By *eelGoodIncMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Socials socials and more socials! That's the way forward on this site if you want to meet people my friend. It's a great way of networking and getting that all important meet verification that most people require before meeting one to one. There's always social events posted up on here. Keep an eye out and actually go to one

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By *eelGoodIncMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"Messy bedroom is a massive turn off, it shows a lack of general self pride, but more importantly a lack of effort for making a good impression on here.

Literally nothing on your profile, unless you send a lot of detail in your messages, no one knows anything about you. "

I agree. That room is rather messy lol

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Messy bedroom is a massive turn off, it shows a lack of general self pride, but more importantly a lack of effort for making a good impression on here.

Literally nothing on your profile, unless you send a lot of detail in your messages, no one knows anything about you. "

^^^^^^

What they said

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

"Why is it so hard to meet people? "

Is it though?

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By *ndyfritz2015 OP Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

Isn’t my bedroom ??

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Isn’t my bedroom ??"

Maybe add that to your bio and the offers will flood in

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

"Isn’t my bedroom ??"

Fact you think that's a valid explanation explains exactly why you're having no success.

The fact you thought that was a worth while picture in the first place says a lot.

With a decent profile and photos, you are the type of guy we meet but we'd instantly delete your message based on your profile.

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

"Messy bedroom is a massive turn off, it shows a lack of general self pride, but more importantly a lack of effort for making a good impression on here.

Literally nothing on your profile, unless you send a lot of detail in your messages, no one knows anything about you. "

Though most people will check out the ptofile before even considering opening a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn’t my bedroom ??

Fact you think that's a valid explanation explains exactly why you're having no success.

The fact you thought that was a worth while picture in the first place says a lot.

With a decent profile and photos, you are the type of guy we meet but we'd instantly delete your message based on your profile. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it so hard to meet people?

Is it though?"

A decent written first message and first impressions of physical attraction. Conversation and connection are key. Nothinh hard in this at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The odds on here are stacked against you, nothing you can do about that.

As you haven’t asked for profile critique I can’t tell you the other reasons

As poster above says op has not asked for his profile to be inspected.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

You get out what you put in, put in no effort don't expect much in return.

Put in more effort and it'll show.

Mrs

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Why is it so hard to meet people? "

Which people?

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Most don't demand a massive effort but they do expect a little.

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By *ervus88Man
over a year ago

Preston

Yes îs true

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

All these years on here we've never met anyone on a meet arranged on Fab.

(not that we've really tried hard to be fair)

However we've met loads of great people through organised socials, clubs and parties. As well as people we've picked up in bars and camps in the vanilla world. Some of these people have become close freinds of ours.

So for us success lies out there in the physical world, not behind a screen.

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

Just a guess but have you got an anal fetishis or something I mean you've posted nothing but anal threads maybe that's a red flag to some

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

Sadly you hid your profile before I got here but judging from the comments it wasn't good news. Dude it takes time, effort and patience to get on well here. It really is that simple a good bio + good photos + some patience = results that's the magic formula it doesn't guarantee actual nookie that's on you when you do meet but that really is all it takes

As Brian fontana said in anchorman

"60 percent of the time it works every time"

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"The odds on here are stacked against you, nothing you can do about that.

As you haven’t asked for profile critique I can’t tell you the other reasons

Yes you can if its relevant, it's in the rules

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"The odds on here are stacked against you, nothing you can do about that.

As you haven’t asked for profile critique I can’t tell you the other reasons

As poster above says op has not asked for his profile to be inspected.

Read the rules, if it's relevant you can mention it.

This old chestnut keeps cropping up.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

From the rules:

No nit-picking please

Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued or if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success, please don't critique their profile or be mean about it. We want the forum to be open and friendly to newbies and everyone starts somewhere.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

Why is it so hard to crop pictures?

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