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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey all

Been here for a few months get 5-10 profile views a day from ladies and couples which is great but not getting a wink or a message from them. Also hardly anyone reads a message that I send. I understand that women are inundated with messages all the time but how do I stop my messages getting lost amongst everyone else's.

Would really appreciate your advice. Please be honest and gentle

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I like the idea of a bold head. But a little proof reading helps.

Your profile looks okay. Gives enough of an idea about you and doesn't show a complete lack of effort.

There's some variety in your pictures, gives a decent idea of physical attraction levels. One dick pic is the correct amount as far as I'm concerned.

It may well be more down to your actual approach in messages.

Finding compatible people is a struggle for everyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for your reply. I try to take things from their profile that I have liked and centre the message around that. I don't write generic messages and I only send out 1 or 2 messages at a time rather than a blanket canvas of my local area. Maybe it's more of a waiting game. But it's difficult to stay motivated

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

I can't speak for the UK but I found quickly that trying to get meets from cold messaging was like pissing into the wind in Ireland.

I stopped sending cold messages. Got my first few coffee meet veri's through games and flirting in the forum and went to group socials and a club from there.

That's just what worked for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah I was going to post another asking if there were general chat rooms like kik. Made a lot of friends there although also full of idiots. Thanks for your advice

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

The only way to stand out on here is to be original mate. Sorry but there's no overnight fix no miracle cure. It's just hard work perseverance and being original and interesting within both your profile and messages. That's all it is no magic involved just patience and luck

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