FabSwingers.com forum: Advice, ideas and tips....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm Ross, 29, recently separated, and I'm looking to try some new things and play with some new people. I'm turned on by willingness, lust, other men's wives, girls who cum when I say, a nice smile to name just a few! I'm public school and university educated, professional, discreet, clean and looking for fun and maybe something repeatable. Am looking for advice, things to try, tips and fun, all input welcome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello and welcome.

The fact you can't accommodate will put a lot off.

Other than that, be polite,patient and respectful. Never expect an answer Oran instant shag... use the forums to get yourself known and go to a club...

Have fun and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to Fab and the forums

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Hello and welcome. Are there really women who can come to order? You will need to stand out from the other single guys but you seem to have made a good start, good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello and welcome. Are there really women who can come to order? You will need to stand out from the other single guys but you seem to have made a good start, good luck

Yes we can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Are there really women who can come to order? "

Its certainly possible to train a woman to

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

"Are there really women who can come to order? "

I can, but only one man and woman has managed it so far!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

" Are there really women who can come to order?

Its certainly possible to train a woman to

is it? Blimey you learn something new every day. Not my sort of thing at all though.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Dare I mention the Galactic Empire and the rebel scum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are we not guna be enlightened?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Public school educated and still likes women? Blimey.

Welcome aboard. I'm not sure i get the "coming on demand" thing though, surely that just takes all the fun out of the meet?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Are we not guna be enlightened? "

Well, once upon a time, in a galaxy far, far away....there are films....

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Public school educated and still likes women? Blimey.

Welcome aboard. I'm not sure i get the "coming on demand" thing though, surely that just takes all the fun out of the meet?"

That 50 shades has got a lot to answer for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because you can't accommodate won't put anyone off, loads of people can't for lots of different reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just because you can't accommodate won't put anyone off, loads of people can't for lots of different reasons."

I have to say that I have a quiet laugh to myself when these threads appear, and the advice which is usually trotted out.

I'm married, can't accommodate, never been to a social, never been to a party, never been to a club. But......I have had an occasional meet or two!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact you can't accommodate will put a lot off.

This comment was based on reading other posts by people who can't accommodate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just because you can't accommodate won't put anyone off, loads of people can't for lots of different reasons."

I think as has been shown time and time again on the forums being able to accomodate is viewed a massive plus point. And personally I have been on here as a single male who at various times has and hasn't been able to accomodate and believe me being able to accomodate make meets much easier to come by.

You can't accomdate - ask yourself this, 3 near identical profiles: 1 that can't accomodate, 1 that can't accomodate but with a little bit of planning and notice can organise a hotelk and 1 that can accomodate at any time in his flat. Seriously would you really view all 3 in the same way?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"I'm Ross, 29, recently separated, and I'm looking to try some new things and play with some new people. I'm turned on by willingness, lust, other men's wives, girls who cum when I say, a nice smile to name just a few! I'm public school and university educated, professional, discreet, clean and looking for fun and maybe something repeatable. Am looking for advice, things to try, tips and fun, all input welcome!

the fact you have copy and pasted from what was on your profile doesn't exactly show the most imaginative of thoughts..

so are you after genuine help... or just a look at me effort??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the fact you have copy and pasted from what was on your profile doesn't exactly show the most imaginative of thoughts..

so are you after genuine help... or just a look at me effort?? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have thought it pretty obvious that being able to accommodate is a plus point, it's not rocket science!

But you can either accommodate or you can't; if you can, fine, if you can't, so be it. But it's not a total deal breaker!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

My advice for when people boast about their education is to check their spelling and grammar. Yours needs work. C+ only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any advice, ideas or tips eh?

Well here's advice. If, at 29 you need to ask for advice and tips in order to get laid.................

but hey, since you ask.

Boasting of your achievements will only set yourself up for an epic fail.

Instead, concentrate of telling people about your personality, hobbies besides trying to bed the female fab population and any interesting things you may have done or would like to do.

There's a wealth of tools and threads on the forums offering useful help. Just have a root around and take it on board.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit, I knew something was missing off my profile! I didnt mention im state educated yet can still spell and add and hold a conversation!

See, that would put me off cos u sound like ur a tory knob by saying ur public school educated. Doesnt make u more attractive to people. Makes u sound like u dont do people that are below u.

But thats just me. Sure u will have fun but in my opinion your profile needs tweaking.

Good luck

Nico

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said above

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By *inter plumWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

" Are there really women who can come to order?

Its certainly possible to train a woman to

before considering training a woman, consider how to untrain her once you get bored of your game.

Dont be a dim dom and play with things beyond your comprehension, you will end up doing lasting damage to your victim

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Hi Ross. I'd update your spelling/typos, and consider what others have added here - seems most don't want to know full educational details, and at best that may be a distraction, but could also be found to be off-putting for others.

Perhaps the bigger impact could be made via your photos. You have one photo just now, and to compete with the other single guys you would benefit from a greater range.

Add in some practical info, such as which areas you'd meet in, whether you'd stand a hotel cost etc.

Good luck!

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