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Any tips to being new on FAB would be greatly appreciated.

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By *igglesss OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

Hey all would be appreciated if you would give js some advice.

Main tips are how to stand out

What sort of things are people looking for

How to sift out the time wasters since the people I’ve been talking to sort a meet out or is

interested then drops of the edge of the planet.

Thanks for your time

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Hello, welcome to the forum

It can be difficult to stand out but I'd say decent pictures and a concise but informative profile.

People are looking for varying things, read their profiles and it'll give you a good idea

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Darn it! Pressed post too soon.

It can be difficult to sort out the people who will genuinely meet from the ones who like to talk the talk. Maybe suggest an early coffee meet.

Good luck

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By *igglesss OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

Thanks for the input ??

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By *onningtonplumberMan
over a year ago

Donnington

OP

Like me you are obviously married or in a relationship, it will be tough but you look fit enough, maybe being a (Bobby) will tingle some girls (women's fantasies)

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Profile looks ok bio reads well, maybe better pics and explain why you can't accommodate (most will assume you have a gf/wife)

Your age range would put me off.

There's lots of local socials maybe go along to one and meet people get verified & join in the forums it's a great way to get to know people.

Mrs

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Overall ok.

However, a better range of photos, explanation of why you cannot meet and removal of your job role might help.

I'm find those who think their job will get them laid, especially in such a role as yours, rather ick but that's just me, others will like the idea.

Just be you...

Nita

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham


"OP

Like me you are obviously married or in a relationship, it will be tough but you look fit enough, maybe being a (Bobby) will tingle some girls (women's fantasies) "

Why is he obviously married or in a relationship ?

He's 23. More likely in student digs or family home is why he can't accom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get involved on the forums, maybe few more pics, bio is fine though, be polite in messages, know your audience and above all don't expect too much...and best of luck

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields


"Hey all would be appreciated if you would give js some advice.

Main tips are how to stand out

What sort of things are people looking for

How to sift out the time wasters since the people I’ve been talking to sort a meet out or is

interested then drops of the edge of the planet.

Thanks for your time "

You're much better off with photos which don't need to blur your face, ie just don't have your fave in the photo. Also some decent lighting.

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By *igglesss OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

Yeah Exactly that lol

I’m bunking with a colleague which wouldn’t appreciate me bringing strangers to the flat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah Exactly that lol

I’m bunking with a colleague which wouldn’t appreciate me bringing strangers to the flat. "

You never know unless you ask

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

Same advice as always go to clubs, don't be an aggressive dick bag, put time and effort in to your profile, be original when it comes to messages and just don't expect anything to be handed to you fab takes a lot of work effort and time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tip 1: Have zero expectations. For a single male here, expectations are the mother of disappointment. Unless you expect nothing, then your expectations will be met.

Tip 2: Be kind. You won’t get it back, and the majority here treat people as a commodity and feel justified in doing so. But by being kind, polite and honest you can hold your head and standards high, while others are losing theirs.

Tip 3: Don’t be a dick, ever. Be the bigger, better person.

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Delete your account ASAP , save you a few years of pissing about with time wasters idiots ,

go to where you can meet people for real ???

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By *assP69Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth


"Thanks for the input ??"

Is this a question? Lol

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By *igglesss OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

No fab doesn’t recognise emojis for some reason.

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
over a year ago

Hyde

Just remember that it's hard for single guys on here. They outnumber the women and then many just are rude or shitty.

Sadly.... if you rely on fab for meets you may have trouble. But a good msg / profile and pics can help- as well as targeting your efforts. Check that a woman or couple are actually looking for someone like you or what you're also into.

Good luck

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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago

Fylde Coast

Big red flags on here.

No public and or face pictures

Can't accommodate

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Get yourself to a cubs ‘n’ cougars club night young man, let those ladies teach you a few things..

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