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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just after some constructive criticism on my profile, maybe you fab legends might notice something, any advice welcome to help my profile and maybe help get some chats going lol happy Friday people x

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I mean, you're not for me OP, but that being apparent from the bio means we don't waste time finding that out through conversation, so that's a positive.

I would say one photo doesn't give much to go on in terms of physical attraction. And the not as bad as some of the guys here vibe towards the end was an outright negative for me, whereas the previous content was just not to my personal taste.

Good luck out there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Because you get notifications if someone has viewed your profile, it's like when people ignore your messages not saying all of them as I understand its busy for women and couples and messages get lost but they don't even view your profile just get flat out ignored

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

Patience is key persevering is even more vital and just have a look at other successful profiles take inspiration(don't be stealing) from them work on it a bio isn't something you can't knock up in 5 minutes it takes time took me ages to finally be OK on my bio and tbh I'll still work on it best thing to do is take everything said here as a positive

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Because you get notifications if someone has viewed your profile, it's like when people ignore your messages not saying all of them as I understand its busy for women and couples and messages get lost but they don't even view your profile just get flat out ignored "

Most women and couples exist in ninja mode so they don't constantly get messages from people whose profiles they've looked at and decided aren't for them asking why they didn't message. Obviously I've viewed you to give feedback at all, but I shouldn't appear on your who's looked at me list.

Many people will also look at a profile before even opening a message. If the profile doesn't appeal, they'll leave it unread (or open it then mark it as unread) rather than deal with the likelihood of rude messages if they leave it on read or delete it. It's a common enough occurrence to be a concern.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People definitely look at profiles so it does matter what you write

I think the words crude and smut unfortunately when I read your profile. It's the wording/description of of what you say your good at is off putting but that's my opinion. There are others that may be looking for what your looking for and like the language you use.

Take a look at other profiles

Don't take this place as your guarantee to meet

Peace out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I had no idea about this ninja mode! Well that makes alot more sense, even if it means admitting that people could still be viewing my profile and I'm not for them lol which is fine, what is it I said at the end of my profile that you said put you off, out of interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women will like the vulgar tone of your bio but unfortunately most won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certain type of verifications will put certain women off as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, would be a good thing to look at the tabs and look into each one to learn about how to work the site. Especially the account settings, privacy settings

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've only got 2 lol what do you mean by types of verifications? Sorry if it's a stupid question

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"not a pest like I see alot of people moaning about guys on here"

Gives the simultaneous vibes of:

Thinks they're better than everyone.

Thinks people here should shut up moaning.

Thinks the bare minimum of social etiquette should be enough.

In terms of verifications, put whichever ones you like. Some people don't like to see sexual verifications, some people don't like to see no sexual verifications. There's no pleasing everyone, and why would you want to anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""not a pest like I see alot of people moaning about guys on here"

Gives the simultaneous vibes of:

Thinks they're better than everyone.

Thinks people here should shut up moaning.

Thinks the bare minimum of social etiquette should be enough.

In terms of verifications, put whichever ones you like. Some people don't like to see sexual verifications, some people don't like to see no sexual verifications. There's no pleasing everyone, and why would you want to anyway?"

^^^she is the wise one^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""not a pest like I see alot of people moaning about guys on here"

Gives the simultaneous vibes of:

Thinks they're better than everyone.

Thinks people here should shut up moaning.

Thinks the bare minimum of social etiquette should be enough.

In terms of verifications, put whichever ones you like. Some people don't like to see sexual verifications, some people don't like to see no sexual verifications. There's no pleasing everyone, and why would you want to anyway?"

Agree with both points

He absolutely should show whatever veris he's wants but there is no doubt that a lot of women find explicit ones off putting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see it all the time, people moaning about others bothering them and being a pest, I thought by writing that I was just making it clear that im not a pest but thank you for bringing it up in a light that I obviously didn't see

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

"Don't put too much here" = can't be arsed typing a proper bio, you do the leg work!

That's my opinion

On the strength of that I probably would engage with you

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Your status about "snow" will put some off looking any further op.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The talk of drugs is just like shooting yourself in the foot.

Why ask for advice when you have that on your status?

Some people lol.

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By * Little Taste of CrimsonCouple
over a year ago

Here and there

Yup the status would be a huge red flag for us. You do you, but we block those who post similar statuses close to us.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

The current status would be an instant delete.

One pic and it doesn’t give me much to go off.

No real write up and part of it is about your missing veri. I don’t know what you’re looking for or what you offer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like everyone else is saying, your current status is a complete turn off. No judgment on what you do but surely this isn’t the best platform to be trying to pick up from.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

OK. So now your bio doesn't directly put me personqlly off. But it also says absolutely nothing, so with nothing to engage with it would just be an instant ignore.

If you're chemical friendly and intend to be so on meets, that's something people should be aware of from the profile rather than wasting time to find it out directly or being surprised with it.

Good luck out there.

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

You say in your bio that you have a verification but the woman who did it has left the site so it doesn’t show…but we can see that you have 2 verifications, one from a woman and one from a couple.

Even if you had no verifications but claimed to have had one from someone who’s left the site then no one’s going to believe that, even if it is true, so it’s better not to mention it anyway.

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

Also I wouldn't be asking for that kinda thing in you status's kinda does give off a not so desirable impression

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