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Ladies, what is your biggest turn offs/ icks with dm

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By *igglesss OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

Title says it all.

What is your biggest Icks for guys dming you.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Getting messages along the lines "will be in your area in 30 min, faf?", or "my balls are heavy, need someone to drain them". Or "I'm in need of a handjob but only of you're local". I bet you get my drift?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ageism, comments like....are you still playing

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By *igglesss OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

My lord

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By *ickeyandmouseCouple
over a year ago

nr Alicante


"Getting messages along the lines "will be in your area in 30 min, faf?", or "my balls are heavy, need someone to drain them". Or "I'm in need of a handjob but only of you're local". I bet you get my drift? "

I honesty find this unbleivable

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By *ainbow_RoadWoman
over a year ago

Brighton

99% of messages from blokes tbh. Especially the firing crude stuff straight off the bat...

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

messages from people who clearly haven't read the profile and just want what they want... a quick free shag. No thankyou.

a profile with no content or just loads of dick pics... I am not impressed in the slightest

pushy desperate thirsty people who get up themselves when no means no

text type messages and endless inbox ping pong like wuu2? for goodness sake, communicate properly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where are you going dogging" like they just expect a meet cos I will fuck anyone cos we go dogging when if you ask my man I am fussy as hell.

Sorry rant over lol

Mrs

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By *igglesss OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

[Removed by poster at 10/09/23 20:56:18]

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By *igglesss OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

You’re good haha. That would annoy me

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By *ickeyandmouseCouple
over a year ago

nr Alicante


"Getting messages along the lines "will be in your area in 30 min, faf?", or "my balls are heavy, need someone to drain them". Or "I'm in need of a handjob but only of you're local". I bet you get my drift? "

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By *ickeyandmouseCouple
over a year ago

nr Alicante


"Getting messages along the lines "will be in your area in 30 min, faf?", or "my balls are heavy, need someone to drain them". Or "I'm in need of a handjob but only of you're local". I bet you get my drift? "

Unbelievable

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire


"Ageism, comments like....are you still playing "

By heck.... Had to check you're age twice as thought it was a typo. You look stunning and age is merely a number not a restiction

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Any message that expects me to be available straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“I know I’m not what you’re looking for but…..”.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

Messages from blokes who think I (fem) need to be shown a good time.

Erm, my MR can do that perfectly well

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Cock pics.

Meet now's.

Mrs

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Messages with sligh hint I should take up their offer due to my age.

Those with dick pictures attached.

Those suggesting their missus would like to try how it is to be with an older woman.

Those are the ones that don’t usually go well.

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst


"99% of messages from blokes tbh. Especially the firing crude stuff straight off the bat..."

Do you get any specific about the "helmet"... you know... "I'll show you my helmet since you are showing yours" etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any message that expects me to be available straight away."

Is 30 minutes enough notice?

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By *ickeyandmouseCouple
over a year ago

nr Alicante


""Where are you going dogging" like they just expect a meet cos I will fuck anyone cos we go dogging when if you ask my man I am fussy as hell.

Sorry rant over lol

Mrs"

Not a rant , quite right, your rules

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By *unniebee1970Woman
over a year ago

The Hive

Nice Tits! Do I wanna meet...

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By *ackonceagain1777Couple
over a year ago

West Mids

When we've opened the filters probably 90% of them

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By *ung nine inchMan
over a year ago

leeds

Too many let downs on fab

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By *elshB_boiMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Jeez i always knew it must be tough on women/couples here but damn.

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By *igglesss OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

Ikr, I feel for these lasses.

Although trying to stand out from the sea of cocks can be difficult I feel like women and couples see my age and so no lol.

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

Toilet bowl selfies and telling me what they'd do to me with absolutely no idea what I'm into are probably the least attractive other than the previous stated and obvious "wanna fuk now" or "meet today" or a particularly dapper gent recently who told me to "call him slut".. but I think I got it wrong due to lack of punctuation and emphasis on who exactly was the slut in said scenario.

Silly goose.

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By *inkystar1Woman
over a year ago

Heathfield

Guys that just write hi.

At least put some effort in

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

Anything from anyone where it’s clear they haven’t read my profile.

Any mini graphic novel detailing the many things I should (presumably) be grateful they should do to me.

Revolting dick pics from people who aren’t my preference

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham

Anything along the lines of

'she'd get it'

'ur missus has great tits'

Firstly she had a name and secondly I read the messages too

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By *addubMan
over a year ago

dublin. 12

I would always ask if I could join them if they said they were going dogging .

Not everyone is invited to a dogging meeting.

I will offer to meet socially first to discuss any options available.

Common sense.

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