FabSwingers.com forum: Profile advice

By *ucy78 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

Not getting the attention I like. Not in a big headed way but the people viewing me.

Is it the pictures??

Or the profile?

Any recommendations appreciated

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

You have a lot of pictures of your dick on your profile and I’m wondering if that’s a turn off for some people…I don’t know if it is or not because there has never been a thread that someone with loads of dick pics has created to ask for profile advice and been told that having loads of dicks pics is a turn off so it’s impossible for us to know if it’s a turn off or not. I’m sure that as soon as there is such a thread you’ll know whether having loads of dick pics is a good or bad thing to do and be able to adjust your profile accordingly.

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By *ucy78 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

I’ve been told by many I have a nice cock. So obviously that encourages me to add more. I do agree probably to many if I was to review pics

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"I’ve been told by many I have a nice cock. So obviously that encourages me to add more. I do agree probably to many if I was to review pics "

Well you do have a nice cock but all I ever read is people saying they get turned off by lots of dick pics on a profile, they don’t say they get turned off unless it’s a nice cock haha.

Maybe just have one dick pic to show that you have a nice cock rather than loads of them.

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By *ucy78 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I’ve been told by many I have a nice cock. So obviously that encourages me to add more. I do agree probably to many if I was to review pics

Well you do have a nice cock but all I ever read is people saying they get turned off by lots of dick pics on a profile, they don’t say they get turned off unless it’s a nice cock haha.

Maybe just have one dick pic to show that you have a nice cock rather than loads of them. "
I agree I’ll try and filter it tomorrow. But it’s catch 22 some love the dick pics but lots say they ain’t interested. But then state no small dicks. Guys can’t win on here

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"I’ve been told by many I have a nice cock. So obviously that encourages me to add more. I do agree probably to many if I was to review pics

Well you do have a nice cock but all I ever read is people saying they get turned off by lots of dick pics on a profile, they don’t say they get turned off unless it’s a nice cock haha.

Maybe just have one dick pic to show that you have a nice cock rather than loads of them. I agree I’ll try and filter it tomorrow. But it’s catch 22 some love the dick pics but lots say they ain’t interested. But then state no small dicks. Guys can’t win on here "

You can win. Everything in moderation. That aside is that a pic of you on the toilet with knickers down? If so yuk for most. Also not sure what is going on with your first pic of a screenshot of a chat. Apart from anything else again Fab rules.

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

It's a uhhh shall we say very confusing profile. Really not sure what you are actually looking for and I think you don't know either lots of cock shots which doesn't help as surprise surprise women really don't get hot on that. Uhhh honestly I'd have a gander on some of the other more successful profiles and see if inspiration strikes it took me awhile to finally settle on my bio and tbh I'm still not 100 percent with it hope this is constructive criticism and you don't take it to heart I mean no offence

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

It is a bit confusing op as you state you're straight in tagline ,then have bi curious twice in your profile,so maybe amend that.

There would be too much cock for me in your pics ,a couple is fine ,but I think when it becomes loads it can put women off

That you're married with permission may ask influence people ,can this be verified with your wife or do people just take your word for it. So many men claim this but then can't back it up and then others get suspicious and avoid.

I mean no offense with the permission but,my other half has met alone several times and I've happily spoken to his meets and confirmed it with them.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What kind of attention are you looking for OP and who is your target market?

If it’s women then as others have said, the amount of cock shots are very off putting.

You are unverified by meet having been on the site for over a year, that could be seen as a red flag by some.

You’re upfront about being married but again this could put some off.

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By *ucy78 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

Hi all. Thanks for advice.

The pictures definitely seem to be one problem. So I will sieve through them and keep the ones I think are best.

As for profile not saying what I’m interested in. I got told before that profile was too long and puts people off so I abbreviated it.

As for sexuality I’m straight but very curious to try bisexual fun.

As for being married wife is happy for me to have occasional fun with a woman. Her fantasy. We did have couples profile but as normal we was inundated with messages men wanting her.

Again thank you all

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Hi all. Thanks for advice.

The pictures definitely seem to be one problem. So I will sieve through them and keep the ones I think are best.

As for profile not saying what I’m interested in. I got told before that profile was too long and puts people off so I abbreviated it.

As for sexuality I’m straight but very curious to try bisexual fun.

As for being married wife is happy for me to have occasional fun with a woman. Her fantasy. We did have couples profile but as normal we was inundated with messages men wanting her.

Again thank you all"

I'd maybe cross ref your couple profile in your single one op,that's what we do .Then people can see your wife is here and that she can say she's happy for your to play etc.

Also I'd say you're bi curious not straight ,if you're looking to explore fun with men ,some couples will discount men who have straight but want to play bi.

Good luck

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By *ucy78 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

We deleted couples profile it was pointless. Men/ women never addressed me. Was all about wife as you are all probably aware having a couple profile.

As for stating bisexual it puts women off when I haven’t had bi sex. So keep it open.

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

nothing to do with with your profile , ignore people advising you on your pics , etc....

going to a club is the only way to meet people .

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By *ucy78 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

I couldn’t go alone though. To nervous until In with a crowd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many pics. Remove some of them to friends only. I would say just keep no more than 10 pics to public (I should probably follow this advice myself too!) and choose the sexiest ones for public.. including no more than one dick pic, and some of the ones in the sexy lingerie.

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By *ucy78 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

I’ve removed a fair few already and some pics I still don’t like but like people to see real me and not mislead people.

Lingerie pics I’m desperate to upload some new ones but don’t get space and time alone.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Guys can’t win on here "

I was about to check the profile and see if I had any advice, but don't think I'll bother now.

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

"nothing to do with with your profile , ignore people advising you on your pics , etc....

going to a club is the only way to meet people ."
ignore this to a certain point clubs aren't the only way of meeting I've never been to a club and still have actually had meets through chatting on here clubs do help and they do make it easier but if you put in the effort with profile and pics then the interest will follow

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By *ucy78 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

Clubs do interest me to try.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"nothing to do with with your profile , ignore people advising you on your pics , etc....

going to a club is the only way to meet people ."

The only way? It may be for you but it really isn’t the only way. Not even the main way.

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By *ucy78 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

I know. I’d rather meet a friend outside of club scene. I was saying I would like to experience a club night

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