(Adding on from the other list)
Hotwife - Married woman who is encouraged by her partner to meet other men, either with him or solo.
Vixen and stag - Couple who enjoy watching eachother with others for the pleasure their partner gets to experience. No humiliation involved.
Dom - Dominant partner (sometimes described as “domme” if female), wide spectrum of intensity. Used within a BDSM context commonly. Where power is exchanged through negotiation and consent. Someone's can be called a 'Top' where no power is exchanged just a physical interaction for example giving someone a spanking with no control over them.
Submissive - In the BDSM context, someone whom likes another to take control of them within a pre negotiated parameter and always with consent. Likes often vary from taking a submissive role in sex to being used a degraded, spanking or more extreme pain play - kinks are far and wide. (Other sub- labels of submissives are out there- Brat, little, sl@ve, prey, rope bunny, slut, doll, service etc) Sometimes can be called a 'bottom' when involved in an exchange that doesn't exchange power or control.
Switch- BDSM term for someone who can take both Dom and sub roles
Cuck - Voyeur partner observing who is also playing a humiliating role ie watching his partner with someone superior to him, bigger, more attractive etc, whilst he can’t join in or can only join in by cleaning up, filming or pleasuring either party.
Cuckquean- the wife of a man whom goes and has sex. She could like to be humiliated, or take pleasure in finding women for him to fuck. She doesn't get involved in sexual activity and maybe not present.
Cuckcake - in old school terms 'the mistress'- she is the woman a man in a couple would have sex with with consent from his wife/cuckquean.
Brat - Submissive who has a little “fight” in them, pushing their dom with resistance and sass in the context of the play.
Bull - a Male roll, the bull is often brought in to have sex with a 'cucks' partner or being even to have sex with the vixen or hotwife. Generally well hung with sexual experience
Gang bang- a woman having sex with 3+ men
Reverse Gang bang - A man having sex with 3+ women
Pineapple- well known symbol for swingers, upside down means the person is looking to meet other swingers. An old school symbol outside someone's house is pampas grass.
Dogging - a sexual activity where usually strangers meet up outdoors for anonymous sexual activity. The perceived idea is a woman or perhaps couple arriving in a car and meeting single men.
Exhibitionist - where someone likes to be seen/ show off themselves. Doesn't necessarily have to be doing something sexual but an example of this could be having sex in a public area or wearing revealing clothes
Voyeur - where someone likes to look or watch other people. In a sexual sense this could be watching ppl fuck at a swingers club
Full swap - where 2 couples decide they will have penetrative sex with the other persons partner
Soft swap - where 2 couples decide they wish to swap partners but only for oral/ hands and not penetrative sex |
