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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m a mature but fit straight guy who’s new here. I’m a bit late to this, but hoping to have my first 3some? No luck so far, so does anyone have any advice for me when chatting to couples? I’m fit for my age, positive, outgoing and not to shabby I hope? Do I need have a subscription to be taken seriously? Or maybe I’m just too old for this scene? Honest answers welcome?

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By *orthernJayMan
over a year ago

LHR

It’s never too late OP, personally think you look great; you’re confident so don’t get inside your head!

Fab is world within the world, I’d suggest a club wherever you can, you’ll get a few verifications and chat to people; anything else is a bonus.

Have zero expectations on here, anything more than that equals disappointment!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't think you are too old as you are the same age as me !

Eight weeks is still very recent. There is plenty of time ahead of you for fun.

Have you been messaging couples ?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I'd suggest dropping the woe is me no luck yet part and adding a bit more about yourself.

But, as has been said, 8 weeks is nothing here. Keep your chin up, try to make a connection with the people who genuinely interest you and that you match the preferences of and I'm sure you'll do fine

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Just chat to couples as you would anybody but he aware that there are two of them. You don't need a subscription to be taken seriously but you will need patience. You're not too old.

What were your expectations when you joined, how did you imagine things would go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think the age is an issue. There are lots of members in your age bracket. As a couple we look at men aged up to 58 (partner is 55) .. but older couples probably go older. Age isn’t a problem.

Your photos are also good. You are a handsome chap. Good figure. You have avoided dick pics which is a definite positive!

I don’t think it matters that you aren’t a paid member, but having photo verification and some verified meets helps! (Perhaps you could get to a club to meet some people and get your first veris)

Your profile text is good: one spelling mistake (to/too) but that wouldn’t put me off.

Maybe the fact you don’t accommodate puts some people off… a lot of couples might prefer a guy who can accommodate.

Generally I think you aren’t doing anything wrong and just be patient.. get out there to the clubs and try to meet people.

It’s difficult for single men, there are lots of you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a man has can't accommodate on his profile, some assume that means he's married.

What kind of 3some are you looking for?

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Please, just go to a club. I have a hunch you’ll do pretty well there, and it’s absolutely the easiest way of connecting with people.

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